Change
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(Dolly Parton)

Someday when I'm over you
And when I think I'm able to
Well, I might try to be
Your friend again
But your restless heart
And rovin' eyes
My jealousy, these endless fights
I've got to get out of your life
Or I will never mend

I guess I'll die a bit each day
But I'm always dying anyway
And I don't have the heart to
Stay, and I can't take the pain
I know we've tried to no avail
Our heaven now has
Turned to hell
The same old hurt
We know so well
And something's got
To change

We both know it's got to end
The passion's gone
It's just pretend
And one of us have got
To make the move
We might as well just give it up
We've lost respect and
There's no trust
And without this, there's
No real love
It's just some sad excuse

I guess I'll die a bit each day
But I'm always dying anyway
And there's nothing left but walk away
Ain't this a crying shame
A change of pace
A change of heart
A change of place
A place to start
And we'll be better off apart
Our only chance is change

And we never wil
But something has to change

But someday when I'm over you
And when I think I'm able to
Then I will try to be your friend again
But I don't want to see
Your face 'til then
Change, I need a change




I need a change
We need a change

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "Change," the singer discusses the end of a relationship that has become toxic and admits that the only way to move forward is for something to change. She expresses her desire to eventually become friends with her ex again, but acknowledges that it will take time and distance. The lyrics speak to the pain of holding onto something that no longer works and the importance of making changes in order to move on and heal.


The first verse of “Change” shows Dolly's initial attempts to mend the relationship failing as jealousy and fights continue to plague the couple. She recognizes that if she doesn't leave the relationship soon, it will become increasingly damaging to her well-being. The chorus of the song conveys the idea that things are not going to get better, and it's better to move on and make the necessary changes to start anew. The second verse implies that both parties are aware of what needs to be done, but neither is willing to do it, leading to the relationship continuing to degrade.


Throughout the song, there’s a sense of resignation and acceptance, as if Dolly is aware that change is inevitable, but still upset by the fact she's losing what once was. In the end, Dolly realizes that the only way to move forward is to create space and distance, in order for both parties to heal and start over, eventually leading to friendship again.


Line by Line Meaning

Someday when I'm over you
In the future, once I have moved on from you


And when I think I'm able to
When I feel ready to try and be your friend again


Well, I might try to be
I will attempt to be your friend again


Your friend again
To have a non-romantic relationship with you


But your restless heart
Your inability to commit to one person and constant need for excitement


And rovin' eyes
Your tendency to look at other potential partners


My jealousy, these endless fights
My jealousy and the resulting constant arguments


I've got to get out of your life
I need to remove myself from your life


Or I will never mend
Or else I will never heal from the pain you caused me


I guess I'll die a bit each day
I feel like a part of me is dying every day


But I'm always dying anyway
I am aware of my own mortality and eventual death


And I don't have the heart to
I don't have the emotional energy to


Stay, and I can't take the pain
Continue to be with you and feel the hurt it brings


I know we've tried to no avail
We have attempted to make things work without success


Our heaven now has
Our once perfect relationship


Turned to hell
Has become unbearable


The same old hurt
The recurring pain


We know so well
That we are used to by now


And something's got
We need to do something to change this situation


To change
To alter the current state of our relationship


We both know it's got to end
We are both aware that our relationship needs to end


The passion's gone
The intense feelings we had for each other are gone


It's just pretend
We are only pretending to be in love


And one of us has got
One of us needs to


To make the move
Take action to end this relationship


We might as well just give it up
We should accept that it's time to end things


We've lost respect and
We no longer have respect for each other


There's no trust
Our trust for one another has been lost


And without this, there's
Our relationship cannot survive without trust and respect


No real love
We don't have genuine love for each other anymore


It's just some sad excuse
Our relationship is just a sad excuse for love


Ain't this a crying shame
It's a sad situation


A change of pace
We need to switch things up


A change of heart
We need a new outlook on our relationship


A change of place
We may need to move on and be in a different environment


A place to start
This is a new beginning for us


And we'll be better off apart
We will have a better life and more happiness separated


Our only chance is change
Our one hope is to make a change


And we never will
We will never be together again


But something has to change
We need to make a change in order to move on


But someday when I'm over you
In the future, once I have moved on from you


And when I think I'm able to
When I feel ready to try and be your friend again


Then I will try to be your friend again
I will attempt to be your friend again


But I don't want to see your face 'til then
Until I am over you, I don't want to see you


Change, I need a change
We need to make a change


We need a change
Our relationship needs a change




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

Tobias Manz

The small amount of views on Dollys videos is criminal...I can´t count how many times she lifted my spirit up. Thank you Dolly <3

Cropps

She is the most inspirational person i have ever heard of. If there was one person i could meet and spend a day with it would be her, she has turned my whole life around and made it so much better. Thanks dolly for being you!!

Hayley Gregory

This was my chemo fight song!!!!! Dolly is extraordinary.

MrKruchinski

I love you, Dolly! May God keep you with us for a long long time! He knows how much we need you!

12wert12wert12wert

I'm 16, and Dolly is absolutely my idol! Yes, I do get made fun of in school when asked my favorite singer and whatnot, but I would never lie! She inspires me so much in my life, and I'm sure that's more than any Ke$ha, or Lady GaGa fan could say...

Stuart

She can never be replaced she is just a simply amazing human being

OakTree Brannon

Why are you even thinking about that?

CJ Turner

So True

Donald L. Marshall

Dolly's articulation (pitching technique/delivery of the words) is in keeping with the best of her talent, which most satisfies her respective audience as well as the industry. Her audience is most enchanted by her character and vibrant enthusiasm.

Abbie May Blower

Absolutley AMAZING! This is what I live for.I was depressed before I heard this song,but now I will go to sleep with a smile on my face :D dolly,your music inspires me so much so maybe now I will go on in life & change it!:) some of your greatest work dolly:) one of the many things I love about you is you keep up with the times & never slow down! I love the song dolly! I love you!

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