Times Change Friends Leave and Life Doesn't Stop for Anybody
Deaf Havana Lyrics


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You truly are your mothers son, raised on praise
Doctors appointments and getting what you want
Your school years passed you by without a scratch
Your fathers pride, good intentions and your mothers loving hands

Being young at heart became a sin, (Being young at heart became a sin)
So you grew up and you gave in
Remember when you said, all you wanted was to be where you are today
I remember when you said that you'd be in this with us 'til the very end

Peacfully we watched you slip away, into the depths of the drugs
And the mistress on whos mental state you'd prey
If she was the spark to ignite the flame, then we were the floods
When the fires came but she held the torches high for you that day

Remember when you said, all you wanted was to be where you are today
I remember when you said that you'd be in this with us 'til the very end

Being young at heart became a sin, (Being young at heart became a sin)
So you grew up and you gave in

Remember when you said, all you wanted was to be where you are today




I remember when you said that you'd be in this with us 'til the very end
My dear old friend

Overall Meaning

The song "Times Change Friends Leave and Life Doesn't Stop for Anybody" by Deaf Havana addresses the harsh realities of growing up, losing touch with friends and ultimately losing someone you cared for due to their addiction to drugs. The song is about a person who was raised in a privileged environment, with doctors' appointments and getting whatever they wanted. They passed through school without any major problems, thanks to their father's pride, good intentions and their mother's loving hands. However, being young at heart became a crime, and they eventually gave in to growing up.


The lyrics speak of someone who had dreams and aspirations while they were growing up, but as they got older and were faced with the realities of life, they gave up on their hopes and dreams. The song talks about how the singer, who at one point in his life promised to stay with his friends till the very end, started drifting away from them slowly, lost in the world of drugs and mental illness. The singer of the song seems to have been influenced by a person referred to as a mistress, who was herself struggling with mental health problems. The singer's addiction to drugs caused them to lose touch with their friends, who watched helplessly as the singer slipped away from them.


The song is a poignant reminder of how even the most privileged of us can succumb to addiction and how addiction can damage relationships with friends and family. The song's message is a call to action for anyone who has lost touch with someone they care about because of addiction. It's a reminder that we should reach out to those who are struggling and try to help them in whatever way we can.


Line by Line Meaning

You truly are your mothers son, raised on praise
You have always been the one who was pampered and given praise by your mother


Doctors appointments and getting what you want
You never had to face a real struggle, always got what you wanted, even doctor appointments were scheduled by someone else


Your school years passed you by without a scratch
You didn't face any challenges in school, you just passed by without any major obstacles


Your fathers pride, good intentions and your mothers loving hands
Your parents had nothing but good intentions for you, they were proud of you and your mother always showed you love and affection


Being young at heart became a sin, (Being young at heart became a sin)
Although being young at heart is seen as a positive thing by most people, you were brought up to believe that it was wrong


So you grew up and you gave in
You eventually gave up on being young at heart and just followed the norms of the society


Remember when you said, all you wanted was to be where you are today
You had a goal and ambition to be where you are today


I remember when you said that you'd be in this with us 'til the very end
You promised to stick with your friends till the very end


Peacefully we watched you slip away, into the depths of the drugs
We stood by helplessly as you slipped further into drug addiction


And the mistress on whos mental state you'd prey
You relied on someone who was vulnerable mentally to fuel your drug addiction


If she was the spark to ignite the flame, then we were the floods
If she was the reason for your addiction, we were trying to help you overcome it


When the fires came but she held the torches high for you that day
Even when things got tough, she still stood by you and helped you through it


Being young at heart became a sin, (Being young at heart became a sin)
You were so influenced by societal norms that you gave up on your free spirit and youthful innocence


So you grew up and you gave in
You compromised on your true self and became something that you never truly wanted to be


Remember when you said, all you wanted was to be where you are today
You achieved your goals, but not in a way that was true to who you are


I remember when you said that you'd be in this with us 'til the very end
You broke your promise to stick with your friends through thick and thin


My dear old friend
Despite the disappointments, there is still a sense of love and nostalgia towards you from your friends




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