You Never Really Wanted Me
Charlie Rich Lyrics


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(A. Rich)
You never really wanted me
Now I can see
Yes I can see
You took your love and ran away from me
You've gone and now you're back
What do you want from me?
Standing there
Please don't cry over me
After all you never cried for me before
Why start now?
Isn't it a little late for that now girl
Don't go feeling sorry for yourself
Remember I loved you
I loved you
I never knew the games we played
Had such a lasting grip upon the plans we made
I was busy laughing waiting for the day
Now our time is gone
And there's nothing left to say
Standing there




Please don't cry over me
After you never cried for me before...

Overall Meaning

Charlie Rich's song 'You Never Really Wanted Me' is a sorrowful tune that bears the weight of a heart that has been torn apart. In the first verse, the singer realizes that the love they once had with the other person was never sincere. They acknowledge that they were left abandoned when the person they loved took off without explanation. The second verse is equally poignant, delivering a message of frustration towards the other person who has now reappeared with all their grief and apologies. The singer is left feeling helpless, caught between the need to forgive and the pain that they are experiencing, and asking why they should even bother. There is a sense of the singer moving on from the relationship, knowing that there is nothing left for them to say.


Charlie Rich has a way of delivering painful messages through his songs, and this one is no exception. The idea that the love between the singer and the other person was not genuine hurts, and the fact that the other person left without an explanation speaks to the theme of abandonment. Moreover, the return of that person is almost as painful, as it feels like the person is trying to undo the hurt that they imposed. However, this is a fruitless endeavor, and it only causes further distress for the singer. The chorus line, "Please don't cry over me / After all you never cried for me before," emphasizes the unfairness of the situation and the person's attempts to elicit a sense of guilt from the singer. In the end, the singer acknowledges that they loved the other person, but they were blinded by the games they played, leaving them with only memories.


Line by Line Meaning

You never really wanted me
You never had any true interest in me


Now I can see
I have come to realize the truth about how you feel


Yes I can see
I am fully aware of the reality of our situation


You took your love and ran away from me
You left and abandoned the love that we had


You've gone and now you're back
You left and have now returned


What do you want from me?
What is it that you expect or desire from me now?


Standing there
You are present in front of me


Please don't cry over me
Do not show any emotional despair for the sake of my well-being


After all you never cried for me before
You never showed any emotion for me in the past


Why start now?
Why would you begin to show emotions now?


Isn't it a little late for that now girl
It seems like too little too late for any emotions now


Don't go feeling sorry for yourself
Do not adopt a self-pitying state of mind


Remember I loved you
Recall that I once had feelings of love for you


I never knew the games we played
I was not aware of the deceitful tactics that we used in our relationship


Had such a lasting grip upon the plans we made
Had such a strong hold on the decisions we made for our future


I was busy laughing waiting for the day
I was preoccupied with optimism and anticipation for what was to come


Now our time is gone
Our love and relationship has come to an end


And there's nothing left to say
There is nothing more to discuss or say about our situation




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