Side of the Road
Ben Folds Lyrics


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You wait in the car
On the side of the road
Let me go and stand a while
I want to know you're there
But I want to be alone

If only for a minute or two
I want to see what it feels like
To leave without you
I want to feel the touch of my own skin
Against the sun
Against the wind

I walked out in a field
The grass was high and it brushed against my legs
I just stood and looked out at the open space
At a farm outside a little ways

And I wondered about the people who lived in it
And I wondered if they were happy and content
Were there children and a man and a wife
And did she love him and take her hair down at night

If I stray to far from you
Don't go and try to find me
It doesn't mean that I don't love you
And don't mean that I won't come back
And stay beside you

It only means that I need a little time
To follow that unbroken line
To a place where the wild things grow
To a place where I always used to go

If only for a minute or two
I want to see what it feels like
To leave without you
I want to feel the touch of my own skin




Against the sun
Against the wind

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ben Folds’s song, “Side of the Road” feature the struggle between the desire for independence and the need for a close relationship. The singer of the song asks to be left alone on the side of the road, but also wants to know that their partner is there. The desire for personal space and freedom, even if fleeting, is so strong that the singer feels the need to just stand in an open field, to be enveloped by nature and removed from any human interaction. The thought of those who may be enjoying a stable family life triggers a longing within the singer to feel a similar sense of contentment. However, the singer assures their loved one that the need for solitude and distance doesn’t mean that they don’t love them, but that they just need a little time. Ultimately, the song stresses that there’s value in striking a balance between independence and intimacy.


The themes of the lyrics, particularly the conflict between independence and intimacy, are mirrored in the music of the song. The stripped down instrumentation of just piano and vocals effectively contrasts with the more luscious arrangements of Folds’s earlier work. The concise, repetitive nature of the piano balances the emotional depth of the vocals. The minor chords in the piano chords foster feelings of sadness and isolation. However, the nostalgic melody lines in the piano conveys a sense of romanticism and reflection. The result is a song that’s both melancholic and ultimately optimistic.


Line by Line Meaning

You wait in the car
You are waiting in the car


On the side of the road
The car is parked beside the road


Let me go and stand a while
Give me some time alone to stand and think


I want to know you're there
I want to be reassured that you are nearby


But I want to be alone
Despite wanting your presence, I also want to be alone


If only for a minute or two
If only for a brief period


I want to see what it feels like
I am curious to know the feeling


To leave without you
To depart without you by my side


I want to feel the touch of my own skin
I want to experience contact with my own body


Against the sun
In the presence of the sun's warmth


Against the wind
Despite the force of the wind


I walked out in a field
I ventured into a field


The grass was high and it brushed against my legs
The tall grass touched my legs as I walked through it


I just stood and looked out at the open space
I stood still and viewed the surrounding expanse


At a farm outside a little ways
I saw a farm located some distance away


And I wondered about the people who lived in it
I pondered on the individuals residing there


And I wondered if they were happy and content
I questioned whether or not they were satisfied with their lives


Were there children and a man and a wife
Did a family unit reside on the farm?


And did she love him and take her hair down at night
Did the wife love her husband and let her hair loose at bedtime?


If I stray to far from you
If I venture too far away from you


Don't go and try to find me
Do not try to locate me


It doesn't mean that I don't love you
My absence does not imply that I don't love you


And don't mean that I won't come back
It doesn't suggest that I won't return


And stay beside you
And be by your side


It only means that I need a little time
It signifies that I require some brief respite


To follow that unbroken line
To trail that continuous pathway


To a place where the wild things grow
To a location where untamed things flourish


To a place where I always used to go
To a site I frequently visited in the past




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG Rights Management
Written by: LUCINDA WILLIAMS

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