When All Is Said and Done
ABBA Lyrics


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Here's to us one more toast and then we'll pay the bill
Deep inside both of us can feel the autumn chill
Birds of passage, you and me
We fly instinctively
When the summer's over and the dark clouds hide the sun
Neither you nor I'm to blame when all is said and done

In our lives we have walked some strange and lonely treks
Slightly worn but dignified and not too old for sex
We're still striving for the sky
No taste for humble pie
Thanks for all your generous love and thanks for all the fun
Neither you nor I'm to blame when all is said and done

It's so strange when you're down and lying on the floor
How you rise, shake your head, get up and ask for more
Clear-headed and open-eyed
With nothing left untried
Standing calmly at the crossroads,no desire to run
There's no hurry any more when all is said and done





Standing calmly at the crossroads,no desire to run
There's no hurry any more when all is said and done

Overall Meaning

"When All is Said and Done" is a poignant song by ABBA that talks about the passage of time, the uncertainty of life, and the bittersweet moments that come with it. The song's narrative revolves around two people who have gone through a lot together and have come out on the other side, stronger and wiser. The first verse embodies the sense of closure and conclusion, after a period of togetherness, that the two people feel. They can sense the coming of autumn, a metaphor for the end of a season, and the beginning of another. The bond between them is so strong that they fly instinctively, like birds of passage.


In the second verse, the theme of life's strangeness and unpredictability continues. The two people have gone through many strange and lonely treks in their lives but remain dignified and not too old for sex. They are still striving for the sky and harbor no taste for humble pie. The lyrics here talk about the pursuit of excellence and the unwillingness to settle for mediocrity in their lives. The bond between the two is one of gratitude and fun. Neither of them is blamed for the end of their journey together.


The third verse speaks to the ability to rise after a fall and the wisdom that comes with experience. The two people stand calmly at the crossroads with no desire to run, showing that they have accepted their destiny and the paths that lay ahead of them. The uncertainty of life no longer scares them, and there is no need to hurry anymore. The emphasis is on acceptance, resilience, and determination.


Line by Line Meaning

Here's to us one more toast and then we'll pay the bill
Let's celebrate one last time before we face reality and take responsibility for our actions.


Deep inside both of us can feel the autumn chill
We sense that a change is happening, and we're not sure what it means for us.


Birds of passage, you and me
We're wanderers, not meant to stay in one place for too long.


We fly instinctively
Our choices are guided by our natural inclinations, rather than rational thinking.


When the summer's over and the dark clouds hide the sun
We're entering a gloomy period of life, where things aren't as bright and carefree as they used to be.


Neither you nor I'm to blame when all is said and done
There's no point in assigning blame - we've both made choices that have led us to this point.


In our lives we have walked some strange and lonely treks
We've had unique life experiences that have set us apart from others.


Slightly worn but dignified and not too old for sex
We may be getting older, but we still have our dignity and vitality.


We're still striving for the sky
We're not content with settling for mediocrity - we want to aim higher in life.


No taste for humble pie
We're not willing to accept defeat or a lower status - we have a lot of pride.


Thanks for all your generous love and thanks for all the fun
We're grateful for the good times and love we've shared with each other.


It's so strange when you're down and lying on the floor
Life can be unpredictable and tough, and it's disorienting when you hit rock bottom.


How you rise, shake your head, get up and ask for more
But we're resilient and determined to keep pushing forward no matter what.


Clear-headed and open-eyed
We're not delusional or blind to reality - we see things clearly for what they are.


With nothing left untried
We've exhausted all of our options and given it our all in life.


Standing calmly at the crossroads,no desire to run
We're at a point in life where we're content with where we are and don't feel the need to run away from our problems.


There's no hurry any more when all is said and done
We've learned to slow down and appreciate life - there's no need to rush anymore.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Benny Andersson, Bjoern K Ulvaeus

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@danbike9

​@@MrMarinus18ABBA/Polar Music, since day one did their own thing. They a self contained indie band with their tiny home label, Polar Music.

ABBA had no corporate overlords or puppeteers like all the other major American and British groups that were tied to the corporate record label.

ABBA went around the American-British monopolistic pop/rock establishment.

How ABBA got heard outside of Sweden/Scandinavia:
1. Eurovision Song Contest (Waterloo)
2. Low budget music clips sent to TV program directors around the world. Those program directors like what they saw and put ABBA music video clips on TV.
3. Lots of in studio TV appearances to promote and export their music to the world.
Boom!!!! Huge grassroots support.

All the other major intl groups had major ties to the American-British monopolistic establishment.

ABBA/Polar Music controlled their regional labels around the world. All creative output and decisions were all within ABBA/Polar Music.

ABBA/Polar Music took on how the pop/rock establishment big record labels and schooled them. No establishment hands in their pockets.

ABBA still owns and controls it all. They own 100% if their song rights. They remain independent.



@danbike9

​@@MrMarinus18No.

ABBA were indie. The rebels who were never owned like all the other big names/groups.

ABBA still own and control it all.

