As Lovers Go
Dashboard Confessional Lyrics


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She said, "I've got to be honest, you're wasting your time if you're fishin' around here."
And I said, "You must be mistaken, I'm not foolin' this feelin' is real."
She said, "You've got to be crazy! What do you take me for? Some kind of easy mark?"

"No, you've got wits, you've got looks, you've got passion
but I swear that you've got me all wrong."
I'll be true, I'll be useful, I'll be cavalier, I'll be yours my dear,
I'll belong to you if you just let me through.

This is easy as lovers go so don't complicate it by hesitating.
This is wonderful as loving goes.
This is tailor-made, what's the sense in waiting?

I said, "I've got to be honest, I've been waiting for you all my life."
For so long I thought I was asylum bound, but just seeing you makes me think twice.
And being with you here makes me sane. I fear I'll go crazy if you leave my side.





"You've got wits, you've got looks, you've got passion,
but are you brave enough to leave with me tonight?"

Overall Meaning

The song "As Lovers Go" by Dashboard Confessional is a beautiful love ballad about a person (presumably the singer) who is attracted to someone who seems hesitant about the relationship. The song begins with the singer and the other person having a conversation where the latter tells the former that they are "wasting their time fishing around here." To this, the singer replies by saying that the feelings are genuine, and the person must be mistaken.


The person then questions the singer and asks if they think the former is an "easy mark." The singer responds by stating that the person indeed has intelligence, beauty, and passion but has misunderstood the singer's intentions. The singer then assures the person that they will be true, useful, and belong to the person if given a chance.


The chorus of the song talks about how relationships should be uncomplicated, and the love shared is wonderful and tailor-made. The singer admits to waiting for the person all their life, and being with them makes the singer sane. The song ends with the singer asking the person if they are brave enough to leave with them tonight.


Overall, "As Lovers Go" is a beautifully crafted love song that talks about the simplicity of relationships and the cost of hesitation. It shows how love can heal and make a person whole.


Line by Line Meaning

She said, "I've got to be honest, you're wasting your time if you're fishin' around here."
She suggests that it's a wasted effort to pursue her.


And I said, "You must be mistaken, I'm not foolin' this feelin' is real."
He clarifies that his feelings for her are genuine.


She said, "You've got to be crazy! What do you take me for? Some kind of easy mark?"
She questions his intentions and if he thinks she is someone to be easily won over.


"No, you've got wits, you've got looks, you've got passion but I swear that you've got me all wrong."
He acknowledges her good qualities but asserts that she misunderstands him.


"I'll be true, I'll be useful, I'll be cavalier, I'll be yours my dear, I'll belong to you if you just let me through."
He promises to be loyal, helpful, carefree, and devoted to her if she gives him a chance.


This is easy as lovers go so don't complicate it by hesitating.
He suggests that their relationship is straightforward and enjoyable and there's no need to overthink it or delay it.


This is wonderful as loving goes. This is tailor-made, what's the sense in waiting?
He emphasizes that their love is exceptional and made for each other, so waiting is pointless.


I said, "I've got to be honest, I've been waiting for you all my life."
He admits that he has long been searching for a love like hers.


For so long I thought I was asylum bound, but just seeing you makes me think twice.
He used to feel trapped and unable to love, but meeting her changed his mind.


And being with you here makes me sane. I fear I'll go crazy if you leave my side.
He feels mentally stable and happy with her by his side and worries about his sanity if she were to leave.


"You've got wits, you've got looks, you've got passion but are you brave enough to leave with me tonight?"
He acknowledges her good qualities but challenges her to take a risk and go with him tonight.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., P.E.S.L (Productions et Editions Serge Lama), Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CHRISTOPHER ANDREW CARRABBA

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Vaughan Allgood

Can’t believe this only has a million views for over 10 years! This is by far my favorite non acoustic song DC does ❤️

Alyssa Casa

this is one of my favorite songs by dashboard :) i think it's about a boy just trying to prove to a girl that's been hurt badly in a past relationship that he would never hurt her, and to trust him because he wants to love her. idk, that's just me.

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T_EM

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Wabi_Sabi_Vida

🎶For so long I thought I was asylum bound but just seeing you makes me think twice...🎶

This song is so under-rated.

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this song brings back so many memories :) i'm still in love with it <3

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