Half Asleep
Ben Folds Lyrics


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Half asleep
Half a billboard, half a street
That's my window
All-in-all, if you wanna know
Half asleep

Old friends and strangers
They treat me like a little girl
Oh, but not you dear.
You were always here.

Like back in the black and white spotlight
I'd smoke a pack down
And you were sittin pretty there
Just like you're doing now.
Oh we were so in love or so they'd say.
I coulda gone all the way.
But like everything else. I did it half way.

Half asleep
That's where the dreams and demons meet
Say, stop the laughter.
"Dim the roar. This club's not funny anymore."
Friends used to say that to me (and)
Treat me like a little girl. Oh, but not you dear.
You were always here.

Like back when we'd drift along out of sight.
The band would play; I would sing my heart out
For drunken crowds. It didn't mean a thing.
Oh, we were SO in love and oh,
I'd loved you so.
And it seemed like an hour ago.

And when I'm down and out
I'd try to figure out
"What was it all about the world that always stayed there?"
I'm wondering "oh, how".
I wanna take another breath

Half asleep
La-do-da-do-do-do-do-do
Oh, no, no, no

No keep talkin
Im still here
Don't let them take you away my dear




Someone said "He can't hear you he's half asleep"
Have fun...

Overall Meaning

The song "Half Asleep" by Ben Folds is a nostalgic and reflective piece about past love and present struggles. The opening lines set the stage for the dream-like state in which the singer finds himself - divided between the world outside his window (half a billboard, half a street) and his inner world. The repetition of "half asleep" echoes the in-between state the singer is in, as if he is caught somewhere between reality and fantasy.


The second verse speaks of old friends and strangers treating the singer "like a little girl," while the subject of his love remained constant. In the bridge, the singer reflects on a time when he and his love were in the spotlight, and how he only gave it his all halfway. The chorus brings the listener back to the present, where the singer is struggling to make sense of the world around him. The line "half asleep, that's where the dreams and demons meet" highlights the vulnerability of the state between awake and asleep.


The final verse begs for someone to stay with the singer, as he knows his grasp on reality is tenuous. The repetition of "la-do-da-do-do-do-do" and "no, no, no" evokes a sense of desperation, as if the singer is trying to hold on to something that is slipping away. The song ends with the singer's fear that he may not wake up again, that he may not get another chance to experience the beauty and pain of the world.


Line by Line Meaning

Half asleep
Feeling partially conscious and unaware of my surroundings


Half a billboard, half a street
The view from my window is only partially visible


Old friends and strangers
People I've known for a while and those I don't know treat me the same way


They treat me like a little girl
Others treat me with a lack of respect or consideration


Oh, but not you dear.
However, you have always treated me with kindness and understanding


You were always here.
You've been a loyal friend who has stayed by my side through tough times


Like back in the black and white spotlight
Reminiscing about past moments of fame and success


I'd smoke a pack down
Recounting a habit of smoking cigarettes


And you were sittin pretty there
You were present and looking good while I performed


Just like you're doing now.
You continue to be there for me as I reflect on the past


Oh we were so in love or so they'd say.
We were supposedly in love at one point, according to others


I coulda gone all the way.
I could have given more effort or tried harder


But like everything else. I did it half way.
But as usual, I only did it halfway and failed to give my all


That's where the dreams and demons meet
Being half asleep is where my hopes and fears coalesce


Say, stop the laughter.
I want others to stop laughing at me


"Dim the roar. This club's not funny anymore."
Asking people to quiet down and take things more seriously


Friends used to say that to me (and)
Other acquaintances have made similar requests of me


Treat me like a little girl. Oh, but not you dear.
Treating me as if I'm naive and childlike still happens with some people, but not with you


Like back when we'd drift along out of sight.
Reminiscing about aimless meandering with you in the past


The band would play; I would sing my heart out
Reliving moments of musical performance with enthusiasm and passion


For drunken crowds. It didn't mean a thing.
Performing for audiences who were intoxicated, yet it didn't hold any real value


Oh, we were SO in love and oh, I'd loved you so.
Reflecting on a time when we were truly and deeply in love


And it seemed like an hour ago.
Despite time passing, the memory feels recent


And when I'm down and out
During times of hardship and struggle


I'd try to figure out
Attempting to make sense of my situation


"What was it all about the world that always stayed there?"
Wondering about the meaning and purpose of the unchanging world around me


I'm wondering "oh, how".
Feeling a sense of confusion and uncertainty


I wanna take another breath
Desiring a fresh start or another chance


La-do-da-do-do-do-do-do
Singing a nonsensical melody


Oh, no, no, no
Expressing a sense of disappointment or disbelief


No keep talkin
Asking someone to continue speaking


Im still here
Asserting my presence and perseverance


Don't let them take you away my dear
Urging my dear one to not be taken away or lost


Someone said "He can't hear you he's half asleep"
Being dismissed or ignored by someone because of my disoriented state


Have fun...
Ending the song on a somewhat cryptic sentiment




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Comments from YouTube:

Ezra C

Man, I'm so bummed out that this and guilty never got fully finished. This one definitely has a lot of potential and honestly sounds great in it's current state.

Ian Horn

One of my favorite demos

Lightclaw

Oh my goodness, this is a definite Ben Folds moment (me when I'm half sleep because I'm narcoleptic????)

Mike Sutter

Hey, is YouTube deleting my comments or are you? If you are that's totally fine, just want to make sure. It might be because I put links in the comments.

Then again, if you delete this one, I guess I wouldn't have any way of knowing if it was you or the site. Lol

Silver St.

Yeah I've had to check the "held for review" section almost nonstop because comments keep getting automatically hidden by YouTube. Links are usually the number 1 culprit, but sometimes they get hidden seemingly randomly. I thought I changed the settings so that there was no automatic comment moderation, but I guess I'll have to check it again. As it is right now, I've unhid every comment that was held for review. So if you have any comments you made that still aren't showing up, there's nothing I can do.

Mike Sutter

@Silver St. No problem, sorry to cause you the headache. I was worried that I had annoyed you by commenting too much.

Silver St.

There's no such thing as too many comments.

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