There success was built by grassroots support around the world, not the American-British monopolistic establishment.

What ABBA and their tiny home record label, Polar Music, did was school the entire pop/rock establishment by making it huge without the filters and dictates by the American-British monopolistic establishment.

ABBA has always presented an unwanted contrast for the insecure.
___

The ABBA/Polar Music Team:

Stikkan 'Stig' Anderson
Gorel Hanser

Anni-Frid
Benny
Bjorn
Agnetha

Rutger Gunnerson
Michael Tretow
&
ABBA's loyal and top rank session and touring musicians.



@danbike9

They are not a pure pop group. Those that know their ENTIRE catalogue know this.

From time to time I will have someone in my house or car and I put on a CD I made of a bunch of ABBA album cuts. I don't say a word.

I eventually tell them it's ABBA! They are impressed everytime. A few know their whole catalogue and say ABBA right away.

ABBA were a multiple genre group. Hard to pinpoint them.

Heck, listen to BB songs they have written from 1966-present.

In regards to "Kristina', that is their masterpiece.
Music: Benny
Lyrics/playwright: Bjorn
The usual stuffy classical music critics praised 'Kristina' and called it a masterpiece.

Regarding Benny Andersson and Paul McCartney as composers.

The masses: McCartney
The elite musicians to include the stuffy and picky classical snobs: Benny Andersson.

The world is catching up to how good a composer Benny Andersson is.



All comments from YouTube:

@meghakaimal4782

Abba songs were all about life as it goes by. Love, friendship, pain, heartbreak, the works. No band has ever captured emotions better than Abba. The more I listen to them the more I'm convinced they're the best band to have blesses mankind.

@MrMarinus18

A big part of that is actually their massive success as their first songs were much more generic. However as they grew in size and popularity they had the bargaining power to write whatever songs they wanted. If the publisher didn't like it then they would just pick another instead. Many singers today are really small and are at the mercy of their publishers.

@dawnjohnson3263

I know . .

@CanaldosMatiolas

Agree

@danbike9

​@@MrMarinus18ABBA/Polar Music, since day one did their own thing. They a self contained indie band with their tiny home label, Polar Music.

ABBA had no corporate overlords or puppeteers like all the other major American and British groups that were tied to the corporate record label.

ABBA went around the American-British monopolistic pop/rock establishment.

How ABBA got heard outside of Sweden/Scandinavia:
1. Eurovision Song Contest (Waterloo)
2. Low budget music clips sent to TV program directors around the world. Those program directors like what they saw and put ABBA music video clips on TV.
3. Lots of in studio TV appearances to promote and export their music to the world.
Boom!!!! Huge grassroots support.

All the other major intl groups had major ties to the American-British monopolistic establishment.

ABBA/Polar Music controlled their regional labels around the world. All creative output and decisions were all within ABBA/Polar Music.

ABBA/Polar Music took on how the pop/rock establishment big record labels and schooled them. No establishment hands in their pockets.

ABBA still owns and controls it all. They own 100% if their song rights. They remain independent.

@danbike9

​@@MrMarinus18No.

ABBA were indie. The rebels who were never owned like all the other big names/groups.

ABBA still own and control it all.

There success was built by grassroots support around the world, not the American-British monopolistic establishment.

What ABBA and their tiny home record label, Polar Music, did was school the entire pop/rock establishment by making it huge without the filters and dictates by the American-British monopolistic establishment.

ABBA has always presented an unwanted contrast for the insecure.
___

The ABBA/Polar Music Team:

Stikkan 'Stig' Anderson
Gorel Hanser

Anni-Frid
Benny
Bjorn
Agnetha

Rutger Gunnerson
Michael Tretow
&
ABBA's loyal and top rank session and touring musicians.

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@TerryTomlin

The greatest pure pop group in history. Bjorn and Benny are geniuses. Their music will be around for ever. I am a Led Zeppelin and Pink Floyd fan but for pure, brilliantly written pop songs and tunes, Abba can't be beaten.

@hajnalkakun7665

Yes ,ABBA cannot be beaten!

@danbike9

They are not a pure pop group. Those that know their ENTIRE catalogue know this.

From time to time I will have someone in my house or car and I put on a CD I made of a bunch of ABBA album cuts. I don't say a word.

I eventually tell them it's ABBA! They are impressed everytime. A few know their whole catalogue and say ABBA right away.

ABBA were a multiple genre group. Hard to pinpoint them.

Heck, listen to BB songs they have written from 1966-present.

In regards to "Kristina', that is their masterpiece.
Music: Benny
Lyrics/playwright: Bjorn
The usual stuffy classical music critics praised 'Kristina' and called it a masterpiece.

Regarding Benny Andersson and Paul McCartney as composers.

The masses: McCartney
The elite musicians to include the stuffy and picky classical snobs: Benny Andersson.

The world is catching up to how good a composer Benny Andersson is.

@hajnalkakun7665

@DJ Regnier You are right ,ABBA is not a pop group ,it is much much more.

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