Near/Far
Death Cab for Cutie Lyrics


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You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
As I am standing by your side
Trying to breach this dark and deep divide

You're here
So far away
So near
So far

I hear you talking to yourself
Cursing every card you wanted dealt
I can't help you play your hand
If you mistake every word for a command

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away

You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
But I won't watch you burning out
I won't let you be the one I live without

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away




Far away
Far away

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Death Cab for Cutie's song Near/Far explore the theme of distance and longing within a relationship. The opening line compares the subject to a flickering fluorescent light, emphasizing their inconsistency and unreliability. The singer is standing by their side, trying to bridge the gap between them, but is struggling to do so. The repetition of the phrase "so far away, so near" highlights the contradiction and complexity of the relationship. The subject is physically present but emotionally distant, making it difficult for the singer to connect with them.


The second verse delves deeper into the subject's struggles, with the singer hearing them talking to themselves and cursing their lot in life. The singer wants to help but feels unable to do so as every word they say is mistaken for a command. The repetition of the chorus reinforces the idea that the singer is caught in a contradictory relationship where their partner is both near and far.


In the final verse, the subject is once again compared to a flickering light, but this time the singer is determined not to let them burn out. They refuse to let the relationship end and acknowledge the importance of their partner in their life.


Overall, the song is a poignant exploration of the complexities of a relationship and the difficulties of bridging the gap between two people.


Line by Line Meaning

You flicker like a fluorescent light
You are unstable, unpredictable and prone to sudden changes, like the flickering of fluorescent lights.


An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
You periodically emit lights that illuminate the darkness, providing hope, but in the end, you remain distant and isolated.


As I am standing by your side
Despite your impermanence, I am still steadfastly devoted to you and choose to stand by your side.


Trying to breach this dark and deep divide
I am making an effort to overcome the emotional barriers that separate us.


You're here
You are close by and present in my life.


So far away
Yet, you remain out of reach, both physically and emotionally.


So near
Although you are geographically close, there is still a great emotional distance between us.


I hear you talking to yourself
I listen and feel sympathy as you struggle and confront inner turmoil.


Cursing every card you wanted dealt
You express resentment towards life as you blame fate for granting you an unfavorable hand.


I can't help you play your hand
Although I empathize with you, I can not alter your reality, as you alone determine your life's outcome.


If you mistake every word for a command
When you interpret other's words with malice, you respond impulsively and without reflection, damaging interpersonal relationships in the process.


But I won't watch you burning out
I refuse to bear witness to your slow decline and eventual demise.


I won't let you be the one I live without
I cannot imagine living my life without you, and I will do all that I can to keep you close by me.


Far away
Distant and removed from not just me, but also the person you ultimately desire to be.


Far away
Separated and inaccessible, beyond the grasp of any connection or communication.




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Written by: Benjamin Gibbard

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@fucker2574

Lyrics
You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
As I am standing by your side
Trying to breach this dark and deep divide

You're here
So far away
So near
So far

I hear you talking to yourself
Cursing every card you wanted dealt
I can't help you play your hand
If you mistake every word for a command

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away

You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
But I won't watch you burning out
I won't let you be the one I live without

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away
Far away



@raptor8970

You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
As I am standing by your side
Trying to breach this dark and deep divide

You're here
So far away
So near
So far

I hear you talking to yourself
Cursing every card you wanted dealt
I can't help you play your hand
If you mistake every word for a command

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away

You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
But I won't watch you burning out
I won't let you be the one I live without

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away
Far away



All comments from YouTube:

@gregoryvierra6114

Today is a great day. I finished graduate school and a new Death Cab album is released. Double win.

@willowvillalobos6800

Congratulations that is an amazing accomplishment!!

@gregoryvierra6114

Wow, thank you! The album isn't half bad either. :)

@lofijunky

Gregory Vierra congrats on both the graduate school and your good taste in music!

@robgucci2038

Congrats I can’t wait for that day for myself

@gregoryvierra6114

@Jon: Ha, thanks! Digging the new album.

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@NESADDICT

This is the sleeper hit to me. It's grown on me a lot! So good!

@fucker2574

Lyrics
You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
As I am standing by your side
Trying to breach this dark and deep divide

You're here
So far away
So near
So far

I hear you talking to yourself
Cursing every card you wanted dealt
I can't help you play your hand
If you mistake every word for a command

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away

You flicker like a fluorescent light
An intermittent strobe in a lonely night
But I won't watch you burning out
I won't let you be the one I live without

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away

You're here
So far away
So near
So far away
Far away
Far away

@zzzcocopepe

i prefer "an intermittent strobin' lonely light" because it makes me think it's a single light in a dark night

@thelastshoegazer4491

Another bittersweet jam from Death Cab - haunting and beautiful as usual.

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