A Man I'll Never Be
Boston Lyrics
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you'd turn and walk away
disappearing way back
in your dreams
Its so hard to be unkind
so easy just to say
that everything is just the way it seems
you look up at me
and somewhere in your mind you see
A man I'll never be
If only I could find a way
I'd feel like I'm the man you believe I am
its getting harder every day for me
to hide behind this dream you see
of a man I'll never be
I cant get any stronger
and i cant climb any higher
you'll never know just how hard I've tried
Cry a little longer
and hold a little tighter
emotions cant be satisfied
you look up at me
and some where in your mind you see
A man I'll never be
Solo
If only I could find a way
I'd feel like I'm the man you believe I am
and it gets harder every day for me
to hide behind this dream you see
of a man I'll never be.
solo
Cant get any stronger
and i cant climb any higher
you'll never know just how hard I've tried
Cry a little longer
and hold a little tighter
emotions cant be satisfied
oh you look up at me
and some where in your mind you still see
a man I'll never be
If only I could find away
I'd feel like I'm the man you believe I am
and it gets harder every day for me
I cant keep hiding this feeling
"A Man I'll Never Be" by Boston is a song that expresses the feeling of inadequacy and insecurity that often grips a man in a romantic relationship. The lyrics convey a sense of desperation and frustration that comes from the acknowledgement of not being able to live up to the expectations of one's partner. The song's opening lines "If I said what's on my mind, you'd turn and walk away" reveals the fear of rejection that the singer is forced to deal with. He feels that if he expresses his true feelings to his partner, she would be disappointed and would eventually distance herself from him. This fear leads him to hide behind a facade and pretend to be the person that she wants him to be, even though he knows deep inside that he can never be that man.
The chorus of the song, "And somewhere in your mind you see a man I'll never be," further emphasizes the gap that exists between the singer's self-perception and the partner's expectation. He knows that he can never live up to her idealized version of him, and that realization haunts him constantly. As the song progresses, he expresses his desire to find a way to be the man that she believes he is, but he also acknowledges that he can never achieve that goal. The line "I can't keep hiding this feeling" shows the singer's struggle to maintain the facade and his eventual acceptance that he can never change who he is.
In conclusion, "A Man I'll Never Be" is a poignant and emotional song that delves into the complex emotions of insecurity, fear, and the struggle to live up to the expectations of a loved one.
Line by Line Meaning
If I said whats on my mind
I'm afraid to speak my truth for fear of losing you
you'd turn and walk away
I know you wouldn't be able to handle my feelings
disappearing way back in your dreams
You would retreat into your own thoughts
Its so hard to be unkind
I don't want to hurt you
so easy just to say that everything is just the way it seems
It's easier to pretend that everything is fine
you look up at me
You're always looking up to me
and somewhere in your mind you see
You have an idealized version of me in your head
A man I'll never be
But I know I can never live up to it
If only I could find a way
I wish I could be the man you want me to be
I'd feel like I'm the man you believe I am
I want to live up to your expectations
its getting harder every day for me
But it's becoming increasingly difficult to maintain this facade
to hide behind this dream you see
I can't keep pretending to be someone I'm not
of a man I'll never be
I know I'll never be able to live up to your idealized image of me
I cant get any stronger
I'm at my limit
and i cant climb any higher
I can't keep pushing myself
you'll never know just how hard I've tried
You may never understand the effort I've put in
Cry a little longer
I need to grieve
and hold a little tighter
But we still need to support each other
emotions cant be satisfied
But emotions can't always be resolved
oh you look up at me
You're still looking up to me
and some where in your mind you still see
You still have an idealized version of me in your head
a man I'll never be
But I know I can never live up to it
I cant keep hiding this feeling
I can't keep hiding my true self
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@tomstorm4060
I danced to this song with my wife in her hospital room the day before she died. I chose it because she wanted me to continue in life and be the same man I was the past 26 years we were together. I've tried but that was a man I'll never be again
@gibson3798
Man, I'm so sorry!
@geocav9708
Remember the good times.
@edwardpetersen3437
True pain, sorry brother. Try to be satisfied with the great memories. But there is no antidote. The hole in your heart won't be filled. Try to be grateful for what you had. That's what I try to do, it helps.
@BrianSkinner-sj4fq
Brad Delp was so underrated as a rock and roll singer to me he had one of the best voices he had so much range and smoothness and ease to hit the high notes he was unbelievable
@crawfordfanatic
I’m so sorry. My late husband used to play this for me. He was a brilliant musician. I feel your sadness. It’s a shitty club being widowed. We don’t want anymore members.
@glo7802
Brad Delp, I'm so sorry that you didn't find peace in this world! You had an amazing voice & touched many lives!😢
@ericsays8801
God wanted to hear his singing in person
@jenerickson67
Simply amazing voice!! Saw Boston twice in concert!! Amazing!!
@lafaynecallahan7189
Fly high❤❤❤