Blessing in Disguise
DeVotchKa Lyrics


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Is losing something that you love
A blessing in disguise
Who comes and goes into our lives
Not for us to decide

You can bury it deep inside
But you can never hide
You waited for them long enough
It's time to say goodbye

And o my lordy, o my God
I finally see what's going on
I count the fingers that you made me
Am I squandering the life you gave me?

I never seem to find the words
The devil ties my tongue
Then I find the perfect words
The moment you have gone

Are we still lovers, we'll never be friends
Is this all there is? Is this where it ends?
But was it fate? Was it games of chance?
Are we victims of the circumstance

And o my lordy, o my God
I finally see what's going on
I count the fingers that you made me
Am I squandering the life you gave me?

Bend your words into a prayer
Send them on a trip somewhere
Let them ring and resonate
Kiss your lips and seal my fate

Maybe losing something that you love
Is a blessing in disguise
You've been their slave for far too long
It's time to say goodbye

And o my lordy, o my God
I finally see what's going on




I count the fingers that you made me
Am I squandering the life you gave me?

Overall Meaning

In "Blessing in Disguise," DeVotchKa meditates on the often-contradictory emotions that come with the loss of someone or something dear. The song suggests that the pain of loss can ultimately lead to positive transformation or growth, as a "blessing in disguise." The lyrics acknowledge the complexity of relationships and the unpredictable nature of life, recognizing that we cannot control who comes and goes in our lives. "You can bury it deep inside, but you can never hide," singer Nick Urata croons, implying that true feelings cannot be suppressed forever.


The chorus highlights a moment of clarity, where the singer finally grasps the bigger picture and questions their purpose in life. The rhetorical question, "Am I squandering the life you gave me?" encourages the listener to reflect on their own life choices and whether they are utilizing the time they have been given to the fullest. The final verse concludes with a sense of hope and resolution, suggesting that parting ways from a toxic relationship can ultimately be a positive thing.


Line by Line Meaning

Is losing something that you love
Reflecting on the possibility that losing something we love might not be all bad


A blessing in disguise
It may actually turn out to be beneficial for us in some unexpected way


Who comes and goes into our lives
The people who enter and leave our lives are not always within our control


Not for us to decide
We cannot always control the actions of others, especially when it comes to leaving


You can bury it deep inside
We may try to hide our pain and loss deep within ourselves


But you can never hide
Even if we try to hide our pain, it will always be a part of us


You waited for them long enough
Recognizing that we can only wait for someone for so long before we need to move on


It's time to say goodbye
Realizing that it's time to let go and say farewell


And o my lordy, o my God
Expressing surprise or shock at what has been revealed


I finally see what's going on
Acknowledging that the artist has come to a realization about their situation


I count the fingers that you made me
Reflecting on the things in life that we are grateful for and take for granted


Am I squandering the life you gave me?
Questioning whether or not the artist is living up to their full potential


I never seem to find the words
Expressing difficulty in expressing oneself effectively


The devil ties my tongue
Implying that the difficulty in expressing oneself may be due to external or internal forces beyond the singer's control


Then I find the perfect words
Suggesting that there may be moments of clarity and insight after periods of difficulty


The moment you have gone
Implying that the perfect words may come too late, after someone has already left


Are we still lovers, we'll never be friends
Reflecting on the complexity and difficulty of transitioning from a romantic relationship to a platonic one


Is this all there is? Is this where it ends?
Questioning whether or not the end of a relationship is the end of one's story entirely


But was it fate? Was it games of chance?
Contemplating the reasons why a relationship might end and the role of fate or randomness in that process


Are we victims of the circumstance
Wondering how much control we truly have over the events in our lives


Bend your words into a prayer
Suggesting that we can use our words as a way of finding solace or peace in difficult times


Send them on a trip somewhere
Imagining that our words might have an impact beyond ourselves and may travel and touch others


Let them ring and resonate
Hoping that our words might have a lasting impact and continue to echo over time


Kiss your lips and seal my fate
Implying that the artist is at the mercy of fate or circumstances beyond their control


Maybe losing something that you love
Acknowledging that there may be an upside to losing something that is important to us


Is a blessing in disguise
Reiterating the idea that what seems like a loss may actually turn out to be a gain in some way


You've been their slave for far too long
Recognizing that holding on to something or someone for too long can be unhealthy


It's time to say goodbye
Repeating the idea that it's time to let go and move on




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