Can't You Be Real
Carole King Lyrics


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Long ago we had our dreams
And that was all that we needed
Then all at once we got to see
The cycles we repeated

Baby, can't you be real
I said, baby, can't you be real
Anyone can look into your eyes
And tell you what you're missin'
It's been told to you many times before
But you refuse to listen

Baby, can't you be real




Oh, baby, can't you be real
I said, baby, can't you be real

Overall Meaning

Carole King’s “Can’t You Be Real” speaks to the experience of a relationship gone wrong. It explores the frustration and disappointment that comes with being with someone who is not authentic, someone who repeats the same patterns and errors that continually cause problems. In the first verse, the song discusses the idealism that we have in the beginning of a relationship, a time when we only see the good in the other person. However, as we get to know them better, we start to see their flaws and their tendencies towards repeating unhealthy or unproductive behavior.


The chorus then touches on the main theme of the song—the longing for authenticity. Carole pleads with her partner to be real, to not hide behind pretense or deception. She believes that he is missing out on something important, and that he has been told this before but refuses to listen. Ultimately, the song is a call for vulnerability and honesty, for the chance to see each other for who we truly are.


Line by Line Meaning

Long ago we had our dreams
In the past, we had ambitions or aspirations for the future that we wanted to achieve in life.


And that was all that we needed
At that time, those dreams were enough to keep us happy and satisfied with our lives.


Then all at once we got to see
Suddenly or unexpectedly, we realized something significant that we were previously unaware of or chosen to ignore.


The cycles we repeated
We were stuck in a pattern of behavior or routine that we kept repeating over and over again, without change or progress.


Baby, can't you be real
Expressing a desire for authenticity or genuineness from another person or situation.


I said, baby, can't you be real
Reiterating the desire for truthfulness and sincerity from someone or something.


Anyone can look into your eyes
Any person can observe your demeanor or behavior by looking into your eyes, which often reveal a lot about what you're thinking and feeling.


And tell you what you're missin'
Others can see what you lack or what you need to improve on, even if you are unable or unwilling to acknowledge it yourself.


It's been told to you many times before
You have heard advice or suggestions about what you need or should do to change your situation or behavior, but you have not acted on them or taken them seriously.


But you refuse to listen
Despite hearing the same message repeatedly, you have intentionally chosen to ignore or reject it.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CAROLE KING, GERRY GOFFIN

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