Family Song [
Bruce Springsteen Lyrics


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Well ya know when you're young,
There's such a distance between you and your family.
Just can't see things from the same point of view.

Papa wants a lawyer and mama she wants an author,
And all you want is for them to want you.

Well, I saw lot of bad signs and we had some real bad timesback on the east coast.
And I guess you could say it took california to bring us close.
There was a lot of hard livin' and some stone cold women on the east coast.
And I saw my papa turn away when I need him the most.
And california, she's an angel.
Lo, so heavenly dressed
And the pacific she's a woman
The lord must have loved her best.


I got a california rainbow to come give them thunder clouds a rest
And the mountain is my friend now, she put me to her test
Well you know every father has dreams and schemes fo his own kid.
And dreaming it ain't been declaired no capital crime
But I just hope when I grow up to have my own kids
I'll love them all I can and let 'em make their own minds
Now you know how a mother can hold the son through understanding.
And my father he once held me close by crying.
Whoa, and my mama's love it don't ever leave me standing.
And papa's love it just leaves me smiling.
Whoa, and my mama she's a rainbow,
Gotta see hen on sunday when she's dressed
Whoa, and my papa he's a good man, he gives me and mama his best.




Whoa, my mama she's a rainbow, come to give them thunder clouds a rest.
And my family is my friend now california put us through her test.

Overall Meaning

The song "Family Song" by Bruce Springsteen is about the complicated and often distant relationship between family members, particularly when the younger generation is trying to establish their own identity. The opening lines acknowledge how difficult it is for young people to connect with their family and see things from the same point of view. The chorus expresses a desire for acceptance and recognition from one's parents, while acknowledging the different paths they may want for their children's futures.


The song then goes on to describe the difficult times the singer had with his family on the east coast, and how a move to California brought them closer together. The landscape and people of California are described in almost reverent terms, as if they represent a healing force in the singer's life. The final verse is a hopeful one, with the singer expressing his desire to be a better parent to his own children in the future.


Overall, "Family Song" is a poignant exploration of the complex and enduring relationships between family members.


Line by Line Meaning

Well ya know when you're young,
When you are young, you may feel a disconnection from your family due to differences in opinions and viewpoints.


Papa wants a lawyer and mama she wants an author,
Parents often have their own aspirations and dreams for their children, which may not necessarily align with what the child wants.


And all you want is for them to want you.
Despite the differences in ambitions, ultimately, a child just wants to feel loved and accepted by their parents.


Well, I saw lot of bad signs and we had some real bad timesback on the east coast.
Growing up, there may be challenging times within a family, as the artist experienced on the east coast.


And I guess you could say it took california to bring us close.
Moving to California allowed the family to come together and find a new sense of connection.


There was a lot of hard livin' and some stone cold women on the east coast.
The east coast was a rough place to live, with difficult circumstances and harsh people.


And I saw my papa turn away when I need him the most.
The singer witnessed a painful moment when their father was not there for them during a time of need.


And california, she's an angel.
California is described as being a positive influence, almost like a heavenly being.


Lo, so heavenly dressed
Even the scenery and appearance of California is beautiful and ethereal.


And the pacific she's a woman
The Pacific Ocean is personified as being feminine, perhaps representing nurturing and care.


The lord must have loved her best.
The singer suggests that God favored California, perhaps due to its beauty and sense of positivity.


I got a california rainbow to come give them thunder clouds a rest
The artist found hope and positivity in California, like a rainbow shining through the clouds.


And the mountain is my friend now, she put me to her test
The mountains of California are seen as challenging but ultimately a positive force in the singer's life.


Well you know every father has dreams and schemes fo his own kid.
Just like the singer's parents had their own aspirations for their child, this is a common experience for many families.


And dreaming it ain't been declaired no capital crime
Having dreams and hopes for one's child is not a bad thing or punishable in any way.


But I just hope when I grow up to have my own kids
The artist expresses a desire to have children of their own in the future.


I'll love them all I can and let 'em make their own minds
If the artist does have children, they want to prioritize love and allowing their kids to make their own decisions and form their own opinions.


Now you know how a mother can hold the son through understanding.
Mothers can provide support and comfort to their children through empathy and understanding.


And my father he once held me close by crying.
The singer's father showed his love and emotion by holding their child and crying with them.


Whoa, and my mama's love it don't ever leave me standing.
The artist's mother's love is a constant in their life and never leaves them feeling unsupported.


And papa's love it just leaves me smiling.
The artist's father's love brings them happiness and joy.


Whoa, and my mama she's a rainbow,
Once again, the artist's mother is compared to a rainbow, perhaps due to her colorful and bright spirit.


Gotta see hen on sunday when she's dressed
The singer looks forward to seeing their mother on Sundays, when she is dressed up and looking her best.


Whoa, and my papa he's a good man, he gives me and mama his best.
The artist's father is seen as a good man who tries his best to provide for his family.


My mama she's a rainbow, come to give them thunder clouds a rest.
Once again, the singer sees their mother as a positive force in their family, bringing a sense of calm and happiness.


And my family is my friend now california put us through her test.
Through the challenges of moving to California, the singer's family has grown closer and become like friends to one another.




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leapsplashafrog

Don't know how he does it but he does, over and over again, for decades. How did he sing, play piano, guitar, harmonica and drums this well from his teens. Early stuff is arguably the best. I don't know how, or when he started practising or who gave him all this talent but it's there to listen to and to be inspired by. Who else is in this dreamy, rock, real gutsy league. I can't think of anyone who's got the mileage and catalogue apart from Neil, but hang on wasn't he wasn't so fully formed so

arjun2191

Achingly lovely stuff. Perfectly mirrors how a lot of people feel, and a lot of it mirrors my own feelings. Bruce is so universal. I wish he'd release some of this stuff; it's just another reason for living.

Joanne O'Meara

Truly beautiful song, I'd never heard before, so thanks for this Ana!

maur mag

So beautiful, brilliant lyrics. ❤️

Mary Moore

Wow, what a song. First time to hear it. Thanks for sharing.

johnnyM809

Another early example of Springsteen's burgeoning songwriting brilliance

Judas Iscariot

I remember getting tracks and thinking, "I've got just about everything now." - and then you start digging, and the internet gets bigger and bigger, and you realize he could do another 4-cd Tracks 2 and prob STILL have stuff left!! I hope we get a Tracks 2 pronto!

Gene Ferguson

The Wish, The Promise and the Family Song are all great songs. Why did Bruce not release them earlier ? I don't know. But I do know I enjoy them.

michael patrusevich

This song is base on Bruce life growing up!

stoneponyNJ

great song writing !

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