Valentine
Ambra Lyrics


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Valentine in December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same

Attachement to me is a crime
Breaking me still I keep acting surprised
I keep acting surprised
Ich mag dich mehr, wenn du bist weniger
Drowning in words that you couldn't hold on to
You keep pushing me in the cold water
In the cold water, to see if this is pure or not

Valentine in December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same

I don't feel hungry, I wanna go to sleep
Tired of everbody acting sketchy
Kissing Cupido goodbye
His arrow caused me red eyes, that make me wish I was blind
At some point you owned my mind, at some point wanted to hide

In December
You say you love me, but you don't remember




My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same

Overall Meaning

The song "Valentine in December" talks about the painful experience of being in a relationship with someone who claims to love you, but doesn't even remember your name. The singer feels suffocated and broken, and yet can't help but continue to be surprised by the hurtful behavior of their lover. There is a sense of detachment and a longing for space, with lines like "Attachment to me is a crime" and "Ich mag dich mehr, wenn du bist weniger" (I like you more when you're less). The singer is drowning in the broken promises and empty words of their partner, who keeps pushing them into cold water to test the purity of their love. The chorus repeats the line "All girls are the same," highlighting the common experience of being taken for granted and mistreated in romantic relationships.


The second verse takes on a more defeated tone, with the singer feeling tired of everyone's sketchy and unreliable behavior. They say goodbye to Cupid and his arrow, which has caused them nothing but pain and red eyes. The singer acknowledges that there was a time when their partner owned their mind, but now they just want to be left alone. The chorus repeats again, emphasizing the cyclical nature of these painful experiences and the feeling of being trapped in a never-ending cycle of disappointment.


Line by Line Meaning

Valentine in December
The month of February is traditionally associated with Valentine's Day, but the singer is highlighting that the romance of this holiday is missing from her relationship in December.


You say you love me, but you don't remember
The singer's partner claims to love her, but they forget important details about her. This lack of attention is a sign that their love is not genuine.


My name, you cause me pain
Forgetting her name is a small but painful example of how the singer's partner is not fully invested in their relationship.


All girls are the same
The artist is expressing her frustration with how her partner sees her and potentially other women as interchangeable and not worth knowing as individuals.


Attachment to me is a crime
The artist is suggesting that their partner seems to see their relationship as something that is shameful or punishable, rather than something to be valued and nurtured.


Breaking me still I keep acting surprised
Despite their partner's mistreatment, the singer is still surprised and hurt each time something goes wrong in their relationship. This shows the depth of her desire to make things work.


Ich mag dich mehr, wenn du bist weniger
This line is in German and translates to "I like you more when you are less". The singer is revealing that their partner's overwhelming attention and affection is not what they want or need to feel loved and validated.


Drowning in words that you couldn't hold on to
The artist is overwhelmed by her partner's constant declarations of love and commitment, but these words seem empty and insincere because their partner cannot follow up on them with meaningful attention and action.


You keep pushing me in the cold water
This line suggests that the artist feels like her partner is constantly testing her, pushing her to her limits, and seeing if she will remain loyal and committed in difficult circumstances.


In the cold water, to see if this is pure or not
The artist's partner may be testing their love to see if it can withstand adversity or hardship, but this process feels isolating and cruel to the artist.


I don't feel hungry, I wanna go to sleep
The singer's partner is failing to meet her emotional needs or make her feel loved and valued, which is draining and exhausting. She would rather retreat into sleep than stay awake and face this reality.


Tired of everbody acting sketchy
The artist is becoming disillusioned with people in general, potentially because the people around her are not meeting her standards for honesty, kindness, or loyalty.


Kissing Cupido goodbye
The singer is rejecting the myth of Cupid, the god of love, and the idea that love should be easy, magical, or effortless. She recognizes that her own experiences with love are more complicated and painful than this myth suggests.


His arrow caused me red eyes that make me wish I was blind
This line compares the pain of heartbreak to the stinging sensation of getting something in your eyes. The singer wishes to be blind to this pain and not have to face the reality of her relationship.


At some point you owned my mind, at some point wanted to hide
The singer acknowledges that there was a time when she was fully absorbed in her relationship and wanted to hide away with her partner. However, this feeling has now faded and their relationship is no longer fulfilling her needs.




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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@andreeablaga1742

Valentine in December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same
Attachement to me is a crime
Breaking me still I keep acting surprised
I keep acting surprised
Ich mag dich mehr, wenn du bist weniger
Drowning in words that you couldn't hold on to
You keep pushing me in the cold water
In the cold water, to see if this is pure or not
Valentine in December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same
I don't feel hungry, I wanna go to sleep
Tired of everbody acting sketchy
Kissing Cupido goodbye
His arrow caused me red eyes
That make me wish I was blind
At some point you owned my mind
At some point wanted to hide
In December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same



@mariananemtan5924

Valentine in December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same
Attachement to me is a crime
Breaking me still I keep acting surprised
I keep acting surprised
Ich mag dich mehr, wenn du bist weniger
Drowning in words that you couldn't hold on to
You keep pushing me in the cold water
In the cold water, to see if this is pure or not
Valentine in December
You say you love me, but you don't remember
My name, you cause me pain
All girls are the same
I don't feel hungry, I wanna go to sleep
Tired of everbody acting sketchy
Kissing Cupido goodbye
His arrow caused me red eyes
That make me wish I was blind
At some point you owned my mind
At some point wanted to hide



All comments from YouTube:

@emilia_emmi_2704

This songs on fire 🔥🔥🔥 I mean, I discovered it 3 years later, but now it‘s stuck on repeat!! Sending love ❤

@gulphoo

This song was on my discover weekly playlist on spotify and I immediately clicked the like button when I first heard it. It makes me feel blue but yet comforts me. Its like crying out loud on a friends shoulder. Thank you for this amazing work.

@whoressaywhat

same here! Gerade eben! So talentiert, ich komm nicht drauf klar😱♥️

@whoisambra

wow babez thanks a lot for those lovely words 🥰

@goldgrain

loving this song bro... goated 🐐.. let us tap in

@camel2137

Amazing song 🥺

@oOLaJaOo

crazy shit ich dachte du wärst schon viel bekannter als das lied in meiner spotify playlist aufgetaucht ist :o großes potenzial auf jeden fall, ich feier deine stimme! und richtig nice dann auch noch berlin in deinem video wiederzuerkennen haha go guurl

@zurak71

Absolutes Meisterwerk!

@robin6875

Thank you spotify for introducing me to this gem 🙏🏻🔥

@Ninche123rocks

Vor 3 Tagen gefunden und kann nicht aufhören das zu hören damnnn

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