In 1990 Usher joined an R&B local quintet called the NuBeginnings, which was organized by local music svengali, Darryl Wheeler and then he decided to pursue a career in music. Aside from recording, Usher has ventured into business. He has established his own record label, US Records, and is a part owner of the Cleveland Cavaliers franchise. He has also dabbled in acting, with a recurring role on the teen sitcom Moesha, and roles in the films The Faculty (1998, with Josh Harnett) She's All That (1999, with Freddie Prinze, Jr.) and Texas Rangers (2001, with Ashton Kutcher).
If U Want To
usher Lyrics
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Every time I look up
I see it in your face
You want to hook up with me
(You know you want to hook up - stop playing)
Instead of acting like you supposed to
You cop an attitude like you're good for me
And you know good and damn well that...
If I want to - I can take you from your man
With my eyes closed
I can have you eating out the palm out of my hand
And all your little girl friends to
(No you can't - you're a playa I don't want you)
Yes I can and I will if I - if I want to
If I - if I want to baby
Ain't nobody tryna clown you
But you're too damn old to play high school games with me
(You know that - too damn old)
Yes you do
Cause even when I'm not around you
I hear from my friends you be asking 'bout me
(What's up with him - that's what you be saying)
I don't really care
How long you've been together with your man?
It's just a matter of time
Before I make you mine
I want to make it clear
So there's no misunderstandings
That I get what I want - when I want, yeah
If I want to - I can take you from your man
With my eyes closed
I can have you eating out the palm out of my hand
And all your little girl friends to
(No you can't - you're a playa I don't want you)
Yes I can and I will if I - if I want to
If I - if I want to baby
If I want to - I can take you from your man
With my eyes closed
I can have you eating out the palm out of my hand
And all your little girl friends to
(No you can't - you're a playa I don't want you)
Yes I can and I will if I - if I want to
If I - if I want to baby
(Yeah, uh - oh)
That I get what I want - when I want
If I wanted to
(If I wanted to - I'd have you doing whatever I want you to)
(You know - right now I'm just not really doing that)
(But if I wanted to - anything)
(I'm saying - you and your girls, I could have them too)
Listen to me!
If I want to - I can take you from your man
With my eyes closed
I can have you eating out the palm out of my hand
And all your little girl friends to
(No you can't - you're a playa I don't want you)
Yes I can and I will if I - if I want to
If I - if I want to baby
In Usher's song "If U Want To," he addresses a woman who clearly has feelings for him but is in denial about it. He observes that every time he looks at her face, he can see the desire in her eyes to hook up with him. Instead of acknowledging her feelings, she gets defensive and acts like she is too good for him. He makes it clear that if he wanted to, he could easily take her away from her man, with her and all her girlfriends eating out of the palm of his hand. He doesn't care how long the woman has been together with her man; he just wants her to know that he always gets what he wants when he wants it.
The song deals with the themes of desire, temptation, and power dynamics in relationships. Usher sees himself as the dominant figure who can easily manipulate and control the woman's feelings. He's confident in his ability to seduce her and her friends, and he wants her to know that.
Overall, "If U Want To" is a song about a man who sees himself as a player and a woman who denies her feelings for him. It's a romanticized version of a toxic relationship, where the man holds all the power and the woman is too afraid to admit what she really wants.
Line by Line Meaning
Every time I look up
Whenever I glance your way
I see it in your face
I can tell by your expression
You want to hook up with me
You are interested in a physical relationship with me
(You know you want to hook up - stop playing)
(Stop pretending like you don't)
Instead of acting like you supposed to
Instead of behaving as expected
You cop an attitude like you're good for me
You adopt a confident demeanor as if you are the best option for me
And you know good and damn well that...
And you are fully aware that...
If I want to - I can take you from your man
If I choose to, I could pursue you, even if you have a partner
With my eyes closed
Effortlessly and without hesitation
I can have you eating out the palm out of my hand
I can easily manipulate you and have you wrapped around my finger
And all your little girl friends to
And even your female friends
(No you can't - you're a playa I don't want you)
(No, you cannot - I am not interested in someone who plays games)
Yes I can and I will if I - if I want to
But I have the ability to and may choose to in the future
Ain't nobody tryna clown you
Nobody is trying to make fun of you
But you're too damn old to play high school games with me
But you are too mature to engage in juvenile actions with me
(You know that - too damn old)
(You are aware of this fact)
Yes you do
Yes, you know
Cause even when I'm not around you
Because even when I am absent
I hear from my friends you be asking 'bout me
My friends inform me that you are inquiring about me
(What's up with him - that's what you be saying)
(You are asking what is happening with me)
I don't really care
To be honest, I am indifferent
How long you've been together with your man?
