Get Out and Stay Out
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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I used to need you, but then I finally learned
I used to want you, but now the tables turned
I used to love you, now it's your time to squirm
I'm saying goodbye and I won't wait for your return.

So get out and stay out, I've finally had enough
Don't kiss me on your way out, it wouldn't move me much
You used me, abused me, you cheated and you lied
So get out and stay out, I'm taking back my life

I wonder what you'll do when I am not around
Now that your new love has up and let you down
You've always come crying to me throughout the years
To mend another broken heart and dry your selfish tears.

So get out and stay out, I'm moving on at last
'Cause, I've been so foolish, but that was in the past.
I never thought I'd be the one to say goodbye
So get out and stay out, I'm taking back my life.

Dreams and plans are in the making
I just wish it was as simple as it sounds
Life is out there for the taking
Now that I'm unfettered and unbound

You get out and you stay out, I've finally had enough
Don't kiss me on your way out, it wouldn't move me much
You used me, abused me, you cheated and you lied
So get out and stay out, I'm taking back my life
I'm taking back my life
Taking it back my life
I'm taking it back
I use to need you




I used to want you
I used to love him but now the tables turned.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Dolly Parton's song "Get Out and Stay Out" are a declaration of independence from a toxic relationship. The singer has finally learned that the person they used to rely on has been taking advantage of their kindness all along. The tables have turned, and now it's time for the other person to squirm. The singer is drawing a line in the sand and saying goodbye for good.


As the song progresses, we see that this relationship has been a pattern throughout the years. The other person has come crying back each time they've been let down by someone else, and the singer has been there to pick up the pieces. But now, the singer is done being a doormat. They're moving on with their life and taking control of their future. Dreams and plans are in the making, and the singer is unbound by the toxic relationship they've been trapped in for so long.


The message of "Get Out and Stay Out" is a powerful one. It's a reminder that we don't have to put up with people who don't treat us with respect and kindness. We have the power to take control of our lives and move on from toxic situations. The song is an anthem for anyone who has ever felt trapped in a relationship that was doing more harm than good.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to need you, but then I finally learned
I used to depend on you but now I have learned to live without you.


I used to want you, but now the tables turned
I used to desire you but now the roles have reversed.


I used to love you, now it's your time to squirm
I once had deep affection for you but now it's time for you to face the consequences.


I'm saying goodbye and I won't wait for your return.
I'm leaving you behind and I won't be coming back.


So get out and stay out, I've finally had enough
I'm done with you, leave and never come back.


Don't kiss me on your way out, it wouldn't move me much
Your attempt to show affection won't make me change my mind.


You used me, abused me, you cheated and you lied
You took advantage of me, mistreated me, and were unfaithful and dishonest.


I wonder what you'll do when I am not around
I am curious about how you will cope without me.


Now that your new love has up and let you down
After your new partner has disappointed you.


You've always come crying to me throughout the years
In the past, you always relied on me for emotional support.


To mend another broken heart and dry your selfish tears.
To fix someone else's heartache and mend your own selfishness.


So get out and stay out, I'm moving on at last
I'm finally moving forward and leaving you in the past.


'Cause, I've been so foolish, but that was in the past.
I made mistakes, but that's all in the past now.


I never thought I'd be the one to say goodbye
I never imagined I would be the one to end it.


Dreams and plans are in the making
I'm making plans for my future.


I just wish it was as simple as it sounds
I wish it was easy to move on and leave the past behind.


Life is out there for the taking
There's so much out in the world to explore and experience.


Now that I'm unfettered and unbound
Now that I'm free from the aches and pains of the past.


You get out and you stay out, I've finally had enough
You need to leave me alone forever, because I've had enough of you.


I'm taking back my life
I'm reclaiming my happiness and my future.


Taking it back my life
Taking control of what's rightfully mine, my own life.


I'm taking it back
I'm taking control and ownership of my life and future.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

Toon Holman

I love you Dolly, but SJB does it better. 9 to 5 will always be your present to us though <3

Miraculous Woman

Remain out.

Ruth music

Good strong song of standing up for your rights.

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