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Alix Olson is an internationally touring folk poet and progressive queer artist-activist. One part peace vigil, one part protest rally, and one part joyful raucous concert, Alix ignites audiences everywhere she performs. Olson's innumerable stage, broadcast, radio and print appearances include, most recently, twice headlining HBO's "Def Poetry Jam" (Russell Simmons), and an inclusion in Utne Magazine's InRadio compilation. Utne's website calls Olson "...the spoken word diva everyone's talking about."
Alix has graced the cover of Ms. Magazine, who called Olson a "road-poet-on-a-mission," and her work has been featured in Girlfriends Magazine, The Advocate, OUT Magazine, Curve, Lesbian Review of Books, and on the covers of Lambda Book Report, Lavender Lens, and Velvet Park magazines. A recent interview with Olson for The Progressive calls her a "word warrior" and gives a comprehensive peek into just what makes her work so compelling. Alix has appeared on the nationally syndicated Air America's "Unfiltered" radio (co-hosts Rachel Maddow, Rachel Winstead, and Chuck D), as well as on Oxygen television, CNN, HBO, In the Life, and WXPN's World Cafe with David Dye, and local radio stations around the country.
Alix was voted "Best Activist", along with MoveOn, in Venus Magazine's Hott List 2004. Olson was voted 2004 OutMusician of the Year (OutMusic), and was a triple nominee for the 2002 OUTMusic Awards. In June 2003, Alix (along with Margaret Cho and Nobuko Oyabu) received the "Visionary Award" from the DC Rape Crisis Center for her "exceptional commitment to the promotion of social justice." Past honorees include Gloria Steinem, Tori Amos, Patricia Ireland and Sarah Jones. Olson has also received a New York Foundation for the Arts fellowship, and a Barbara Deming grant.
Howard Zinn (historian/activist) calls Alix "an ingenious poet, a brilliant performer, a funny person, a serious thinker. Quite simply, extraordinary."
Alix tours over two-hundred days a year, and has headlined national conferences for the National Organization for Women, GenderPac, and the Lesbian Summit. Most recently, Alix performed for one million people at the Washington, D.C. March for Women's Lives. She has headlined international poetry festivals in Portugal, the Netherlands, and England, and will be touring Australia in January.
Of her live performances, The Progressive Magazine calls Alix "an electrifying performer who seduces the audience with wit and energy, spinning tales of life on the road between her fiery poems. A sharpshooter with theatrical flair, Olson oozes both love and rage."
Above all, Alix Olson is undaunted by being labeled as "controversial." "I think any artist who confronts the status quo will be targeted as 'controversial'. We will also be called 'angry,' 'aggressive,' 'loud,' or at best, 'idealistic,' so that we are discounted, backed into a corner, and our power is deflated. But I have never been intimidated by words, because they've always been on my side."
Gender Game
Alix Olson Lyrics
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Cause I look like this
And I got a vagina?
See, I'm familiar with this Gender Game,
I've played this war many times before
On this playground called my identity
When puberty hit like dodge balls
And freeze-tagged as sissy-fagged
Different anatomy.
See, vagina meant quieter, caretaker, peacemaker.
Vagina meant keeping lips closed, keeping bodies posed.
Vagina was silent dolls and no action toys,
Vagina was punches when I played with the boys.
So I learned to take it in the stomach, I learned to Fight to make friends.
And as I learned to make that bullshit end,
Vagina became a slippery slide for my little finger
Vagina became a quiver that lingered,
Vagina became what I looked for, worked for, stood for,
I "Viva La Vagina'd all over the place!"
I revitalized Vagina's grace, I discovered vagina's taste.
I became a fine diner. Put my face in vagina after vagina.
And then I was faced with some other lipservice
Putting me in my place
That Vagina should not be liberator.
But dictator.
Of the shoes we wear. The hair we crop.
The palms we clasp. The way we walk.
The space we use. The threads we choose.
Well, I refuse to follow suit.
Cause I gotta confess, my straight jacket is a dress.
You know it used to be a crime
To wear clothes that didn't scream
"Vagin-A!"
I wear these shoes so I can move with my own easy spirit.
I don't shave my legs cause
It gets cold. Besides, my legs rebel
Against the bloody hell of
Shaved and sliced
And since when is my body hair something to judge?
Is furry a male privilege-
Or a patriarchal plot by gillette?
I don't cut my nails cause I've got hammering to do.
I'm pounding out my path as I cruise this gender landscape,
As I peruse the choice between silence and
Violence.
Matthew Shepard was bent, so you hang him to a fence,
Brandon Teena was murdered as a liar for hiding his
Vagina. And I can't even sit
In a restaurant without causing a stir:
"Whaddya have sir? Whaddya have sir? Whaddya have sir?"
I have a Vagina!
Yes, I've got a vagina and you can still call me sir,
Cause I can't cure
This visual disease of yours.
But I don't give a damn about "Sir" or "Ma'am".
So, in the "F" or "M" boxes they give,
I forgive myself for not fitting in
And blame the world for lack of clarity.