The length of time you have been in a relationship with your partner is irrelevant to me
It's just a matter of time
It is only a question of when
Before I make you mine
Before I pursue a romantic relationship with you
I want to make it clear
I need to communicate this message effectively
So there's no misunderstandings
To prevent confusion or misinterpretation
That I get what I want - when I want, yeah
To emphasize that I have the power to get what I desire at any time
(If I wanted to - I'd have you doing whatever I want you to)
(If I decided to pursue a relationship with you, you would do anything I asked)
(You know - right now I'm just not really doing that)
(You are aware that I am not currently pursuing a relationship with you)
(But if I wanted to - anything)
(But if I chose to, I could have any type of relationship with you)
(I'm saying - you and your girls, I could have them too)
(I am indicating that I could also pursue romantic relationships with your female friends)
Listen to me!
Pay attention to what I am saying!
Lyrics ยฉ Peermusic Publishing, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., A SIDE MUSIC LLC D/B/A MODERN WORKS MUSIC PUBLISHING
Written by: ROGER TROUTMAN, MICHAEL PAUL COX BRYAN, JERMAINE DUPRI, KENNETH B EDMONDS, OSTEN S JR HARVEY, RAYMOND USHER, CHRISTOPHER WALLACE
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Verse 1: Usher & Jermaine Dupri]
Every time I look up
I see it in your face, you wanna hook up with me(You know you wanna hook up, stop playing
Instead of acting like you supposed to
You cop an attitude like you're too good for me
And you know good and damn well that
[Chorus: Usher]
If I wanted, I could take you from your man (please believe it)
With my eyes closed, I could have you eating out the palm of my hand
And all your little girlfriends, too
(No you can't, you're a playa, I don't want you)
Yes I can, and I will if I, if I want to
If I, if I want to, baby
[Verse 2 Usher & Jermaine Dupri]
Ain't nobody trying to clown you
But you're too damn old to play high school games with me
You know that, too damn old
Yes, you do
'Cause even when I'm not around you
I hear from my friends you be asking 'bout me
"What's up with him?" That's what you be saying
[Pre-Chorus: Usher]
I don't really care
How long you've been together with your man
It's just a matter of time
Before I make you mine
I wanna make it clear
So there's no misunderstandings
That I get, what I want
When I want
[Chorus: Usher]
If I wanted, I could take you from your man (please believe it)
With my eyes closed, I could have you eating out the palm of my hand
And all your little girlfriends, too
(No you can't, you're a playa, I don't want you)
Yes I can, and I will if I, if I want to
If I, if I want to, baby
If I wanted, I could take you from your man (please believe it)
With my eyes closed, I could have you eating out the palm of my hand
And all your little girlfriends, too
(No you can't, you're a playa, I don't want you)
Yes I can, and I will if I, if I want to
If I, if I want to, baby
[Bridge: Usher & Jermaine Dupri]
That I get, what I want
When I want
If I wanted to
If I wanted to
I'd have you doing whatever I want you to, you know?
Right now, I'm just not really doing that
But if I wanted to, anything
I'm saying
You and your girls, I could have them too
Listen to me
It's crazy, listen
[Chorus: Usher]
If I wanted, I could take you from your man (please believe it)
With my eyes closed, I could have you eating out the palm of my hand
And all your little girlfriends, too
(No you can't, you're a playa, I don't want you)
Yes I can, and I will if I, if I want to
If I, if I want to, baby
If I wanted, I could take you from your man (please believe it)
With my eyes closed, I could have you eating out the palm of my hand
And all your little girlfriends, too
(No you can't, you're a playa, I don't want you)
Yes I can, and I will if I, if I want to
If I, if I want to, baby
@jhoanbaby
This is hands down Usher's greatest album
@tillyaryitey5459
Jojo Diamond of course!!!
@moedavis4495
Confessions๐ค
@NiniEJ
I agree!!!
@teebee3631
@Moe Davis The visuals for Confessions were amazing, but I feel 8701 was better overall.
@Mylove_pleasestay65
No
@spyceeeboy5819
Itโs 2023 & Itโs still the vibe
@LadiDiggy
I fuckin love his confidence in this song lol
@latoyaanderson5027
I do too.
@86lanzo
One of the best R&B Albums ever..