What Actually Happened
Brian Eno Lyrics


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I, uh, knew a man who once sent a letter to a mail channel that he'd raped his girlfriend and he's now a recovering rapist, attending an incest survivor's twelve step program. And the girlfriend, now ex, is in a support group for women who've been raped.

What actually happened?

"She was passed out asleep on the couch after we'd been drinking. I woke up in the middle of the night horny so I fucked her. She didn't wake up; I told her about it in the morning. She was furious! 'You raped me!' she said."


What actually happened?
What actually happened?




What actually happened?
What actually happened?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Brian Eno's song "What Actually Happened?" describe a disturbing story of rape and its aftermath. The opening lines describe a man who has confessed to raping his girlfriend and is now seeking help and support to recover from his actions. Meanwhile, the girlfriend is also seeking support in a group for women who have been raped. The lyrics then provide the man's perspective, as he admits that he took advantage of his girlfriend while she was passed out drunk.


The repetition of the phrase "What actually happened?" suggests an attempt to piece together the truth of the situation. The lyrics highlight the blurred lines around issues of consent and responsibility, as the man describes his own confusion around what constitutes rape. The song also touches on the theme of redemption, as the man seeks to make amends for his actions, while the girlfriend struggles to come to terms with the violation she has experienced.


Overall, the song provides a thoughtful and nuanced exploration of sexual violence and trauma, delving deep into the emotions and perspectives of all those affected by it.


Line by Line Meaning

I, uh, knew a man who once sent a letter to a mail channel that he'd raped his girlfriend and he's now a recovering rapist, attending an incest survivor's twelve step program.
I knew someone who admitted to raping their girlfriend and is now trying to recover by attending a program for survivors of incest.


And the girlfriend, now ex, is in a support group for women who've been raped.
The girlfriend, who is no longer with the person who raped her, is seeking support from other women who have experienced rape.


What actually happened?
This repeating phrase suggests a desire to understand the true events and motivations behind the situation.


"She was passed out asleep on the couch after we'd been drinking. I woke up in the middle of the night horny so I fucked her. She didn't wake up; I told her about it in the morning. She was furious! 'You raped me!' she said."
This dialogue recounts the truth of what actually happened, where the person committed sexual assault on their intoxicated partner while they were unconscious and then faced the consequences of their actions.




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