Pleasantries
Binki Shapiro Lyrics
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How do you think most times?
I've been searching for some passion for my actions
Now you know that its full price
You know how and you know why
You're not the bedroom type
Nightly fading, just what are you celebrating?
Whatever this is, the pleasure's all his
Endlessly trailing my dreams
No need to pretend I want you instead
To council her excellency
Can't be the first to say you're the worst
Surely there's one or two
I care more if you act as though you like me
Then if you really do
Living a lie to a song you can't hide
The paintings are still in the tube
I needed to fall, you need not crawl
I punish myself with you
What was between all those pleasantries
What did you hope you'd find?
I was waiting for the chance you never gave me
I'm still working on my line
In the song "Pleasantries," Binki Shapiro reflects on a relationship that is devoid of depth and genuine connection. The first verse asks what lies beneath the polite and superficial exchanges that often occur between people. It also questions the thought process of the other person involved, wondering how they perceive things most of the time. Shapiro expresses a desire for passion and authenticity in her actions, which she feels should come at a price.
The second verse focuses on the other person's personality and behavior. Shapiro suggests that they are not interested in intimate or romantic encounters, as they are not the "bedroom type." She observes that their fading presence in her life does not align with any cause for celebration. The reference to old fashions burning their short fuse dry suggests that this person has a short attention span and quickly loses interest.
The chorus presents a shift in perspective. Shapiro acknowledges that this relationship does bring some pleasure, but it is primarily for the other person. She describes herself as endlessly trailing her dreams, suggesting a lack of fulfillment and direction. She also expresses her desire not to pretend that she wants this person instead, but rather to seek counsel from someone who is more suited to the role.
In the third verse, Shapiro continues to critique the other person's character, implying that they are not the best partner she has encountered. She wonders if there might be others who agree with her assessment. She emphasizes that she cares more about this person's actions aligning with their words, highlighting the importance of authenticity rather than just superficial affection.
The last verse reflects on the singer's own journey and growth. Shapiro suggests that she has been living a lie, pretending to be someone she is not, hiding behind a facade. The reference to "paintings still in the tube" implies that her true potential and creativity are yet to be realized. She states that she needed to fall, possibly indicating a need to make mistakes and learn from them, while also suggesting that the other person need not grovel for forgiveness. Ultimately, she acknowledges that she is still searching for her own path and trying to find the right words to express herself.
Line by Line Meaning
What's in between all those pleasantries?
What deeper emotions or intentions lie beneath the surface of our polite interactions?
How do you think most times?
What is the nature of your thoughts and mindset?
I've been searching for some passion for my actions
I have been longing for a sense of purpose and genuine desire in what I do.
Now you know that its full price
You are now aware that the price to pay for true authenticity is not cheap or easy.
You know how and you know why
You possess the understanding and knowledge of your own motives and actions.
You're not the bedroom type
You are not inclined towards intimate connections and emotional vulnerability.
Nightly fading, just what are you celebrating?
You consistently fade away with the night, leaving uncertainty about what you truly find joyous.
Old fashions burn your short fuse dry
Outdated and traditional ways of thinking extinguish your patience and tolerance.
Whatever this is, the pleasure's all his
In whatever relationship or situation this is, the satisfaction and joy belong solely to him.
Endlessly trailing my dreams
My aspirations and desires are constantly being pursued without fulfillment or resolution.
No need to pretend I want you instead
I don't need to put on a facade of desire for you, because my true longing lies elsewhere.
To counsel her excellency
I desire to offer guidance and support to someone who holds a position of power and influence.
Can't be the first to say you're the worst
I may not be the first to express this, but you truly are the most terrible.
Surely there's one or two
Undoubtedly, there are a few others who hold the same belief.
I care more if you act as though you like me
I place greater significance on the way you pretend to like me, rather than your actual feelings.
Then if you really do
Rather than your genuine affection, I prioritize your pretended affection.
Living a lie to a song you can't hide
You are living a false existence while outwardly attempting to conceal your true nature.
The paintings are still in the tube
The artworks and expressions of creativity remain untouched and unshared.
I needed to fall, you need not crawl
I craved the experience of vulnerability and growth, whereas you have no need for such introspection.
I punish myself with you
I subject myself to suffering and hardship by staying connected to you.
What was between all those pleasantries
What was the genuine essence of our interactions hidden beneath all the polite exchanges?
What did you hope you'd find?
What were your expectations and aspirations for our relationship or connection?
I was waiting for the chance you never gave me
I was patiently anticipating an opportunity that you never granted me.
I'm still working on my line
I am still crafting and refining my response or approach.
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ADAM GREEN, JORDANA SHAPIRO
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
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