If You Need Me
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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Intro:
If you need me, I'll be gone

The bed's still warm where you just left
But it'll be colder where I've slept
I've always been where you needed me
But I ain't the fool I used to be
You come home all hours of the night
The fragrance on you ain't old spice
Tonight when you come draggin' home
And find you need me, I'll be gone

1st Chorus:
I'll be gone like the moon when the sun comes up
Gone like the dew from the buttercup
Gone like a woman treated wrong
If you need me, I'll be gone

So, what am I still doing here?
You've been doin' me wrong for years
Tired of pickin' up and puttin' out
I'm leaving you lock, stock, and house

So, bye bye, baby, that's it, I'm packed
I'm a'leavin' now, but I'll call back
And leave this message on the code-a-phone
Sayin', if you need me, well, I'll be gone

2nd Chorus:
I'll be gone like the moon when the sun comes up
Gone like the dew from the buttercup
Gone like a woman leavin' home
If you need me, I'll be gone

Repeat 2nd Chorus

I said, if you need me, I'll be gone

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If you need me, I'll be gone
I said, if you need me, I'll be gone

Overall Meaning

In “If You Need Me,” Dolly Parton sings about a woman who has finally had enough of her partner’s unfaithful behavior. She’s always been there for him when he’s needed her, but now she’s leaving and won’t be coming back. The lyrics paint a picture of the woman packing up her things and leaving a note on the answering machine, informing her partner that she’s leaving and she won’t be there if he needs her again. The chorus emphasizes the finality of her decision, as she declares that she’ll be gone like the moon when the sun comes up, like the dew from the buttercup, and like a woman leaving home.


The lyrics suggest that the woman has reached her breaking point after years of being mistreated. She’s tired of picking up after her partner and putting up with his infidelity. It’s clear that she’s been the one doing all the work in the relationship, as she’s the one leaving with “lock, stock, and house.” The imagery in the song is vivid, from the warm bed left behind to the fragrance on her partner’s clothes that isn’t Old Spice. The woman knows her worth and won’t stand for being treated like a fool anymore.


Line by Line Meaning

If you need me, I'll be gone
I am leaving and will not be there to help you anymore


The bed's still warm where you just left
You just left the bed after being unfaithful and I know this


But it'll be colder where I've slept
I have moved on and am no longer emotionally attached to you


I've always been where you needed me
I have always been there for you when you needed help


But I ain't the fool I used to be
I am no longer foolish enough to continue putting up with your mistreatment


You come home all hours of the night
You do not respect me or our relationship by staying out all night


The fragrance on you ain't old spice
You smell like a woman and have been unfaithful


Tonight when you come draggin' home
When you come home tired and late as usual


And find you need me, I'll be gone
I will not be there for you to rely on


So, what am I still doing here?
I am questioning why I am still in this relationship


You've been doin' me wrong for years
You have been treating me badly for a long time


Tired of pickin' up and puttin' out
I am tired of doing everything for you and getting nothing in return


I'm leaving you lock, stock, and house
I am leaving you completely and taking everything with me


So, bye bye, baby, that's it, I'm packed
I am leaving and have already packed my things


I'm a'leavin' now, but I'll call back
I am leaving now, but I will contact you later


And leave this message on the code-a-phone
I will leave a message on the answering machine


Sayin', if you need me, well, I'll be gone
If you try to contact me, I will not be there for you


I'll be gone like the moon when the sun comes up
I will be gone quickly and completely, like the moon disappears when the sun rises


Gone like the dew from the buttercup
I will be gone, like the dew evaporates from a flower in the morning sun


Gone like a woman treated wrong
I will be gone, like a woman who has been treated badly and decides to leave


Gone like a woman leavin' home
I will be gone, like a woman leaving her home and starting a new life


I said, if you need me, I'll be gone
I want to make it clear that I will not be there for you if you need me




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

@frankmachotka3488

I can't get enough of Dolly Parton. She's the best singer in the world 🌏. I. Will. Always love you 💗💗💋💋😙

@sydnee11

Good memories. Love dolly!!!

@KayseSalmon

I found myself humming this out of the blue and had to look it up.

@StephyD327

Great Song!!!

@automaticchic

haha i used to love this song when i was a kid!

@wesleybrindle6547

I remember every word to this song from when I was about7years old every time momma would leave my daddy and we would travel over the mountain from Lincoln county west Virginia to dandridge Tennessee but I knew we was gonna be OK when we got there and momma would be to. Your my inspiration dolly. And so are you momma

@delbertkeller7609

EXPLORING ALL FEELINGS OF HUMAN EMOTIONS FROM LOVE , DEEP SORROWFUL LOSS TO KISS MY ASS, (BYE FELICA). "IF YOU NEED ME I'LL BE GONE" YOU TELL UM DOLLY. GREAT AFFIRMATION SONG FOR ONESELF WHEN YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE YOU. RESPECT FOR YOURSELF , SETTING BOUNDARIES AND HAVING THE POWERFUL STRENGTH OF WILL TO LEAVE A BAD RELATIONSHIP SHOULD NEVER BE FORGOTTEN..

@danielhuber4953

If You need me I will be there. JOL. LOVE

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