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I Can't Control Myself
The Pigeon Detectives Lyrics


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You tell me you love me
Then we both get into a fight
You lay there complaining
And I know I won't sleep tonight

You told me that you've been here once before
You said I made you walk into a door

I can't control myself
You're making such a fool of me
Now I've decided we're just friends

I can't control myself
You're making such a fool of me
Now I've decided we're just friends

You're hurt 'cause I hate you
But we know it's only a game
You tell me we'll make it
But I know it won't be the same

You told me that you've been here once before
You said I made you walk into a door

I can't control myself
You're making such a fool of me
Now I've decided we're just friends

I can't control myself
You're making such a fool of me
Now I've decided we're just friends

You told me that you've been here once before
You said I made you walk into a door

I can't control myself
You're making such a fool of me
Now I've decided we're just friends

I can't control myself
You're making such a fool of me
Now I've decided we're just friends

Overall Meaning

The Pigeon Detectives' "I Can't Control Myself" is a song about a tumultuous relationship that is full of contradictions and misunderstandings. The lyrics describe the lead singer’s struggle to deal with the emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that is both passionate and destructive. The song starts with a positive note as the singer is told that he is loved, but then quickly turns sour as the couple gets into a fight. Throughout the song, the singer is being made a fool by his partner's behavior, which results in loss of sleep and emotional stress. At first, the singer tries to make the relationship work by convincing himself that they will be alright, but in the end, he realizes that it is better to just be friends.


The lyrics of "I Can't Control Myself" portray the emotional turmoil of a failed relationship. The lines "You lay there complaining/And I know I won't sleep tonight" speak to the singer's inability to cope with the consequences of the fight. There is a sense of helplessness in the repeated refrain "I can't control myself" that emphasizes the singer's lack of control over his emotions. The lyrics also suggest that the partner is not entirely innocent, as the line "You said I made you walk into a door" implies that some physical abuse has occurred in the past.


Overall, The Pigeon Detectives' "I Can't Control Myself" is a powerful evocation of the pain and confusion that come with a rocky relationship. The song's energy and lyrical strength reflect the messy, chaotic nature of love and its often-unpredictable outcomes.


Line by Line Meaning

You tell me you love me
You express your love to me


Then we both get into a fight
Then we end up quarreling


You lay there complaining
You lie there grumbling


And I know I won't sleep tonight
And I am aware that I won't be able to sleep tonight


You told me that you've been here once before
You mentioned that you have had a similar experience before


You said I made you walk into a door
You accused me of making you run into a door


I can't control myself
I lack self-control


You're making such a fool of me
You are humiliating me


Now I've decided we're just friends
Now I have decided that we should just be friends


You're hurt 'cause I hate you
You are upset because I dislike you


But we know it's only a game
But we both realize that it's just a game


You tell me we'll make it
You assure me that we will succeed


But I know it won't be the same
But I am aware that things won't be the way they used to be




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MATTHEW PETER GEORGE BOWMAN, OLIVER ROBERT MAIN

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