The band released its debut single "Broken" in July 2017, which became a #1 hit on Billboard's Alternative Songs chart in Spring 2018. On August 3, 2018, lovelytheband released their debut album "Finding It Hard to Smile".
loneliness for love
lovelytheband Lyrics
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Her love seems sweet but it tastes so sour
Delicate like a dying flower
It felt so good so I'm wondering how
I could feel so low when you made me feel so high
I've been here before but this won't be the last time
I'm tryna find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
Hiding out in the peace and quiet
All dressed up in her silver lining
She shows up when she's uninvited
Every time that she sees me smiling
I feel so low when you made me feel so high
I've been here before but this won't be the last time
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm tryna find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I say that I will but I'll never change (but I'll never change)
I've been here before but I'm still the same
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm tryna find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
The lyrics of "Loneliness for Love" by lovelytheband explore the complexities of confusing loneliness with love. The singer describes a lover who arrives at ungodly hours, appearing delicate and sweet but ultimately leaving a sour taste in their mouth. The lover is likened to a dying flower, adding to the bittersweet nature of the relationship. Despite the tumultuous nature of their connection, the singer admits to feeling good and wondering how they could feel so low after feeling so high.
Throughout the song, the singer admits to mistaking loneliness for love, actively seeking out a sense of completion through romantic relationships. The lover becomes a silver lining, offering temporary relief from the singer's loneliness every time they appear. However, the singer cannot truly find themselves in someone else, and the cycle of seeking out relationships to fill a void ultimately leads to a feeling of stagnation.
The chorus repeats this theme, emphasizing the singer's desperation to avoid being alone and their willingness to settle for anything just to feel whole. The final lines of the song suggest that the singer is aware of their pattern but cannot break it, resigned to the fact that they will continue mistaking loneliness for love.
Overall, "Loneliness for Love" is a poignant exploration of the pitfalls of using relationships as a Band-Aid for deeper emotional issues. Through its relatable lyrics and catchy melody, the song reminds listeners of the importance of self-love and acceptance as a means of achieving genuine fulfillment.
Line by Line Meaning
She creeps in at ungodly hours
She appears unexpectedly, often at late or unreasonable times
Her love seems sweet but it tastes so sour
Although her love appears enjoyable, it has an unpleasant or negative effect
Delicate like a dying flower
Fragile, sensitive, and possibly nearing the end
It felt so good so I'm wondering how
I could feel so low when you made me feel so high
I've been here before but this won't be the last time
The experience was overwhelming and created positive emotions, but the aftermath brought negativity and confusion. This feeling is not unfamiliar, but may happen again.
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm tryna find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
The repetition suggests a cycle of falling for people and mistaking temporary connections for love. Leading to the desire to avoid loneliness and feel fulfilled by finding oneself through someone else.
Hiding out in the peace and quiet
All dressed up in her silver lining
She shows up when she's uninvited
Every time that she sees me smiling
Loneliness seems to lurk in moments of solace, appearing unexpectedly in the presence of joy or positivity.
I say that I will but I'll never change (but I'll never change)
I've been here before but I'm still the same
Despite acknowledging the cycle, there may be a resistance to change and a sense of stagnation.
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm tryna find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
Reinforcing the cycle, this chorus emphasizes a desire for connection, even if it is mistaken for love, in order to avoid loneliness and achieve a sense of wholeness.
Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Spirit Music Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Christian Medice, Jerm Daniels, Jordan Greenwald, Kevin Fischer, Mitchell Collins, Samuel Price
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
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She creeps in at ungodly hours
Her love seems sweet but it tastes so sour
Delicate like a dying flower
It felt so good so I'm wondering how
I could feel so low when you made me feel so high
I've been here before but this won't be the last time
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm trying to find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
Hiding out in the peace and quiet
All dressed up in her silver lining
She shows up when she's uninvited
Every time that she sees me smiling
I feel so low when you made me feel so high
I've been here before but this won't be the last time
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm trying to find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I say that I will but I'll never change
(But I'll never change)
I've been here before but I'm still the same
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
I'm trying to find myself inside someone
Anything at all not to feel alone
Anything at all just to feel whole
'Cause I keep mistaking loneliness for love
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@TobyKwon
I can't say that this band makes me feel less lonely, but their music makes being lonely feel better. And in the end, I don't have to feel good, I just want to feel better.
@Buggular
Toby love the reference to alone time :)
@Chevchonchis
Things will get better, push on homie
@deewill8915
Love this