My Big Hands
David Byrne Lyrics


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Well it ain't my fault
My fault that things gone wrong
And it ain't my fault,
Some things are sticking out.
My big hands
Keep my big hand to myself.
Tip toe too
Tip toe around the house

Come, Come on in
It's not, it's not like that
Down, down we go
Fall through, fall through the cracks.

Well I help myself
Help myself to what I want.
Side by side
Get stupid in the dark.
Didn't get home
Things broke down
No sense
Not at all.

Come, Come on in
It's not, it's not like that




Down, down we go
Fall through, fall through the cracks.

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of David Byrne's "My Big Hands" indicate a sense of defensiveness or at least an unwillingness to take full responsibility for whatever circumstances have arisen. Byrne sings, "Well it ain't my fault / My fault that things gone wrong / And it ain't my fault / Some things are sticking out." It's unclear what specifically has happened to prompt these lines, but perhaps Byrne is suggesting that even though he may have contributed to the issue, there are other factors at play here that need to be acknowledged as well.


The chorus of the song provides an interesting juxtaposition to the opening lines. Byrne sings, "My big hands / Keep my big hand to myself. / Tip toe too / Tip toe around the house." The image of big hands and the imperative to keep them to himself suggests a certain clumsiness on Byrne's part, or perhaps even a danger of some kind. The idea of tip-toeing reinforces this sense of caution, suggesting that the world around him is fraught with potential hazards.


As the song progresses, it becomes increasingly unclear what exactly is happening or what the meaning of the lyrics is. Lines like "Get stupid in the dark" and "Things broke down / No sense / Not at all" hint at a sense of chaos or disorder, but it's hard to say for sure what is going on. One interpretation might be that the song is about the difficulty of navigating through life and making sense of one's experiences. The repeated phrase "Come, come on in / It's not, it's not like that" could be an invitation to others to join Byrne on this journey of confusion and uncertainty, to recognize that life is messy and unpredictable and that we're all just doing the best we can.


Line by Line Meaning

Well it ain't my fault
I am not to blame


My fault that things gone wrong
I did not cause the problems


And it ain't my fault,
I am not responsible


Some things are sticking out.
There are some issues to address


My big hands
My dominant physical feature


Keep my big hand to myself.
I try not to touch what is not mine


Tip toe too
Move carefully and quietly


Tip toe around the house
Walk softly and cautiously


Come, Come on in
Enter my world


It's not, it's not like that
Don't make assumptions


Down, down we go
Deteriorating situation


Fall through, fall through the cracks.
Fail because of overlooked problems


Well I help myself
I take care of my own needs


Help myself to what I want.
Take what I desire


Side by side
Together


Get stupid in the dark.
Lose myself without reason


Didn't get home
I did not make it back


Things broke down
The situation fell apart


No sense
Confusion and uncertainty


Not at all.
Not even close


Come, Come on in
Join me


It's not, it's not like that
You may have the wrong idea


Down, down we go
Further into chaos


Fall through, fall through the cracks.
Fail to succeed




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID BYRNE

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