Growing Away From Me
Carole King Lyrics


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You've been my life to me.
My very soul and my heart,
But lately something's come over you,
And it's tearing me apart.

[Chorus]
Darlin', I feel you growing away from me
More and more each day.
Whatever you want me to be I'll be
If it keeps you from growing away from me.

Even when you say you love me,
The feeling's no longer there.
I know there's somebody else,
And it's more than I can bear.

[Chorus]

Believe me, I would let you go if I could,
But I don't know if it's a worse thing being lonely
Than having you here, in body only.

It's no use pretending
When the love you used to feel is gone,
Yet even though I'm losing you
I can't help tryin' to hold on.

[Chorus]





I feel you
Growing away from me.

Overall Meaning

Carole King's song, "Growing Away from Me," tells the story of a woman who has been everything to the singer, but recently she has begun to change. Even though she tells him she loves him, the feeling is no longer there. The singer knows there is someone else, and it's become unbearable. He feels her growing away from him more and more each day, which is tearing him apart.


The chorus of the song is particularly heart-wrenching, as the singer is desperately trying to hold on to their relationship, even if it means changing himself. He will be whatever she wants him to be if it keeps her from growing away from him. However, the singer knows deep down that he will have to let her go someday, and he is unsure whether it's better to be lonely than to have her there in body only.


The lyrics are poignant and relatable to anyone going through a similar situation. Growing away from someone is a painful experience, particularly when you're in love with them. Perhaps the most powerful aspect of the song is the singer's vulnerability and raw emotion. He loves her so much that he's willing to change himself to save their relationship, but ultimately it might not be enough.


Line by Line Meaning

You've been my life to me.
You were everything to me.


My very soul and my heart,
You were my soulmate.


But lately something's come over you,
But now you're acting different.


And it's tearing me apart.
And it's hurting me badly.


Darlin', I feel you growing away from me
My love, you're slipping away.


More and more each day.
Every day, you're drifting farther.


Whatever you want me to be I'll be
I'll be whoever you want me to be.


If it keeps you from growing away from me.
If only you'll stay with me.


Even when you say you love me,
Even when you tell me you love me,


The feeling's no longer there.
I don't feel the same love in your words.


I know there's somebody else,
I have a feeling someone else has your heart.


And it's more than I can bear.
I can't take the pain of losing you.


Believe me, I would let you go if I could,
I'd set you free if I could.


But I don't know if it's a worse thing being lonely
But I'm not sure if being alone is worse.


Than having you here, in body only.
Than having you here, but emotionally gone.


It's no use pretending
I can't pretend anymore.


When the love you used to feel is gone,
When the love we had is no longer there,


Yet even though I'm losing you
But even though I'm losing you,


I can't help tryin' to hold on.
I can't help but try to hold on.


Darlin', I feel you growing away from me
My love, you're slipping away.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CAROLE KING

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