Tell Me What I Did
Ben Folds Lyrics


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My nose was hurting
and I was shouting something
we were two kids
and I was fat and grumpy.
Pushed you down some stairs.
I said, "your mom smelled like old underwear",
and then you split my lip,
Will you tell me what I did

Tell me what I did.
(ohh ohh ohh)
Tell me what I did.
(ohh ohh ohh)

Shelly was pretty.
She studied Algebra.
She made some cookies,
for the whole math class.
She would talk to me,
even though I was a bully.
I always knew she'd be somebody.
Now she's the editor-and-cheif,
of a free magizene.
(ohh ohh ohh)

Tell me what I did.
(ohh ohh ohh)
Tell me.
(ahh ah ahh)x2

The kids formed a circle,
just like enter the dragon.
I was defending myself
from snowballs coming at me.
I said I'll come back then,
and get you one on one.
Oh yay, we're no longer friends,
cause they started to run.
Screaming tell me what I did,
tears in my eyes.

Tell me what I did.
Tell me what I did.
Tell me what I did.
(ohh ohhh ohh)
Tell me what I did
(ohh ohh ohh)
Tell me what I did
(ohh ohh ohh)
Tell me what I did.
Tell me what I did.




(ohh ohh ohh)
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Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Tell Me What I Did" by Ben Folds delve into the memories of the singer, who is trying to make sense of his actions as a child. The song begins with him recalling an incident when he was upset and pushed his friend down the stairs, leading to a physical fight where he ended up with a split lip. The singer then pleads with his friend to tell him what he did wrong, possibly hoping for some absolution for his childish behavior. He then moves on to talk about his other classmate, Shelly, who was kind to him despite him being a bully. Shelly is now successful, and the singer seems to regret his past actions.


The song's introspective nature touches on themes of remorse, nostalgia, and the lasting effects of our actions. It explores the complexities of childhood friendships and the sometimes chaotic events that transpire in them. The chorus, with the repeated plea of "tell me what I did," illustrates the singer's desperation to understand his own behavior and the consequences it had. The song's ending, with the singer recounting how he was left alone by his friends, confirms his suspicion that he was, in fact, in the wrong.


Line by Line Meaning

My nose was hurting
I was in physical pain.


and I was shouting something
I was expressing my frustration out loud.


we were two kids
We were both young and inexperienced.


and I was fat and grumpy.
I was overweight and in a bad mood.


Pushed you down some stairs.
I physically harmed you by pushing you down a staircase.


I said, "your mom smelled like old underwear",
I insulted your mother in a crude and hurtful manner.


and then you split my lip,
You retaliated by harming me physically and injuring my lip.


Will you tell me what I did
I am asking you to explain my wrongdoing and the reason for your retaliation.


Shelly was pretty.
I am introducing a new character named Shelly and noting her physical appearance.


She studied Algebra.
I am providing information about Shelly's academic pursuits.


She made some cookies,
I am mentioning that Shelly baked cookies.


for the whole math class.
I am specifying the recipients of Shelly's cookies.


She would talk to me,
Shelly engaged in conversation with me.


even though I was a bully.
I acknowledged that I was a bully towards Shelly.


I always knew she'd be somebody.
I recognized Shelly's potential for success.


Now she's the editor-and-cheif,
I am sharing information about Shelly's current occupation.


of a free magizene.
I am specifying the type of publication that Shelly edits.


The kids formed a circle,
I am describing the physical arrangement of a group of children.


just like enter the dragon.
I am referencing a martial arts movie called Enter the Dragon.


I was defending myself
I believed that I was acting in self-defense.


from snowballs coming at me.
I am specifying the type of attack I was facing from the other children.


I said I'll come back then,
I threatened to retaliate against the other children.


and get you one on one.
I intended to harm them individually and directly.


Oh yay, we're no longer friends,
As a result of this confrontation, our friendship was damaged or destroyed.


cause they started to run.
The other children fled to avoid further conflict.


Screaming tell me what I did,
I am expressing my confusion and desire for an explanation.


tears in my eyes.
I am emotional and upset, shown by my teary eyes.


Tell me what I did.
I repeat my plea for an explanation of my wrongdoing.


ohh ohh ohh
This line is only a vocalization and has no specific meaning.


ahh ah ahh
This line is only a vocalization and has no specific meaning.




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