Sports and Wine
Ben Folds Lyrics


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Destiny was calling
Monday afternoon
Wednesday you'll be crawling
And you'll pray to be there soon
With sports and wine

Some men never grew up
Fortunate like you
Some men never found out
What it takes to be a dude
That's Sports and Wine

The girls don't understand it
What you think is art
My oh my we're all impressed
How sensitive you are
Everybody's talkin' about you now
You know it's true
Always has been sports and wine for you

So you ask me how I think I know
Just what makes you tick
I know what I know why know
I know you make me sick
Sports and wine

Girls don't understand it
Anything you say
I don't understand it either
Guess that makes me gay




Everybody's talking 'bout you now
You know it's true...

Overall Meaning

In the song "Sports and Wine" by Ben Folds, the lyrics describe a man who is clinging onto his youth and immaturity. He spends his time indulging in sports and drinking wine, and avoids the responsibilities of adulthood. The singer notes that some men are fortunate enough to never grow up, while others struggle to embrace the maturity and responsibility that comes with age.


The second verse sheds light on the man's attitude towards women and art. He dismisses the idea of sensitivity and instead chooses to prioritize his own interests. The lyrics suggest that the man is often the subject of conversation, however, the singer's tone reveals a sense of frustration and disappointment with this.


The chorus of the song repeats the idea that the man's interests have always been sports and wine. The second verse reinforces this idea and implies that the man is not able to connect with others who do not share his interests.


Overall, the song portrays a man who is unwilling to grow up and take responsibility for his actions. He chooses to prioritize his interests above all else, and the singer appears frustrated by his unwillingness to change.


Line by Line Meaning

Destiny was calling
You feel like you are meant for greatness


Monday afternoon
It all started on an ordinary day


Wednesday you'll be crawling
Things will get tough pretty soon


And you'll pray to be there soon
You'll wish for success before it's too late


With sports and wine
Your coping mechanism during hard times is drinking and watching sports


Some men never grew up
You feel like you're one of the lucky few who never had to face the responsibilities of adulthood


Fortunate like you
You believe your life is easier than that of others


Some men never found out
You see being macho is still essential to manliness


What it takes to be a dude
You think being part of the stereotypical 'bro' culture is important to be a man


The girls don't understand it
You're convinced that women just don't get it


What you think is art
You believe what you enjoy is sophisticated


My oh my we're all impressed
You think everyone should admire your taste


How sensitive you are
You see yourself as sensitive and deep


Everybody's talkin' about you now
You think people are envious of you


You know it's true
You're convinced you're right


Always has been sports and wine for you
You've always found solace in sports and drinking


So you ask me how I think I know
You don't believe anyone could understand you


Just what makes you tick
You wonder what drives you


I know what I know why know
You're convinced nobody else could explain you


I know you make me sick
You're disgusted by yourself and your behavior


Anything you say
You're convinced people are ignoring you


Guess that makes me gay
You believe that anyone who doesn't fit your stereotype of a man must be gay




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

jinny💚light

Destiny was calling
Monday afternoon
Wednesday you'll be crawling
And you'll pray to be there soon
With sports and wine
yeah ah ah sports and wine, no no


Some men never grew up
Fortunate like you
Some men never found out
What it takes to be a dude
That's Sports and Wine
yeah ah ah sports and wine, no no no


The girls don't understand it
What you think is art
My oh my we're all impressed
How sensitive you are
Everybody's talkin' about you now
You know it's true
'Cause always has been sports and wine for you


So you ask me how I think I know
Just what makes you tick
I know what I know y'know
I know you make me sick
Sports and wine
Sports and wine


Girls don't understand it
Anything you say
I don't understand it either
Guess that makes me gay
Everybody's talking 'bout you now
You know it's true..



All comments from YouTube:

Matt Horton

i really like the backing vocals in this song. it just fits so perfectly with the music without overpowering ben

Christian Earl Sabijon

Same! So fun to sing along to

Noah Jackson-King

2016 and this song is still amazing, it will never grow old

Johnny Rockets

+Grolsh Daggertooth Right!

Q * bert

Still great in 2017, too!

Charlie Jade

Imagine this song in Fortnite

Dan Cardosi

2018, still awesome.

Ezra C

@Dan Cardosi 2020 still good as ever.

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taco neco

I still love this song in 2020!

Diana Kao

Still a wonderful song... <3

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