How Insensitive
Antônio Carlos Jobim Lyrics


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I must have seemed
When she told me that she loved me
How unmoved and cold
I must have seemed
When she told me so sincerely
Why she must have asked
Did I just turn and stare in icy silence
What was I to say
What can you say
When a love affair is over
Now she's gone away
And I'm alone
With a memory of her last look
Vague and drawn and sad
I see it still
All her heartbreak in that last look
How she must have asked
Could I just turn and stare in icy silence
What was I to do




What can one do
When a love affair is over

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "How Insensitive" describe the aftermath of a failed love affair, as the singer reflects on his own emotional numbness and insensitivity towards his partner's honest expression of her love for him. He acknowledges that he must have seemed "unmoved and cold" when she confessed her feelings, staring back at her with an "icy silence" that betrayed his own lack of reciprocation. The singer now laments that he was unable to offer any adequate response, feeling lost and alone in his memories of their last encounter. He describes his former lover as looking "vague and drawn and sad," with all of the heartbreak of their failed relationship evident in her final expression.


The song is a poignant exploration of the emotional damage that can result from a breakdown in communication within a relationship. The singer only realizes the depth of his partner's feelings for him after she is gone, left with only the memory of her final look to remind him of what he has lost. The use of poetic language and vivid imagery helps to convey the complex emotions and regrets that arise from love's failures.


Line by Line Meaning

I must have seemed
I appeared to be


When she told me that she loved me
When she expressed her love for me


How unmoved and cold
My reaction was without warmth or emotion


I must have seemed
I appeared to be


When she told me so sincerely
When she expressed her feelings honestly


Why she must have asked
She probably wondered


Did I just turn and stare in icy silence
Did I respond with a cold and unfeeling stare


What was I to say
What appropriate words could I offer


What can you say
What words are there


When a love affair is over
At the end of a romantic relationship


Now she's gone away
Currently, she is no longer with me


And I'm alone
I am by myself


With a memory of her last look
With a recollection of the final expression on her face


Vague and drawn and sad
Faint, extended, and sorrowful


I see it still
It still comes to my mind


All her heartbreak in that last look
Her last expression showed her distress


How she must have asked
Likely, she inquired


Could I just turn and stare in icy silence
Did I merely behave with a frigid and silent response


What was I to do
What was the appropriate reaction


What can one do
What should someone do


When a love affair is over
At the end of a romantic relationship




Writer(s): Antonio Carlos Jobim, Vinicius De Moraes, Norman Gimbel

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@UltimateJazzyQuintet

Ah, insensatez que você fez
Coração mais sem cuidado
Fez chorar de dor o seu amor
Um amor tão delicado

Ah, por que você foi fraco assim
Assim tão desalmado
Ah, meu coração, quem nunca amou
Não merece ser amado

Vai, meu coração, ouve a razão
Usa só sinceridade
Quem semeia vento, diz a razão
Colhe sempre tempestade

Vai, meu coração, pede perdão
Perdão apaixonado
Vai, porque quem não pede perdão
Não é nunca perdoado



@shady_kid_

How insensitive
I must have seemed
When he told me that he loved me
How unmoved and cold
I must have seemed
When he told me so sincerely
Why he must have asked
Did I just turn and stare in icy silence
What was I to say?
What can you say
When a love affair is over?
Now he's gone away
And I'm alone
With a memory of his last look
Vague and drawn and sad
I see it still
All the heartbreak in his last look
How he must have asked,
Did I just turn and stare in icy silence
What was I to say?
What can you say
When a love affair is over?



All comments from YouTube:

@alletsasil

I heard this song as a kid, not knowing the name of it. Ever since, I would find myself humming this melody every now and then, searching for it, in vain. Thank god I watched Lost Highway and finally heard it again! What a relief!

@espectrograma

Very touching a song.

@laurae271

Musica que siempre vivirá en mis recuerdos de mi infancia..🤗

Gracias por enseñarme a escuchar la buena música Papá, siempre te recordaré en estas canciones tan bellas...😢

@imaginativelads

The most sophisticated and beautiful jazz ever written. I love it for its seeming simplicity and elegance.

@GTR-wx8jq

+imaginativelads
Well Stated :)

@M.E.N.E.M.

It s not jazz

@elyaqui5324

In other words its A Beautiful song

@chriskezen

isn't jazz. is bossa nova, brazilian rhythm, brazilian popular music. Bossa nova is a style, like jazz, but isn't jazz.

@halconair7587

imaginativelads Bossa Nova

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@Marymarmol

No cabe duda que Brasil posee uno de los ritmos más bellos del mundo. El Bossa Nova es exquisito; no hay forma de describirlo simplemente se siente su candente ritmo muy brasileño es ¡hermoso!

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