Break My Mind
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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It's a lesson too late for the learning
Made of sand, made of sand
In the wink of an eye my soul is turnin'
In your hand, in your hand

Are you going away with no word of farewell?
Will there be not a trace left behind?
I could've loved you better
Didn't mean to be unkind
You know that was the last thing on my mind

As we walk along, my thoughts are tumblin'
'Round and 'round, 'round and 'round
Underneath our feet a subway's rumblin'
Underground, underground

Are you going away with no word of farewell?
Will there be not a trace left behind?
I could've loved you better
Didn't mean to be unkind
You know that was the last thing on my mind

I've got reason a plenty for goin'
This I know, this I know
The weeds have been steadily growin'
Please don't go, please don't go

Are you going away with no word of farewell?
Will there be not a trace left behind?
I could've loved you better
Didn't mean to be unkind
You know that was the last thing on my mind

Are you going away with no word of farewell?
Will there be not a trace left behind?
I could've loved you better
Didn't mean to be unkind
You know that was the last thing on my mind





You know that was the last thing on my mind

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "The Last Thing on My Mind," the singer reflects on a painful breakup and expresses regret for not loving their partner better. The lyrics convey a sense of realization and remorse for how they may have unintentionally hurt their partner. The opening lines, "It's a lesson too late for the learning / Made of sand, made of sand," suggest that the singer has now come to understand the fragility of their relationship, comparing it to something easily crumbled like sand. The following lines, "In the wink of an eye my soul is turnin' / In your hand, in your hand," emphasize the power their partner had over their emotions and the brevity of their relationship.


The chorus of the song repeats the heart-wrenching question, "Are you going away with no word of farewell? / Will there be not a trace left behind?" This portrays the singer's fear of their partner leaving without any explanation or closure, leaving them with no understanding of what went wrong. They acknowledge that they could have loved their partner better and didn't mean to be unkind, suggesting that they may have taken their partner for granted or not invested enough into the relationship. The repetition of the line "You know that was the last thing on my mind" further emphasizes the regret and sorrow the singer feels for not prioritizing their relationship.


In the second verse, as the couple walks together, the singer's thoughts are tumbling around, possibly reflecting the confusion and turmoil in their mind. The mention of a subway rumbling underground symbolizes the hidden tension and unresolved issues within their relationship. The subsequent verse repeats the chorus, emphasizing the fear of being left behind without any explanation.


Overall, "The Last Thing on My Mind" portrays the singer's realization of their mistakes and the pain they carry from the end of the relationship. It reflects the common human experience of not fully appreciating something until it's gone and the regret that follows.


Line by Line Meaning

It's a lesson too late for the learning
I have realized the lesson too late and now it cannot be applied


Made of sand, made of sand
The foundation of our relationship was fragile and easily broken


In the wink of an eye my soul is turnin'
My emotions have suddenly shifted and I am experiencing inner turmoil


In your hand, in your hand
You have control over my emotions and well-being


Are you going away with no word of farewell?
Are you leaving without saying goodbye?


Will there be not a trace left behind?
Will there be no evidence of our relationship?


I could've loved you better
I realize I could have shown you more love and affection


Didn't mean to be unkind
I didn't intend to treat you poorly or hurt you


You know that was the last thing on my mind
Hurtful actions were not my intention at all


As we walk along, my thoughts are tumblin'
As we continue in our relationship, my thoughts are chaotic and confused


'Round and 'round, 'round and 'round
My thoughts are endlessly circling without a clear direction


Underneath our feet a subway's rumblin'
There is an underlying tension or conflict between us


Underground, underground
This tension exists beneath the surface, not openly acknowledged


I've got reason a plenty for goin'
I have many valid reasons for wanting to leave


This I know, this I know
I am certain of my decision to leave


The weeds have been steadily growin'
Problems and issues in our relationship have been accumulating and worsening


Please don't go, please don't go
I am pleading with you to stay and not end our relationship


You know that was the last thing on my mind
The thought of you leaving was the furthest thing from my thoughts


You know that was the last thing on my mind
The thought of you leaving was the furthest thing from my thoughts




Lyrics © Kanjian Music, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Tom Paxton

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Comments from YouTube:

@tommytwotoes3880

I have never heard anyone say a single negative word about Dolly. If ever there was a national treasure, she is it.

@EagleArrow

She is that. May God continue to bless her and all she does!

@eatcat2

She let that demon little Nas x record her song that was definitely a black mark no pun intended

@diannesquyres4493

I have always suspected she is liberal but smart enough to keep her political opinions to herself, between her close friends and loved ones.
Very intelligent of her.
Kept the $ rolling in.

@EagleArrow

@@diannesquyres4493 In some ways she might have been as she had to fight for equality being a woman in the business she is in, but I also feel she is conservative on a lot of other things. She once said she looks like a woman, but thinks like a man so she is really good at business and isn't going to let anyone steal from her or under pay her. So maybe women just need to be a more bold, confident in who they are and the gifts they have, but in a charming, no nonsense way to get deals done.

@EagleArrow

@@eatcat2 She makes $ everytime his version is played.

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@JessicaC.

Stella Parton used to babysit me. My father is best friends with Randy Parton. I am very good friends with Dolly's niece Heidi. Dolly is absolutely gorgeous but I always thought that Stella was so beautiful still is beautiful! All of the Parton brothers and sisters have amazing hearts! They wear them on their sleeves for sure.

@alexanderlapp5048

That is so cool you had that sweet lady babysit you. I agree Stella is a beautiful lady. I saw her in 7 Brides for 7 Brothers. She was so cute in that movie.

Those 60s hair styles though, I am glad those are gone. My mom's older sisters had similar styles and their senior pictures are at my grandma's house. I remember looking at those pictures as a kid and wondering if who were those to women with the strange hair. I was born in 72 and I don't remember it anyone with hair like that. I had some strange hair in the 80s though.

Thank you for sharing.

@foxibot

Wh9ch one is Stella ma cher? I’m a louisiana cajien but I Love Dolly. They said Stella has a great Twitter feed.

@alexanderlapp5048

@@foxibot,

Stella is the one on the left with the short blonde hair.

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