After You My Friend
dustbox Lyrics


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Here he is. He saves a grin
He wants to be the one who doesn't have to sink a level
Indiscrete, in his retreat
All he need is just a taste of the bitter pride he held in her name
Embrace the solitude in ordinary fucked up state of grace
Far away from the days he bared
The cross he used to wear
In some resolve well aware
A little pitiful, a pin up boy they dress in grieving wear
Well at ease in consent
In the drift of undertow

He won't justify the pity from them
When he knows... fools in love are arrogant
Their sermons cloud his breathing air
He's in love with an isolation from emotion

Here he is awaiting sentence
A fool to think that anyone can escape guilt and anguish
A subtlety that can't be learned
A subtlety that can't be taught
He is caught in the lure of second thoughts
He might still care
As he settles down well aware
Bound in secrecy. His voice will
Only dignify their fears




But sorrow is signified
He's well aware of his pride

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Dustbox's song After You My Friend describe a person who is struggling with various conflicting emotions, particularly feelings of guilt, isolation, and pride. The song's opening lines speak of a person who presents a smiling face to the world, but is secretly longing to rise above the struggles of everyday life. He seeks solace in memories of a past relationship, which he holds onto as a source of bitter pride. The person is described as being at ease with his own isolation, yet also plagued by doubts and self-recriminations.


As the song progresses, the person is revealed to be awaiting some kind of sentence or judgment, and is depicted as recognizing the futility of trying to escape from guilt and anguish. The person struggles to come to terms with some kind of difficult truth, and is caught in the grip of second thoughts. The lyrics suggest that the person is not without some sense of sympathy or caring for others, but that these feelings are countered by the weight of his own pride and desire for secrecy.


Overall, the song paints a picture of a person who is trying to navigate the difficult waters of his own emotional life, struggling to reconcile his own feelings of pride and guilt, and wrestling with his own sense of isolation and longing for connection. It's a poignant and introspective exploration of the human heart, and is likely to resonate with anyone who has ever experienced the complex and often confusing interplay of feelings that define the human experience.


Line by Line Meaning

Here he is. He saves a grin
He's trying to put up a brave face while revealing himself.


He wants to be the one who doesn't have to sink a level
He desires to be that person who doesn't need to stoop low to someone else's level.


Indiscrete, in his retreat
In his hiding, he can't help but reveal some parts of himself.


All he needs is just a taste of the bitter pride he held in her name
He needs closure with his past hurt to sense his own self-worth.


Embrace the solitude in ordinary fucked up state of grace
He's accepting and finding beauty in his messed up state of mind all alone.


Far away from the days he bared
He's putting some distance between his past troubles and himself.


The cross he used to wear
He used to carry the burden of his pain on his shoulder.


In some resolve well aware
He's certain about a decision he made.


A little pitiful, a pin up boy they dress in grieving wear
He thinks people are portraying him as a weakling, a subject of pity.


Well at ease in consent
He's comfortable in his own agreement with his feelings.


In the drift of undertow
He's being carried away by his emotions without control.


He won't justify the pity from them
He's not going to explain why he doesn't deserve their pity.


When he knows... fools in love are arrogant
He believes that being in love can make you arrogant and foolish.


Their sermons cloud his breathing air
Their advice is not always helpful and it might be just confusing him even more.


He's in love with an isolation from emotion
He's in love with distancing himself from his own emotions.


Here he is awaiting sentence
He's uncertain of his fate.


A fool to think that anyone can escape guilt and anguish
He thinks it's foolish to assume that you can run away from what you've done or feel.


A subtlety that can't be learned
Some things can't be taught or explained clearly.


A subtlety that can't be taught
Therefore, others couldn't teach or explain him the subtle things he needs to understand.


He is caught in the lure of second thoughts
He's getting tempted by doubts that are seeding.


He might still care
He's not sure if he still has some emotion left for what he's left behind.


As he settles down well aware
As he tries to get back to calmness or stability, he's still conscious of his actions and feelings.


Bound in secrecy. His voice will
He's keeping some things undisclosed and his words.


Only dignify their fears
The only probable outcome of him speaking will be to dignify others' fears.


But sorrow is signified
He's expressing his sadness despite his attempts to hide it.


He's well aware of his pride
He's not deaf to the fact that his ego has contributed to his troubles.




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