Are You Serious
Andrew Bird Lyrics


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Used to have just one foot out the door
Yeah, I always wanted more
I always was the one
You thought would never marry
Used to be so wilfully obtuse, or is the word abstruse?
Semantics like a noose, get out your dictionaries

I'm gonna cut to the quick
This is all nonfiction
Words you beat with a stick
These are my true convictions

So tell me, are you serious?
Are you serious?
'Cause every night of your life
You'll fight for it
So mysterious
How imperious!
But are you serious
When it really comes down to it?

I see that you're down there and I'm up here
Your boyfriend's gone to get a beer
Leaving us crystal-clear lines of communications
Promise me you won't avert your eyes
I'll drop my third-person disguise
You know it's time to do or die
No useless explanations

I'm gonna cut to the quick
This is all nonfiction
Words you beat with a stick
These are my true convictions

Tell me, are you serious?
Are you serious?
Every night of your life
You'll fight for it
So mysterious
How imperious!




But are you serious
When it really comes down to it?

Overall Meaning

In the song "Are You Serious" by Andrew Bird, the lyrics explore themes of commitment, communication, and authenticity in a relationship. The first verse reflects on the singer's past behavior of always wanting more and avoiding commitments. The use of the phrase "one foot out the door" suggests a hesitancy to fully invest in a romantic partnership. The line "You thought would never marry" conveys a perception of the singer as someone who would never settle down. Additionally, the use of the words "wilfully obtuse" and "abstruse" signifies a deliberate avoidance of clarity and straightforwardness in communication.


The chorus poses the question "Are you serious?" repeatedly, urging the listener to examine their own intentions and level of commitment. It questions whether the captivating allure and mystery of the relationship are backed up by genuine seriousness when it truly matters.


The second verse portrays a moment of clarity between the singer and their partner. The physical distance between them, with the singer being "up here" and the partner being "down there," symbolizes a disparity in their emotional connection. The mention of the partner's boyfriend going to get a beer implies a temporary absence, creating an opportunity for open communication between the singer and their love interest.


The plea for the partner to not avert their eyes and the mention of dropping the third-person disguise indicate a desire for raw and sincere interaction. The urgency in the line "it's time to do or die, no useless explanations" expresses a need for transparency and a willingness to confront the reality of the relationship.


Overall, "Are You Serious" delves into the complexities of commitment, the importance of clear communication, and the need for authenticity in relationships. It explores the tension between the allure of mystery and the necessity of seriousness when faced with important decisions.


Line by Line Meaning

Used to have just one foot out the door
I used to have a lack of commitment and was hesitant to fully invest in a relationship


Yeah, I always wanted more
I have always desired something beyond what was currently available or achieved


I always was the one
I consistently portrayed myself as the individual who would never settle down


You thought would never marry
You believed that I would never choose to enter into a lifelong commitment


Used to be so wilfully obtuse, or is the word abstruse?
I deliberately acted ignorant or unclear, possibly to avoid revealing my true intentions or feelings


Semantics like a noose, get out your dictionaries
Focusing on fine distinctions in meaning can be constricting and cause unnecessary complications


I'm gonna cut to the quick
I am going to get straight to the point without wasting time


This is all nonfiction
Everything I am saying is based on reality and my genuine experiences


Words you beat with a stick
You criticize and analyze my words intensely, often looking for hidden meanings


These are my true convictions
These are my deeply held beliefs and principles


So tell me, are you serious?
I am asking if you are genuinely committed and sincere


Cause every night of your life, you'll fight for it
Because every night you live, you are willing to struggle and put effort into maintaining this relationship


So mysterious, how imperious!
It is intriguing how you confidently assert your authority or dominance


But are you serious when it really comes down to it?
However, are you truly committed and genuine when faced with crucial decisions or situations?


I see that you're down there and I'm up here
I notice that you are in a inferior position compared to me, either physically or emotionally


Your boyfriend's gone to get a beer
Your partner has temporarily left for a casual activity, implying their absence is inconsequential


Leaving us crystal-clear lines of communications
Creating a situation where our communication with each other is direct and unambiguous


Promise me you won't avert your eyes
Make a commitment not to avoid or ignore difficult or uncomfortable truths


I'll drop my third-person disguise
I will abandon the mask of speaking in the third-person, revealing my true self


You know it's time to do or die
You understand that it is a critical moment where action or decision is necessary, possibly with high stakes


No useless explanations
There is no need for unnecessary justifications or reasoning




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: ANDREW WEGMAN BIRD, DANIEL DODD WILSON

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@omarsherif6198

This live performance is next level

@arthurdent9160

Awww man he's killing it in that outro solo!

@squishettebabe

This is my favorite song at the moment. I'm always singing it

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Brittany Brennum me too

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Same! Just found it this morning. My anthem for the day! 🤗

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@hbaratta

That violin solo at the end!!! I love this version!

@arthurdent9160

Completely agree, he absolutely kills it in that solo!! The whole performance is superb!

@paganinyyo

This guy is very talented one, and always turns out to be when it comes to art that doesn't matter the language is about, anyone can enjoy it. I like this song!!

@martini7993

Chodzi za mną od tygodni, świetny kawałek

@jsn1769

Great Display of owning the craft of music making. Love the new album!

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