I deliberate.
Penis? I got one y'know. I write down "d" for dildo,
I write down "D" for
"Don't know," I fill in "F" for
fi-fie-foe male!
Yes, I'm a giant Vagina!
And I am too big for these boxes they give,
Too real for this Gender Toyland
Built over soiled contradictions
With Barbie bricks and Ken cornerstones
Built over the skulls and bones of our Transgendered Ancestors.
Danger:
She-men working above. And beyond. You.
Yes, we are Deconstruction Workers.
We are exposing unfounded bedrocks
That bed us to one sex, that wed us to one gender.
We are overturning those stones,
We are throwing them back.
We are making revolution
A gender evolution.
We are invoking strategy, we are revoking shame.
And we are calling it. We are calling it
Refusal to be Named.
In Alix Olson's song "Gender Game," the singer discusses the societal pressures and expectations surrounding gender identity. The lyrics portray the struggle of individuals who do not conform to traditional gender roles and how society can react to their appearance or behavior. The first verse describes how someone wants to physically hurt her because they perceive her as effeminate, which she attributes to her anatomy. She references the "Gender Game" as a war, implying that society has forced her into a battle with her own identity. She reflects on her experiences dealing with puberty, where she was labeled as effeminate and outcasted from her friends. The chorus uses the phrase "Viva La Vagina," which, at first, appears to promote female empowerment, but it also includes the singer's revelation that society has placed unrealistic expectations on what female anatomy should represent.
Line by Line Meaning
You wanna give me a shiner
You want to physically abuse me because of how I look
Cause I look like this
Because of my physical appearance
And I got a vagina?
And because I have female reproductive organs
See, I'm familiar with this Gender Game,
I am aware of the societal expectations and stereotypes placed on individuals based on their gender
I've played this war many times before
I have experienced this discrimination multiple times in my life
On this playground called my identity
In my personal exploration and understanding of my gender and sense of self
When puberty hit like dodge balls
When I went through the physical changes associated with growing up
And freeze-tagged as sissy-fagged
Being labeled as weak or unmanly because of my demeanor or interests
My best friend dissed me- common interests,
My closest companion rejected me because we had similar hobbies and preferences
Different anatomy.
But I did not identify with or present as male
See, vagina meant quieter, caretaker, peacemaker.
Society expected me to display traits and behaviors associated with femininity, such as being nurturing and submissive
Vagina meant keeping lips closed, keeping bodies posed.
It was also expected for me to be quiet and proper, with a focus on physical presentation
Vagina was silent dolls and no action toys,
Toys and activities marketed towards girls were often stagnant and less exciting compared to those marketed towards boys
Vagina was punches when I played with the boys.
When I attempted to break free of these expectations and play with boys, I was met with physical harm and rejection
So I learned to take it in the stomach, I learned to Fight to make friends.
To cope, I had to accept the mistreatment and fight against my own desires to play with boys
And as I learned to make that bullshit end,
As I grew older and wiser, I stopped entertaining these harmful stereotypes
Vagina became a slippery slide for my little finger
I began to understand and embrace my sexuality
Vagina became a quiver that lingered,
My sexual experiences brought me pleasure and satisfaction
Vagina became what I looked for, worked for, stood for,
My understanding and acceptance of my body brought me confidence and a sense of self-worth
I "Viva La Vagina'd all over the place!"
I am proud of my vagina and my femininity
I revitalized Vagina's grace, I discovered vagina's taste.
I have found beauty and pleasure in my own body and sexuality
I became a fine diner. Put my face in vagina after vagina.
I have explored my sexuality and found what I like
And then I was faced with some other lipservice
I was confronted with more societal expectations and standards
Putting me in my place
Attempting to dictate how I should present and behave, based on my gender
That Vagina should not be liberator.
The belief that a woman's sexuality and femininity should not be empowering
But dictator.
Instead, it was seen as something that limits and controls a woman's actions and choices
Of the shoes we wear. The hair we crop.
It was expected for women to present themselves in a certain way, including their physical appearance
The palms we clasp. The way we walk.
Gestures and body language were also monitored and judged based on gender norms
The space we use. The threads we choose.
Even the way we move and the clothes we wear were heavily policed based on gender expectations
Well, I refuse to follow suit.
I choose to reject these arbitrary and restrictive gender norms
Cause I gotta confess, my straight jacket is a dress.
I acknowledge that I still sometimes feel pressured to conform to certain standards of femininity
You know it used to be a crime
There were legal consequences for breaking these gender norms
To wear clothes that didn't scream
To express oneself outside of the prescribed gender roles was highly stigmatized
"Vagin-A!"
To present oneself as anything other than a feminine woman with a vagina was not socially acceptable
I wear these shoes so I can move with my own easy spirit.
