She's Always a Woman to Me
Billy Joel Lyrics


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She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes
And she can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child but she's always a woman to me
She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free
Yeah, she steals like a thief, but she's always a woman to me
Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She just changes her mind

And she'll promise you more than the garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding
But she'll bring out the best and the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me

Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm
Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm

Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She just changes her mind

She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel
But she can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool
And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree
And the most she will do is throw shadows at you
But she's always a woman to me





Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm
Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm

Overall Meaning

In Billy Joel's "She's Always a Woman to Me," the lyrics describe a complex, multifaceted woman who behaves as benevolent or malicious the way she wants. She has a captivating smile, but she can also destroy your confidence with just a look, and she typically hides her true self behind a childlike veneer. She can be both accepting and rejecting of love simultaneously, enjoys being gifted but only if it's free, and constantly changes her mind. Despite the challenges she presents, Joel affirms that she's still a woman to him, meaning she's steadfast in her identity and that he loves her, regardless of her flaws.


From the second verse, the song portrays the woman's unpredictability, especially when it comes to the dynamics of her romantic relationships. Joel confirms that she is independent, possibly a feminist because she takes care of herself and can wait for the love she wants. Although there is always an invisible barrier between them, he seems content being with her, even when she presents the flaws in his personality. The chorus emphasizes that it is sometimes difficult to be in love with her and that when things go wrong, one is entirely to blame, with the most she does is throw shadows around.


Line by Line Meaning

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes
She has a powerful charisma that can make people feel good, but also has the ability to hurt or intimidate them with just a look.


And she can ruin your faith with her casual lies
She may sometimes lie without much thought or consequence, but these lies have the potential to shake your beliefs and values.


And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She has the power to control how she is perceived, only showing people what she wants them to know about her.


She hides like a child but she's always a woman to me
Despite her ability to be secretive and elusive, and sometimes evoke childish qualities, she maintains her identity as a strong, complex woman.


She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you
She can either guide you towards a romantic relationship or ignore you completely, depending on what she desires.


She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe you
She may request honesty from you, but she won't necessarily accept it or believe it.


And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free
She will accept what you offer without payment, as long as there are no strings attached.


Yeah she steals like a thief but she's always a woman to me
Even when she acts sneakily or takes what isn't hers, she is still a woman and deserves to be recognized as such.


Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's independent and self-sufficient, and doesn't rush into anything she doesn't want.


She's ahead of her time
She is progressive and advanced in her thinking and behavior.


Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She remains strong and determined, never yielding to pressure or compromise.


She just changes her mind
She has the right to change her opinions or decisions, as she sees fit.


And she'll promise you more than the garden of Eden
She can make grand promises and exaggerations, leading you to believe in grandiose things.


Then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding
She can be emotionally hurtful and insensitive, and may take pleasure in seeing you suffer.


But she brings out the best and the worst you can be
With her influence, she can bring out both the positive and negative aspects of your personality.


Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me
Even if things go wrong or you get hurt, she is still a woman and deserves respect and recognition as such.


She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel
Her behavior can be erratic, displaying both kindness and cruelty at different moments.


But she can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool
She exercises her freedom of choice and isn't easily taken advantage of by others.


And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree
She has accumulated enough life experience to have earned a symbolic 'degree' and cannot be judged or sentenced by others.


And the most she will do is throw shadows at you
Even when she causes trouble or negativity, she isn't necessarily taking overt actions against you.


But she's always a woman to me
Regardless of her qualities, quirks, and behavior, she is always a woman in the eyes of the artist. She is deserving of respect, admiration, and recognition as such.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Billy Joel

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@merieclass

Lyrics
She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes
And she can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child but she's always a woman to me
She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free
Yeah, she steals like a thief, but she's always a woman to me
Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She just changes her mind
And she'll promise you more than the garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding
But she'll bring out the best and the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me
Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm
Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm
Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She just changes her mind
She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel
But she can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool
And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree
And the most she will do is throw shadows at you
But she's always a woman to me
Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm
Mmm-mmm, mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm



@webguyz1

Lyrics:

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes
And she can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child but she's always a woman to me

She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free
Yeah she steals like a thief but she's always a woman to me

Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She just changes her mind

And she'll promise you more than the garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding
But she brings out the best and the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me

Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in
She just changes her mind

She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel
But she can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool
And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree
And the most she will do is throw shadows at you
But she's always a woman to me



@yamumgay

the other night i asked my mom “what song reminds u of me?” out of curiosity and she put on this song :) she started to list the reasons why as the song was going and my eyes started watering bc i felt rlly loved in that moment (my mom isn’t very affectionate but she loves me) and im very affection and attention starved

im gonna put the lyrics and put what she said bc why not :pp

“she can kill with a smile”
“ur smile and ue laugh always makes me happy”
“she can wound with her eyes”
“i love ur eyes and their beautiful to me”
“she hides like a child”
“ur very shy but i love that about u”
“she can ask for the truth but she’ll never believe u”
“ur very stubborn lol”
“oh, she takes care of herself”
“i never have to worry about u”
“shes ahead of her timel
“ur very very smart for ur age and u always have been”
“oh, and she never gives in”
“again, ur very stubborn lol”
“she just changes her mind”
“u have a hard time making descions”
“then she’ll carelessly cut u and laugh while ur bleeding”
“u laugh a lot and ur very creepy but in the best way”
“she is frequently kind and she’s suddenly cruel”
“how u can be so sweet to everyone but ur mean to ur brothers”
“but she can do as she pleases, shes nobody’s fool”
“u always do ur own thing and never care about what people think of u”

hearing her say all that made me rlly happy so i thought i should share it :))



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@CodeNameCheese_

Anyone here not over the age of 30?

@lilith8293

17 here

@NeosunST

22 here, coping over finding out a woman I held an unrequited love for 12 years turned out to aromantic. It hurts. ☹️

@NeosunST

*turned out to be aromantic

@evanavandierendonck4774

15 here

@janelorockz3756

22

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@7ElevenAlphaCentauri

Many people may not know this, but an instrumental of this song was playing in the plaza of the WTC on 9/11. RIP to everyone 20 years later.

@aiden6354

Hearing a body slam into the ground about 6 seconds after the person started filming inside the plaza with the music is sickening. That footage has stuck with me for a while

@spaghettisauce445

womp womp

@metrik1b.257

@@spaghettisauce445you little kids think your so funny. Get your corny ass out of here

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