3AM
AJR Lyrics


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The coldest traincar
3 o'clock at dawn
remember alcohol and dancing
our friends are gone now
'cause she chose me to take her home
I guess that's all I've ever wanted
I just can't believe
that you chose a guy like me
no matter where you go
I will go down that road
the one that takes you home
after the party's done
and all is well
but I'm scared as hell
that you won't like me in the morning
that you won't like me the way that I like you
the coldest traincar
chilly friday night
i hope she holds on to what I told her
the boys around her take a second look
she made a choice the night is over
I just can't believe
that you chose a guy like me
no matter where you go
I will go down that road
the one that takes you home
after the party's done
and all is well
but I'm scared as hell
that you won't like me in the morning
that you won't like me the way that I like you
and all is well
but I'm scared as hell




that you won't like me in the morning
I know you'll like me the way that I like you

Overall Meaning

The song "3AM" by AJR is a tale of uncertainties and insecurities after a night of partying. The first stanza describes a cold train car at 3 o'clock in the morning, with the singer reminiscing about how they and their love interest had been dancing and drinking but are now alone. The singer reflects on how their friends have left, leaving them with the girl. It's a moment that they had always wanted, but they just can't believe that she has chosen them. The verse ends with the singer promising to take her home, even if it means going down a road they have never been on before.


The second verse sets a similar scene, with the same girl making a choice to spend the evening with the singer. He expresses his disbelief that she chose someone like him and is hopeful that she will remember what he told her earlier. He is anxious, however, wondering if she will still like him in the morning.


Overall, the song is about the fear of rejection and the insecurities that come with new relationships. It's a vulnerable and relatable sentiment conveyed through the singer's personal experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

The coldest traincar
It is a chilly and desolate environment on the traincar.


3 o'clock at dawn
The time of day is early in the morning, just before sunrise.


remember alcohol and dancing
Memories of drinking and dancing from the night before are still fresh in the mind.


our friends are gone now
The group of friends who were together earlier in the night have left, and it is just the singer and the girl he is interested in remaining.


'cause she chose me to take her home
The girl has chosen the singer to take her home, indicating her interest in him.


I guess that's all I've ever wanted
The singer is pleased that the girl has shown interest in him and chose him to be her companion.


I just can't believe that you chose a guy like me
The singer expresses disbelief and gratitude that the girl has chosen him, as he does not think he is particularly impressive.


no matter where you go I will go down that road the one that takes you home after the party's done
The singer promises to always be there for the girl and take care of her after a night out, regardless of where they are or what time it is.


and all is well but I'm scared as hell that you won't like me in the morning that you won't like me the way that I like you
Despite the positive and exciting events of the night, the singer is worried that the girl may not feel the same way about him in the morning and that their connection may not be reciprocated.


chilly friday night i hope she holds on to what I told her the boys around her take a second look she made a choice the night is over
The night is described as cold, and the singer hopes that the girl will remember what he said to her. Other men are shown noticing the girl, but she has already chosen the singer to be with for the night.


and all is well but I'm scared as hell that you won't like me in the morning I know you'll like me the way that I like you
The singer repeats his fear of the girl not feeling the same way in the morning but expresses confidence that she will like him, and they will be happy together.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@gkennedy_32

The coldest traincar
3 o'clock at dawn
Remember alcohol and dancing
Our friends are gone now
Cause she chose me to take her home
I guess that's all I've ever wanted
I just can't believe
That you chose a guy like me
No matter where you go
I will go down that road
The one that takes you home
After the party's done
And all is well
But I'm scared as hell
That you won't like me in the morning
That you won't like me the way that I like you
The coldest traincar
Chilly friday night
I hope she holds on to what I told her
The boys around her take a second look
She made a choice the night is over
I just can't believe
That you chose a guy like me
No matter where you go
I will go down that road
The one that takes you home
After the party's done
And all is well
But I'm scared as hell
That you won't like me in the morning
That you won't like me the way that I like you
And all is well
But I'm scared as hell
That you won't like me in the morning
I know you'll like me the way that I like you



All comments from YouTube:

@emerald_b01

Ryan's voice is so warm and calm, light my heart up💗

@thehilarioussisters9545

Omg so freaking true his making my heart explode so very much😭✌️✨🥲💖💘

@ajrsmelodypyc4042

ugh, ikr, why is he perfect, it's like, can you just stop, just for a minute? bc i am falling deeper and deeper in love every second, oml,

@brainb0t_952

@@ajrsmelodypyc4042 isnt he engaged?

@pastelwasteland1204

been diving into old AJR lately, how have these guys NEVER WRITTEN A BAD SONG

@zeke_squareroot

Same

@madiserket2

well... woody allen

@amyb0630

@@madiserket2 to be fair that was before all the stuff about him came out :(

@bell9822

Bro I’m a devout AJR fan but they made sum bad songs before

@chancetorrence5123

@@madiserket2 I love woody Allen tho lol

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