I choose to wear clothing and shoes that make me feel comfortable and confident
I don't shave my legs cause
I choose not to partake in certain grooming habits expected of women
It gets cold. Besides, my legs rebel
I have my own reasons for not conforming to societal standards of beauty and grooming
Against the bloody hell of
I feel like I am fighting against a system that is oppressive and unrealistic
Shaved and sliced
The pain and upkeep associated with certain grooming habits are not worth it to me
And since when is my body hair something to judge?
I reject the idea that having body hair is ugly or unclean
Is furry a male privilege-
I see the hypocrisy in the fact that men are not held to the same beauty standards as women
Or a patriarchal plot by gillette?
I recognize that companies profit off of these unrealistic beauty expectations and create them in the first place
I don't cut my nails cause I've got hammering to do.
I prioritize my practical needs and interests over societal expectations of femininity
I'm pounding out my path as I cruise this gender landscape,
I am forging my own way in a world that tries to limit me based on my gender identity
As I peruse the choice between silence and
As I navigate the choice between conforming to societal expectations and staying true to myself
Violence.
I am aware that there may be consequences for challenging these societal norms
Matthew Shepard was bent, so you hang him to a fence,
I acknowledge the consequences of not conforming to gender norms, as seen in the murder of Matthew Shepard
Brandon Teena was murdered as a liar for hiding his Vagina.
I recognize the danger and violence that trans individuals face for not conforming to gender identity norms
And I can't even sit
I am constantly aware of the policing and scrutiny of my gender expression
In a restaurant without causing a stir:
Even my presence and appearance is subject to judgment and criticism
"Whaddya have sir? Whaddya have sir? Whaddya have sir?"
My gender identity and physical appearance cause confusion and bureaucracy
I have a Vagina!
I do not conform to societal expectations of femininity and gender identity, and it's okay
Yes, I've got a vagina and you can still call me sir,
My gender identity is not tied to my anatomy, and I am okay with being referred to with masculine titles
Cause I can't cure
I cannot change the way I identify and present myself
This visual disease of yours.
The discomfort and confusion others may feel about my gender identity is not my responsibility or burden to fix
But I don't give a damn about "Sir" or "Ma'am".
I do not base my self-worth or identity on the titles or pronouns others use for me
So, in the "F" or "M" boxes they give,
I do not fit into the prescribed gender binary, and that's okay
I forgive myself for not fitting in
I have come to terms with and accepted my nonconformity
And blame the world for lack of clarity.
I recognize that societal norms and expectations have contributed to my confusion and discomfort with gender identity
I deliberate.
I make intentional choices and decisions about my gender identity and expression
Penis? I got one y'know. I write down "d" for dildo,
I acknowledge my anatomy but choose not to identify with traditionally male gender roles
I write down "D" for "Don't know," I fill in "F" for fi-fie-foe male!
I reject the gender binary and intentionally choose alternate gender identities
Yes, I'm a giant Vagina!
I embrace and celebrate my femininity and sexuality
And I am too big for these boxes they give,
I refuse to conform to the gender binary and assigned gender roles
Too real for this Gender Toyland
I reject the societal expectations that limit and constrict gender identity and expression
Built over soiled contradictions
The expectations and norms surrounding gender are built on hypocrisy and flaws
With Barbie bricks and Ken cornerstones
Toys and marketing reinforce and perpetuate arbitrary gender norms
Built over the skulls and bones of our Transgendered Ancestors.
The focus on traditional gender roles and norms has been harmful for trans individuals
Danger: She-men working above. And beyond. You.
Trans individuals are fighting against societal expectations and limitations
Yes, we are Deconstruction Workers.
We are actively working to break down these harmful and limiting gender norms
We are exposing unfounded bedrocks
We are challenging the basic beliefs and foundations of harmful gender norms
That bed us to one sex, that wed us to one gender.
The societal expectations and limitations of gender are confining and restrictive
We are overturning those stones,
We reject the restrictive and arbitrary gender norms and stereotypes
We are throwing them back.
We are actively fighting against the oppressive structure of societal gender norms
We are making revolution
We are actively seeking change and progression in the gender norms of society
A gender evolution.
We are pushing for a more accepting and wide-ranging understanding of gender identity and expression
We are invoking strategy, we are revoking shame.
We are actively working to better understand and counter societal norms and shame surrounding gender
And we are calling it. We are calling it
We are naming and identifying the obstacles to widespread acceptance of diverse gender identities and expressions
Refusal to be Named.
We reject the singular and limiting identity assigned by societal gender norms
Contributed by Samantha L. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
Nicole Slater
She is amazing. Such an amazing and talented slam poet! Love this poem!
MainelyButch
This is awesome! Favorited!
Jules Trumain
It’s real. It’s a revolution. Damn! That is slam!
randomflyingpigeons
Rock it, girl
beatgoddess
"Deconstruction worker"!!!!!!!!!!!
Billie Bean
She is not a guy,...OBVIOUSLY...did you even hear the words?! Alix kicks ass, I used to listen to her 10 years ago when I was 14 and I just re-discovered her now. Fuckin' awesome! Is this just her in this poem, or is another poet as well?
Josh romig
Who is reading this with her?