That's The Way I Feel About Cha
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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Huh, you know life is funny when you look at it
Everybody wants love
But everybody's afraid of love
You know, I'm a true believer

If you get anything out of life
You got to put up with the toil and strife
Ooh You're pushin' my love
A little bit too far
I don't think you know
I don't think you know how blest you are
And your friend Annie May tell you all she see
Have you, ever thought she was tryin' to get close to me

Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over
That's the way I feel about cha
That's the way I feel about cha
I don't mind, I don't mind, I don't mind

I know you've been hurt and so have many others too
But that's the sacrifice that life put you thru
Put you thru, put you thru
Trust in me, my dear, have no fear
You don't know but God might have sent me here, sent me here

Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over
That's the way I feel about cha
(Any of us can leave for a long adventure)
That's the way I feel about cha

Don't take my love as a sign of weakness
Check into the situation, girl
Dig a little deeper

Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over




That's the way I feel about cha
That's the way I feel about cha

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Aretha Franklin's song "That's The Way I Feel About Cha" delve into the complex nature of human relationships, particularly when it comes to love. The opening lines establish the paradoxical nature of people's desires for love while simultaneously harboring fear of it. However, the singer is portrayed as a "true believer" in the power of love. She goes on to express that there is a price to be paid for obtaining anything of value in life--love included. The line, "You're pushin' my love, a little bit too far" suggests that she is wary of being taken advantage of or having her love misinterpreted.


Later in the song, the singer addresses a specific person and their mutual acquaintance, Annie May. The singer notes that Annie May may be attempting to pursue the singer's love interest, adding a touch of drama to the lyrics. However, ultimately the singer urges the recipient of her love to trust in her and not fear the potential pain that may come with love. In the end, the singer recognizes that her love may be seen as a "sign of weakness" but implores the recipient to "dig a little deeper," suggesting that there is more to the situation than meets the eye.


Line by Line Meaning

Huh, you know life is funny when you look at it
Life has a strange way of working out sometimes.


Everybody wants love
Everyone desires love in their life.


But everybody's afraid of love
However, fear often holds people back from pursuing love.


You know, I'm a true believer
Personally, I am a firm believer in love's potential.


If you get anything out of life
In order to achieve anything in life,


You got to put up with the toil and strife
one must be prepared to endure difficulty and hardship.


Ooh You're pushin' my love
Your actions are testing the limits of my affection.


A little bit too far
You're going too far with your behavior.


I don't think you know
I don't believe you realize


I don't think you know how blest you are
just how fortunate you truly are.


And your friend Annie May tell you all she see
Perhaps you should consider that your friend Annie May has ulterior motives and isn't being truthful with you.


Have you, ever thought she was tryin' to get close to me
Did you ever consider that Annie May might be trying to steal my affection from you?


Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over
It's important to take some time and truly consider the situation here, my dear.


That's the way I feel about cha
This is simply how I feel about you and our current circumstances.


I don't mind, I don't mind, I don't mind
I am not bothered by your actions; it's just something to consider.


I know you've been hurt and so have many others too
I understand that you've been hurt in the past and many others have as well.


But that's the sacrifice that life put you thru
Unfortunately, experiencing pain and sacrifice is often an unavoidable aspect of life.


Trust in me, my dear, have no fear
However, I urge you to place your trust in me and not be afraid.


You don't know but God might have sent me here, sent me here
It's possible that I was sent into your life for a reason, perhaps by divine intervention.


Don't take my love as a sign of weakness
My affection for you should not be mistaken as a sign of weakness on my part.


Check into the situation, girl
Please take a closer look at the situation and the motives of those around you.


