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Because I Liked a Boy
Sabrina Carpenter Lyrics


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I said I wanted Thin Mints and you said you knew a guy
You showed up with a boombox and stars in your eyes
Who knew cuddling on trampolines could be so reckless
We bonded over Black Eyed Peas and complicated exes

Fell so deeply into it
It was all so innocent

Now I'm a homewrecker, I'm a slut
I got death threats filling up semi-trucks
Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice
All because I liked
I'm a hot topic on your tongue
I'm a rebound gettin' 'round, stealin' from the young
Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice
All because I liked a boy

I'm not catastrophizing
Everything's derailing
Was only tryna hold you close
While your heart was failing
It's not internet illusions
Just two kids going through it
You said I'm too late to be your first love
But I'll always be your favorite

Now I'm a homewrecker, I'm a slut
I got death threats filling up semi-trucks
Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice
All because I liked
I'm a hot topic on your tongue
I'm a rebound gettin' 'round, stealin' from the young
Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice
All because I liked a boy

All because I liked a boy
Fell so deeply into it
It was all so innocent
Dating boys with exes
No, I wouldn't recommend it

I'm a homewrecker, I'm a slut
I got death threats filling up semi-trucks
Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice
All because I liked a boy
And all of this for what?
When everything went down, we'd already broken up
Please, tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice
All because I liked a boy

A boy, a boy
All because I liked a boy

Overall Meaning

The song "Because I Liked a Boy" by Sabrina Carpenter is a heart-wrenching story of a girl who falls in love with a boy, only to be shamed and vilified for her feelings. The song speaks of the repercussions of pursuing a romantic relationship with someone who is already attached, and the societal stigma attached to such relationships. The lyrics of the song are a reflection of the pain and confusion that the singer feels as she grapples with the fallout of her actions.


The song begins with the singer reminiscing about the first time she met the boy she likes. He shows up with a boombox and stars in his eyes, and the two bond over cuddling on a trampoline and discussing their complicated exes. The music is upbeat and cheerful, reflecting the innocence of their early relationship. However, things take a dark turn as the singer becomes aware of the consequences of her actions.


The lyrics of the song suggest that the singer has become a pariah in her community, branded as a homewrecker and a slut for pursuing a relationship with a boy who is already spoken for. She is subjected to death threats and public humiliation, and her self-worth is shattered as she is reduced to a mere object of gossip and scorn. The lyrics are a poignant commentary on the double standards that exist in society when it comes to relationships, and the toll that this hypocrisy can take on individuals.


Line by Line Meaning

I said I wanted thin mints and you said you knew a guy
I expressed a simple desire, and you offered to fulfill it through your connections


You showed up with a boom box and stars in your eyes
You arrived with grand gestures and a look of infatuation


Who knew cuddling on trampolines could be so reckless
We engaged in risky behavior, despite its seemingly innocent nature


We bonded over black eyed peas and complicated exes
We found common ground in discussing music and our respective past relationships


Fell so deeply into it, It was all so innocent
Our feelings for each other grew strong quickly, yet we saw nothing wrong with our innocent interactions


Now I'm a homewrecker, I'm a slut, I got death threats filling up semi trucks, Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice, All because I liked
My reputation has been damaged, and I've received violent threats for simply expressing my interest in someone


I'm a hot topic on your tongue, I'm a rebound gettin' 'round stealin' from the young, Tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice, All because I liked a boy
I am the subject of gossip, seen as a rebound, and accused of taking advantage of a younger partner, all because I showed interest in someone


I'm not catastrophizing, Everything's derailing, Was only tryna hold you close, While your heart was failing
I am not exaggerating, as everything has gone wrong, despite my intentions to simply comfort you during a tough time


It's not internet illusions just, two kids going through it, You said I'm too late to be your first love, But I'll always be your favorite
Our situation is not just a product of online drama, but rather two young people navigating a difficult experience together. Though I may not have been your first love, you still see me as meaningful


Dating boys with exes, No, I wouldn't recommend it
I've learned a valuable lesson about the dangers of dating someone with unresolved baggage from past relationships


And all of this for what?, When everything went down we'd already broken up, Please tell me who I am, guess I don't have a choice, All because I liked a boy
I question the meaning behind all the drama and negative attention, especially since our relationship has already ended. I feel as though my identity has been defined by my interest in someone, rather than my true character


(A boy, a boy), All because I liked a boy
All of this chaos and pain is a result of nothing more than me expressing my attraction to a boy




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Hipgnosis Songs Group
Written by: John Ryan, Jonathan Percy Saxe, Julia Michaels, Sabrina Carpenter

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@joyogu6838

The symbolism behind the MV is everything!!!!
My video analysis!!!!

They used a circus as a way to show how this whole situation was crazy.
The video started off with just her alone. Which could represent how she was just “minding her business, enjoying his company, doing her”

She then is wanders into this circus and is at first intrigued. I believe this shows how she saw this as an opportunity for
Her as well, they all released songs at that time. the guy, olivia and hers

She played into the character without seeing how it could backfire. Or her dancing around could have been a moment of her pretending as though it didn’t hurt her while she sings how her reputation was being called too question.

Not to mention the reflection she had to have. The outfit that was so reflective in the mirror scene. She had to break down that idea of her, and understand that this all happened because she like a boy. She takes ownership in such an ironic way and after that you see she isn’t quite dancing. The circus that was once filled with people is now empty and she’s left alone to sit with her thoughts on this whole thing. She ends up taking accountability instead of shaming anyone else.

Love it!



All comments from YouTube:

@booktales1687

It’s so heartbreaking how people tear down one woman to raise another up. The girl hate is unfortunately still prevalent in our society. So glad to see Sabrina bouncing back from this, and with such a powerful song and high quality video to support i. she’s one of the most underrated singers out there today.

@jordanfoa9288

Ikr that Olivia rodrigo girl needs to be cancelled

@shouvikghosh8946

Okay tell me who hates Sabrina..? And why..??

@GlamClan-xe3zi

@@jordanfoa9288 for what? She didn’t do shit but write her feelings as well. It was obsessive fan bases and people that don’t have lives that started the drama, but music should be a way for people to share their side and heal. That doesn’t mean take the context and and cancel people tho for both sides. Let both of these women be great and express what they want to.

@jordanfoa9288

@@GlamClan-xe3zi then why didn’t Olivia come out and say don’t send her hate? She saw and heard the hate and let her fans do the hate. I said what I said

@buterastyles2620

@@jordanfoa9288 her management wouldn't let her. She now has a new manager and she has spoken up about it.

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@9i4nna

the way she wrote this song in a way that didnt tear down another girl or even her ex, its literally just a song full of facts. forever a sabrina stan <3

@miademper1629

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@josiemorrissey6509

No she wrote skin lol she’s not innocent

@miademper1629

@@josiemorrissey6509 she said skin was directed to the haters. She said the only lyrics that were directed to liv was the ones saying she wants to be friends and she also called drivers license a amazing song and that skin was also about other relationships. Have a good day

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