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Bill Frisell Lyrics


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I have to say that we should finish it now
Before we weaken `cause we already know this is wrong
I could give in, sometimes I think that I will
Despite the temptation I try to be very strong
In my reluctance seems a surprise
It`s not `cause I don`t want you

But I just
Know I must...hesitate

Because I still have that other girl
In my head
I still have that other girl in my head

There may be ugly rumors that
I have been lying
There may be angry tears, but
They`re never worth the crying

That is why
Sometimes I...hesitate

Because I still have that other girl
In my head




I still have that other girl in my head
I still have that other girl in my head

Overall Meaning

The song "I Still Have That Other Girl" by Bill Frisell/Elvis Costello is a story of a man who is torn between two women, one of whom he is currently with and the other who is constantly on his mind. The lyrics suggest that the man is struggling with the decision of whether to stay with his current partner or to give in to the temptation of the other woman. However, despite his desire for the other woman, he tries to resist the temptation and be strong, recognizing that what he is doing is wrong.


The song is a reflection on the complexities of human relationships and the difficulties we face when we are forced to make difficult decisions. It tells a story of a man who is caught between his love for his current partner and the desire for someone else. The lyrics are thoughtful and introspective, and they speak to the deeper issues that we all face in our lives. They also reveal the complicated emotions that we often experience when we are in love.


Line by Line Meaning

I have to say that we should finish it now
I think we should end our relationship now


Before we weaken 'cause we already know this is wrong
If we continue, our situation will become even worse because we already know we shouldn't be together


I could give in, sometimes I think that I will
I am tempted to give in to my feelings for you


Despite the temptation I try to be very strong
Even though I am tempted, I try my best to resist


In my reluctance seems a surprise
You may be surprised by my hesitancy


It's not 'cause I don't want you, but I just know I must... hesitate
It's not that I don't want to be with you, but I know I should hold back


Because I still have that other girl in my head
I am still thinking about another girl


There may be ugly rumors that I have been lying
People may spread rumors that I have been deceitful


There may be angry tears, but they're never worth the crying
Even if someone gets upset, it's not worth the emotional stress to continue our relationship


That is why sometimes I... hesitate
That's why I am sometimes unsure about our relationship


Because I still have that other girl in my head
I can't stop thinking about another girl


I still have that other girl in my head
The other girl is still on my mind




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: BURT F BACHARACH, DECLAN MACMANUS, ELVIS COSTELLO

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@mikekratochwill4195

I'm trying to put the set list together from this awesome show. This is what I have so far...
Keep Your Eyes Open 4:00
Segue from Keep Your Eyes Open to Unknown Title
Strange Meeting 28:00
Baba Drame 38:00
What the World Needs Now 44:00
It Should Have Happened a Long Time Ago 51:00
Shenandoah (brief rendition) 57:50
Lotus Blossom 1:00:41
Evidence 1:07:10
Rudy's Drum Solo 1:13:25
We Shall Overcome 1:17:00
When You Wish Upon a Star 1:26:00
You Only Live Twice 1:30:00



All comments from YouTube:

@censusgary

I don’t know if anybody will read this, but there are an exceptionally astute and sensitive group of people commenting on this video. I recommend reading this comment section.

@kynoceph

This is like Zen Jazz. Nothing is said/played that does not need to be played, and everything that is played is perfect for that moment, pearl after pearl, or drop after drop like rain. Truly amazing.

@30mouse

Perfectly stated

@chadrew6

Define what does or does not "need to be played". The statement is utterly arbitrary.

@_Ramen-Vac_

@@chadrew6 arbitrary? hey, it may be a tad like, lame syntax, but, if one has ears and a mind with any wind in its sails ~per se~ ..it's perfect. McLaughable. lol

@chadrew6

@@_Ramen-Vac_ My point was that there are no rules about what should and should not be played and one should use one's ears. And....your lame joke on my name used the wrong spelling of it...actually John McLaughlin's spelling.

@_Ramen-Vac_

@@chadrew6 precisely wrong. There ARE actual rules. Musical laws. Only they who know them may break them. That's simply why McLaughlin shall remain forever 10,000 x your superior. heck, mine ? 20,000 x mine. hahahaha.. because you're gOOd, and I stink. but you do not hear the harmony. just the how fast can i noodle thing. Zappa had a pass, even Zoot Horn Rollo.

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@rangaveeravalli

i am an indian from the southernmost state of india, have grown up all through these 60 years on a staple diet of music - of various kinds - from the classical carnatic music of south india, to the hard rock and everything in between at one time or the other... the music that bill frisell makes is like nothing else, and yet is like (almost) everything else you have heard across the spectrum... ! and what i find as the cornerstone of everything he creates, is MELODY - which is the queen emperor of any/all music.

the melodic is that ultimate hallmark of a true music. bill's is a musical soul. hence the zen feel that so many below have so spontaneously felt and confessed here :)

Grace - indeed !!

god bless :)

@mickknight6963

I spent 2 weeks in Kerala & Tamil Nadu in '91, preaching the gospel of Jesus! Beautiful country & precious souls, love India! Lord bless you....and what a group!! ☝️

@SwedeRic1

You found melody?

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