To Be A Man
Boston Lyrics


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What does it take to be a man?
What does it take to see
It's all heart and soul
A gentle hand
So easy to want and so hard to give
How can you be a man
'Til you see beyond the life you live?
Oh, what does it take to be a man?

We can be blind, but a man tries to see
It takes tenderness
For a man to be what he can be
And what does it mean
If you're weak or strong?
A gentle feelin'
can make it right or make it wrong
What does it take to be a man?

The will to give and not receive
The strength to say what you believe
The heart to feel what others feel inside
To see what they can see

A man is somethin' that's real
It's not what you are
It's what you can feel
It can't be too late




To look through the hate and see
I know that's what a man can be

Overall Meaning

"To Be a Man" by Boston is a song that delves into the complex question of what it truly means to be a man. The lyrics ask the listener to consider what qualities make up a man, and if it's possible to possess these qualities without a deep self-awareness and sense of empathy. The song opens with the repeated question, "What does it take to be a man?" suggesting that this is a question many people are struggling with, and it's not an easy one to answer.


The lyrics suggest that being a man requires "heart and soul" and "a gentle hand", qualities typically associated with compassion and kindness. The song argues that it's easy to want these things, but much harder to actually give them. The second verse emphasizes the importance of seeing beyond our own lives and experiencing tenderness in order to truly be a man. The chorus repeats the question, punctuating its relevance and importance.


The third verse highlights some of the key attributes of a true man, including a willingness to give without expecting anything in return, the strength to stand up for what one believes in, and the ability to empathize with others. The song then suggests that this definition of manhood is something that we can aspire to achieve through personal growth and reflection, encouraging the listener that it's never too late to become a true man.


Line by Line Meaning

What does it take to be a man?
What qualities and characteristics does one need in order to be considered a man?


What does it take to see
What does it take to have an enlightened understanding of what it means to be a man?


It's all heart and soul
Being a man is about showing emotional depth and understanding.


A gentle hand
Being a man is also about gentleness and care in interacting with others.


So easy to want and so hard to give
Although we might admire these traits in others, it can be difficult to embody them ourselves.


How can you be a man
What must one do in order to live up to society's standards of manhood?


'Til you see beyond the life you live?
In order to become a true man, one must have an understanding of something greater than oneself.


We can be blind, but a man tries to see
While it is easy to be oblivious to our own shortcomings, a true man works to overcome this tendency and become more self-aware.


It takes tenderness
In order to connect with others and show empathy and understanding, tenderness is required.


For a man to be what he can be
In order to fulfill his potential as a man, tenderness is a necessary quality.


And what does it mean
What is the significance of the qualities that define a man?


If you're weak or strong?
There is no clear answer to what makes a man, as it is not simply about physical strength.


A gentle feelin'
Being kind and empathetic is an important aspect of being a man.


can make it right or make it wrong
This gentle feeling can result in either positive or negative outcomes, depending on one's actions.


The will to give and not receive
A true man is selfless and giving, rather than selfish and greedy.


The strength to say what you believe
Being courageous enough to stand up for one's beliefs is an important part of masculinity.


The heart to feel what others feel inside
Empathizing and feeling the emotions of others is a necessary quality in a true man.


To see what they can see
Having an understanding of different perspectives is important in order to connect with others.


A man is somethin' that's real
Being a man is not just a theoretical concept, but something that can be lived out in reality.


It's not what you are
Being a man is not just about superficial qualities such as appearance or wealth.


It's what you can feel
Being a true man is more about the emotional depth and the way one is able to connect with others.


It can't be too late
It is never too late to start embodying these qualities and becoming a true man.


To look through the hate and see
One must be able to look beyond the negative aspects of life and find positivity and connection.


I know that's what a man can be
These are the qualities that define a true man.




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: TOM SCHOLZ

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