Dig a little deeper
You may find that there is more to the situation than meets the eye.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Abkco Music Inc.
Written by: John Grisby, Bobby Womack, Joseph Hicks

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allan diang

[Verse 1]
If you get anything out of life
You got to put up with the toils and strife
Ooh, well just pushed our love a little bit too far
We forgot to remember how blessed we were, now
And the girl over there telling me what she sees
You don't have to worry, baby
She ain't going to get next to me
Yes, she don't mean a thing at all
And I thought it over, yes I did

[Chorus]
That's the way that I feel about you, baby
That's the way that I feel about you, baby
That's the way that I feel about you, baby
That's the way that I feel about you, baby, yeah

[Verse 2]
I know you've been hurt just like many others too
But that's the sacrifice that life is gonna put us all through
Trust in me, I'll trust in you and have no fear
Sometimes, I look at you, baby and wonder if God sent you here
And I thought it over, yes I did, well, well, well, well

[Chorus]
That's the way that I feel about you, baby
And I hope you don't mind if I get weak and cry for you sometimes
That's the way that I feel about you, baby
That's the way that I feel about you, yeah

[Verse 3]
Please, please, please, babe, if you hear my love knocking at your door
Open up, oh, because the world ain't giving up, sometime you're no more
I know you've been hurt, so have many others too
All we gotta do is look back over the years, shining through
Shine through the light and put us all through, yeah, yeah

[Chorus]
That's the way that I feel about you, baby
That's the way that I feel about you in my heart for you baby
Yeah, yeah, that's the way, that's the way, that's the way
That's the way I feel about you, baby

[Bridge]
I get a little weak now and I cry sometimes, yeah
I don't mind, I don't mind
I love you baby, love you baby, love you baby, love you baby

[Verse 4]
That's the way I feel, let me just talk about it a little while
You'll see right now, that's the way that I, that's the way that I
That's the way that I, that's the way that I, that's the way
Yeah, that's the way, that's the way, that is the way, oh
I feel about you, baby, that's the way that I, that's the way I
That's the way that I, that's the way I, oh
That's the way that I I feel about you, baby, ooh, baby
Think about you all the time and I'm so glad
I'm so glad, I'm so glad, I'm so glad, so glad, I'm so glad
So glad to know you're my love now, baby
Stay my baby, sure you gonna do that for me, sure
Sure you gonna do that for me now that I have been alone

[Outro]
Let me know that that's the way
Let me know that that's the way
That you'd be, that you'd be always true
The way I feel



Carla Nunes

Huh, you know life is funny when you look at it
Everybody wants love
But everybody's afraid of love
You know, I'm a true believer
If you get anything out of life
You got to put up with the toil and strife
Ooh You're pushin' my love
A little bit too far
I don't think you know
I don't think you know how blest you are
And your friend Annie May tell you all she see
Have you, ever thought she was tryin' to get close to me
Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over
That's the way I feel about 'cha
That's the way I feel about 'cha
I don't mind, I don't mind, I don't mind
I know you've been hurt and so have many others too
But that's the sacrifice that life put you thru
Put you thru, put you thru
Trust in me, my dear, have no fear
You don't know but God might have sent me here, sent me here
Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over
That's the way I feel about 'cha
(Any of us can leave for a long adventure)
That's the way I feel about 'cha
Don't take my love as a sign of weakness
Check into the situation, girl
Dig a little deeper
Think it over, think it over, girl, think it over
That's the way I feel about 'cha
That's the way I feel about 'cha



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Midwest Slot Diva

This gifted lady could NOT read a note of music, but was a beast on those keys🎹. There is NO one who can come close to her. She was and ALWAYS be Our Queen!! What a beautiful legacy she leaves for generations to come. She's been a part of my life for 50 years, she is indeed an important part of the soundtrack of my life. We love you Queen Re and we will NEVER forget you❤

Deme_More

She played by ear that's how my Grammy and Uncle play as well.

Stnly Givan

Setting back listening through headphones with eyes wide shut!, this version puts chills down my spin, R.I.H. Ms. Aretha Franklin, "Q.O.S."

She Mar

That’s how you do it! Shut everything out and escape through some great music!

Ricklyn Hill

Yeeeeees

Arlene C

Yes

MrStyle23

My dad is prob. one of the biggest Bobby Womack fans but when he heard Aretha's version of this song...He proclaimed that Aretha took Bobby's song. For me she did as well! Listen to her vocals and the amazing piano work she did. It is mind blowing! The Rare & Unreleased CD is one of the best CD's that I've heard in a long time. You can really hear the genius of Aretha. 

cathy thomas

Yeah, when I heard Aretha version, it just blew me away.

MikeIdy6000

Aretha's "covers" always said "Step aside - this is MY song now."

Stacy Foster

Gives me chills and brings me to tears. The GOAT. 💖💖💖

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