You Love Me
DeVotchKa Lyrics


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Under the mother eyes of the Mexican sky
She was happy and it shows in the sun
And it was fate laid in stone
Sacred heart, sacred ground
Her two children and we moved as one

And you said you loved me
You said you loved me

Now there’s something missing
when you’re kissing me
It’s subtle yet it’s gone
And then I’m suspicious
And then it gets vicious
And then it’s a hole right through the heart

And you said you loved me
I thought you loved me

Now there is an ocean of time
Between your life and mine
You look happy and you’re married again
And oh my Lord how you’ve grown
To find me still alone
I am humble
I’m still trying to forget





When you said you loved me
I thought you loved me

Overall Meaning

DeVotchKa's "You Love Me" is a testament to the power of love and how it can both make us whole and leave us in pieces. The first stanza describes a moment of joy between two people, likely lovers, in the presence of the Mexican sky. The singer notes how happy the woman was, her happiness shining through like the sun. The stanza ends with a reference to fate, how it was "laid in stone," and how they all moved "as one." This suggests a feeling of inevitability and a powerful connection between the two.


However, the second stanza takes on a very different tone, one that is marked by betrayal and heartache. The singer notes that something is missing when they kiss, some subtle but crucial element that is now gone. As the suspicion grows, so too does the pain, leading to a "hole right through the heart." Despite their earlier protestations of love, it seems that the singer and their partner have drifted apart, leading to a sense of loneliness and abandonment. The final lines are filled with resignation, noting how much time has passed and how the other person has moved on, while the singer is still struggling to forget the pain they caused.


Overall, "You Love Me" is a mournful and heartbreaking song about the tenuous nature of love and how it can both lift us up and knock us down. The juxtaposition of joy and pain is striking and powerful, reflecting the many highs and lows that come with being in love.


Line by Line Meaning

Under the mother eyes of the Mexican sky
In Mexico, under the watchful eyes of the sky, representing a higher power or mother nature.


She was happy and it shows in the sun
She was content and her happiness was evident in the warmth of the sun.


And it was fate laid in stone
Their destiny was predetermined and unchangeable.


Sacred heart, sacred ground
The place they were together was special and had significant meaning to their relationship.


Her two children and we moved as one
The family unit was cohesive and they all moved together in harmony.


And you said you loved me
The singer is recalling a past moment when their partner professed love for them.


Now there’s something missing when you’re kissing me
In the present, the singer is noticing a lack of feeling or connection when they kiss their partner.


It’s subtle yet it’s gone
The change in feeling is not drastic but it is noticeable.


And then I’m suspicious
The artist becomes doubtful and uncertain about their partner's true feelings.


And then it gets vicious
Their thoughts and emotions become aggressive and hostile towards the partner.


And then it’s a hole right through the heart
The emptiness and pain of the relationship contradiction leaves a deep wound in the singer's heart.


And you said you loved me
The artist continues to reflect on their partner's past declaration of love.


I thought you loved me
The singer expresses their disappointment and confusion about their partner's change in affection.


Now there is an ocean of time between your life and mine
The singer acknowledges that time has passed and their lives are now separate and distant.


You look happy and you’re married again
The partner has moved on and found happiness in a new relationship.


And oh my Lord how you’ve grown
The partner has matured and evolved from the person they were when they were last with the artist.


To find me still alone, I am humble I’m still trying to forget
Despite their ex-partner's growth, the artist remains alone and is trying to move on from the memories of the past relationship.


When you said you loved me
The final line of the song brings the singer back to the moment when they were told they were loved.




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