Don't Come The Cowboy With Me Sonny Jim
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Some boys with warm beds and cold, cold hearts
Can make you feel nothing at all
They'll never remember and they'll never mind
If you're counting the cracks in the wall
They're quick and they're greedy
They never feel guilty
The boots just go back on
The socks that had stayed on
The next time they see you
They treat you like dirt
The next time they treat you like dirt
Now don't come the cowboy with me sonny jim
I know lots of those and you're not one of them
There's a light in your eyes tells me somebody's in
And you won't come the cowboy with me
Don't be too rough on my cold, cold heart
It's all I've got left to me now
I fell out of favour with heaven somewhere
And I'm here for the hell of it now
Some girls play cowboys
And some boys play harder to get
But they're got just the same
They smile and say cheese
They're so eager to please
But they'll never remember your name
The names and the places all change
But don't come the cowboy with me sonny jim
I know lots of those and you're not one of them
There's a light in your eyes tells me somebody's in
And you won't come the cowboy with me
Did somebody tell you I'm lonely as hell?
I didn't expect you to know me so well
If I learned a lesson it's how to bounce back again
Sometimes I bounce off the wall
And sometimes my head hits the floor
So don't come the cowboy with me sonny jim
I know lots of those and you're not one of them
There's a light in your eyes tells me somebody's in
And you won't come the cowboy, oh
Don't come the cowboy with me sonny jim
I know lots of those and you're not one of them
There's a light in your eyes tells me somebody's in
And you won't come the cowboy with me
In โDonโt Come The Cowboy With Me Sonny Jim,โ Kirsty MacColl sings about her experiences with men who donโt care for her emotionally, only using her for their own selfish purposes. She describes them as having โwarm beds and cold, cold hearts,โ never remembering her name or caring if they hurt her. These men are greedy and quick, never feeling guilty for their actions. She warns them not to treat her like dirt, refusing to allow them to come at her with their cowboy act. She can see through the facade and knows that they will never care for her the way she deserves.
However, when she meets someone different, someone who is not a cowboy, she is willing to give him a chance. There is a โlight in his eyesโ that suggests he is genuine and truly interested in her. She warns him not to be too rough on her heart but is willing to take the risk because itโs better than being alone. MacColl is not afraid to acknowledge her experiences and wants to find a meaningful connection with someone.
โDonโt Come The Cowboy With Me Sonny Jimโ is a song that speaks to people who have been hurt and used by others. MacColl describes how it feels to be in a relationship where one person cares more than the other. The songโs simplicity and straightforwardness are powerful, making it relatable to many people. The message is clear: donโt come at me with your cowboy act; I want something real.
Line by Line Meaning
Some boys with warm beds and cold, cold hearts
Some guys seem comfortable and nice, but deep down they lack empathy and emotion
Can make you feel nothing at all
Their emptiness can be contagious and affect your own emotions
They'll never remember and they'll never mind
They're indifferent to anyone's feelings and won't feel sorry for how they treat you
If you're counting the cracks in the wall
If you're with them, you'll likely be bored and unstimulated and have nothing better to do than look at flaws in the surroundings
They're quick and they're greedy
They're interested only in surface-level experiences and will prioritize their own wants over anyone else's
They never feel guilty
They have no remorse for their selfishness or any harm they may cause
They don't know the meaning of hurt
They're not able to understand or empathize with others' pain because their own emotions are so limited
The boots just go back on
They quickly move on to the next person, showing no emotional attachment or investment in anyone they encounter
The socks that had stayed on
They don't take time to develop deeper connections or intimacy with anyone, instead keeping things shallow and superficial
The next time they see you
They have no memory of you or any previous encounters
They treat you like dirt
If they do remember you, it's only to mistreat you further and treat you with disrespect
Now don't come the cowboy with me sonny jim
Don't try to act like one of those shallow guys who pretend to be something they're not, because I can see right through you
I know lots of those and you're not one of them
I have experience with guys who are fake and only interested in surface-level connections, and I can tell that you're not like them
There's a light in your eyes tells me somebody's in
You have a genuine and caring nature that shows in your eyes
And you won't come the cowboy with me
You won't put on an act or pretend to be something you're not, because you're a genuine person
Don't be too rough on my cold, cold heart
I've been through a lot and it's made me emotionally detached and distant
It's all I've got left to me now
My heart may be cold, but it's the only thing that's still really mine
I fell out of favour with heaven somewhere
Something happened in my life that made me feel like I'm not deserving of goodness or happiness
And I'm here for the hell of it now
I'm just going through the motions and trying to get by without any real purpose or direction
Some girls play cowboys
Some women pretend to be tough and unattached, like those shallow guys
And some boys play harder to get
Some guys act like they're not interested or are harder to impress, but they're really just playing games
But they're got just the same
In the end, they're really no different from those shallow people
They smile and say cheese
They'll pretend to be happy or interested just to keep up appearances
They're so eager to please
They're only interested in what others can do for them
But they'll never remember your name
They won't invest enough to really get to know you or care about you as an individual
The names and the places all change
For them, it's all interchangeable and replaceable
Did somebody tell you I'm lonely as hell?
Has someone already informed you that I'm feeling really alone lately?
I didn't expect you to know me so well
Surprised that you already picked up on such a personal feeling about me
If I learned a lesson it's how to bounce back again
Despite all these negative experiences, I've learned how to keep going and not let it break me completely
Sometimes I bounce off the wall
Sometimes I don't handle it very well and react in an extreme manner
And sometimes my head hits the floor
Other times, it really does feel like I've hit rock bottom
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Written by: K. MACCOLL
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@dong-wookang694
It was so wonderful to join in on guitar to play this song by Kirsty's bench in Soho Square last month with everyone singing along, word for word. Such an achingly beautiful tune from an absolutely sublime album โค
@BillODriscoll-jo2ve
She was absolutely gorgeous
So, so beautiful ๐ ๐คฉ
Amazing talent ๐ ๐
Angels voice ๐ โฅ๏ธ
@user-lb3jc2gm1v
Now one of my favourites,brilliant,always find I'm humming it
@llywellynjones1554
So so talented! Love and RIP lovely girl
@ruthdixon7807
a lovely, lilting reminder to a chap that she has his number.
@user-mx7hc6kw4z
A real jack of no trades warning Band Q trade counter probl lemons shrieking end to talent missed chance to se her. A fleece and firkin BRISTOL โค๐๐๐ข๐ฎ๐
@user-mx7hc6kw4z
Cowboy builders white van drivers. Trust a trader no bleeding way watch their every move you may just make it to 70 years old like meโคโค๐ข๐ ๐ฎ๐