She is known for her sense of humor, which is expressed in both her music and her onstage performances. Many of her songs alternate between emotional reflections on romance and outright comedy. Two of her more famous songs include "Sensitive New Age Guys" and "Bald Headed Men".
The Moment Slipped Away
Christine Lavin Lyrics
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Movies and TV
I recognize her as we climb
The stairs of the IRT
We cross the street together
We're moving up Broadway
I'm trying to come up with something
Clever I can say
And what it means to me
How in her most recent film
She acted brilliantly
Maybe she'll think I'm stupid
Maybe this'll make her day
But she disappeared into the crowd
And The Moment Slipped Away
He works the wards of Bellevue Hospital
Mail Delivery
For two years every weekday morning
He said hello to me
We'd joke about the local teams
The weather of the day
Though there were many other things
I really wanted to say
You see, he wasn't like the rest of us
It was a struggle for him to walk
And you had to concentrate really hard
Just to understand him talk
I wanted to ask him
"Where do you get the courage
To come to work each day?"
But I quit that job
I moved along
And The Moment Slipped Away
Kind words don't move the earth
But if it can improve your self worth
Why do I let these moments pass me by
Instead I'm quick to judge
And I'm quick to blame
I'm quick to criticize
Quick to maim
It's hard to change
But I'll try
Oh I'll try
So maybe it's your best friend
Or the next stranger you see
Maybe it's your neighbor
Maybe it's you
Maybe it's me
Who needs to hear encouragement
To make it through the day
Who needs to hear whatever kind words
You might have to say
It doesn't matter where you're going
Or where you have been
'Cuz right now is the perfect moment
For us to begin
To appreciate each other
In new and different ways
Oh please don't let another golden Moment
Slip Away
Appreciate each other
More and more each day
Oh please don't let another golden Moment
Slip Away
Christine Lavin's song "The Moment Slipped Away" is a poignant reminder of how often we let opportunities pass us by to connect with those around us. The song tells two separate stories, one of a woman who recognizes a famous actress on the street and wants to tell her how much she admires her work, and the other of a man who delivers mail to the hospital where Lavin works, but whom she never takes the time to really talk to. Both encounters represent missed opportunities for genuine human connection and the chance to uplift others.
The song is full of regret and introspection, as Lavin laments the moments that passed her by and pledges to do better in the future. She recognizes the importance of being present in the moment and making the effort to connect with others, even if it requires stepping out of our comfort zones. The message of the song is clear - we are all capable of brightening someone's day with a kind word or gesture, and we should never let those opportunities slip away.
Line by Line Meaning
She's a famous actress
The woman referred to is a well-known actress
Movies and TV
She is known for her roles in movies and television
I recognize her as we climb
The singer sees the actress as they go up the stairs
The stairs of the IRT
They are climbing the stairs of the IRT subway station in New York City
We cross the street together
They walk across the street at the same time
We're moving up Broadway
The street they are on is Broadway
I'm trying to come up with something
The singer is hoping to say something clever
Clever I can say
Something witty or insightful that will impress the actress
About how I love her work
The singer wants to express appreciation for the actress's work
And what it means to me
The personal impact that the actress's performances have had on the singer
How in her most recent film
The singer wants to specifically highlight the actress's latest movie
She acted brilliantly
The actress's acting was exceptional in the singer's opinion
Maybe she'll think I'm stupid
The singer is worried that the actress may not appreciate or respond well to what they want to say
Maybe this'll make her day
The singer hopes that their comment will brighten the actress's day
But she disappeared into the crowd
The actress goes out of sight and the opportunity to speak to her is gone
And The Moment Slipped Away
The chance the singer had to express admiration for the actress was lost
He works the wards of Bellevue Hospital
The man described works in the hospital in the wards
Mail Delivery
The man's job is to deliver mail in the hospital
For two years every weekday morning
The singer saw this man every weekday morning for two years
He said hello to me
The mailman greeted the singer
We'd joke about the local teams
The two would make jokes about the nearby sports teams
The weather of the day
The mailman and singer would talk about the weather
Though there were many other things
Despite other things the singer would have liked to mention
I really wanted to say
The singer had other conversations they wished to have with the mailman
You see, he wasn't like the rest of us
The mailman was different in some way from other people the singer knew
It was a struggle for him to walk
The mailman found it difficult to walk
And you had to concentrate really hard
It took effort to understand the mailman when he spoke
Just to understand him talk
The mailman's speech was difficult to comprehend
I wanted to ask him
The singer wanted to initiate a deeper conversation
"Where do you get the courage
The singer was curious where the mailman found the strength to do his job despite challenges
To come to work each day?"
The singer wanted to know how the mailman continued to push through difficulties and maintain a daily routine
But I quit that job
The singer eventually left that place of work
I moved along
The singer moved on from that job and location
And The Moment Slipped Away
The singer regrets never having the opportunity to have a more meaningful conversation with the mailman
Kind words don't move the earth
Small acts of kindness don't necessarily have a huge effect on the world
But if it can improve your self worth
However, being kind and encouraging to others can make a positive difference in how you see yourself
Why do I let these moments pass me by
The singer is reflecting on missed opportunities to show kindness and lend encouragement to others
Instead I'm quick to judge
The singer is prone to making quick judgments without considering the other person's perspective or situation
And I'm quick to blame
The singer is also quick to lay blame on others without taking responsibility themselves
I'm quick to criticize
The tendency to criticize and point out flaws in others is a habit for the singer
Quick to maim
The singer may cause harm or hurt others through their actions or words
It's hard to change
Changing these negative habits and behaviors is a difficult process
But I'll try
The singer is committed to making an effort to improve
So maybe it's your best friend
The singer is acknowledging that opportunities to show kindness and encouragement can appear in many different relationships and situations
Or the next stranger you see
These opportunities can also arise with total strangers
Maybe it's your neighbor
The singer cites another example of a person who may benefit from kind words or actions
Maybe it's you
The singer reminds us that we ourselves may need encouragement at times
Maybe it's me
Even the singer admits that they themselves may need kind words or support from others
Who needs to hear encouragement
Everyone can benefit from positive support and reinforcement
To make it through the day
These small acts of kindness can have a significant effect on a person's daily life
Who needs to hear whatever kind words
The specific words themselves may not be as important as the general act of speaking kindly and offering support
You might have to say
The artist may not know specifically what words they need to say, but any sincere message of kindness will do
It doesn't matter where you're going
The opportunity to be kind and supportive to others can happen at any time or place
Or where you have been
Even past mistakes or poor behavior don't negate the potential for future acts of kindness
'Cuz right now is the perfect moment
The present moment is always an opportunity to show kindness and support to others
For us to begin
The singer is urging everyone to take action and begin showing more kindness and encouragement to those around them
To appreciate each other
Through kindness and encouragement, we can come to better appreciate others and the value they bring to our lives
In new and different ways
These acts of kindness and support can take many different forms, and may be experienced in unique and unexpected ways
Oh please don't let another golden Moment
The singer is urging listeners not to let opportunities to show kindness or offer encouragement slip away
Slip Away
These missed opportunities can be lost forever, and the person in question may never know how much they were needed or appreciated
Appreciate each other
Ultimately, the singer is advocating for a more supportive and empathetic society, where we recognize and value the worth of each other as individuals
More and more each day
Showing kindness and encouragement is a practice that should be embraced and pursued daily
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