Lover du Jour
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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What are you looking at, lover boy?
It won't do you any good,
'Cause I know your kind!
If you wanna be mine,
We gotta get this understood!

Oh, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour
Your special of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour
Pardon my French, but there's no chance in hell for you, for sure
If you think that I will be your, be your lover du jour
Pas moi (Lover du jour), not me!

I am well aware of your good looks and sexy ways
Serving up yourself to girls to satisfy your taste
The fresh catch of the day, on your Romeo buffet
Served up hot and ready, just having it your way

Well, if I'm on the menu, you'd better get this straight
Me and you had better come to terms before you grab your plate
Don't even place your order if you believe that I
I'm just some cheesy little dish, just another chickie pie

No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour
The flavor of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour
Pardon my French but there's no chance in hell that I endure
The fact that I would only be your lover du jour
Oubliez-moi (Lover du jour), forget me!

Still looking, lover boy?
Have you changed your view?
I told you once, I'll say it again
I'll take no merde from you! (That's crap!)

If you want something appetizing
Something real and satisfying
I'll be worth a second look, but that's the only way!

'Cause, I'm not gonna be your, be your amour du jour
Your playmate of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour
'Cause I won't be caught up in all your charm and your allure
No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour!

No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour!
The special of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour!
Pardon my French, but there's no chance in hell that I'll endure
The fact that I would only be your lover du jour
No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour!
Your lover du jour!
Hm hm hm c'est dommage (Too bad!)

Now, I am not for your amusement
I am not a toy, you're nothing but trouble!
Ooh you're a bad bad boy! (Amour du jour)
I am a tasty starter around a full course meal
Desert after dinner drink, and you can have your fill

Pardon my French
Tu ne causes que des ennuis
Tu es un mauvais garçon
Any questions? (Haha)
Oh my French is awful but my love is awesome




(Haha) Ooh, they're gonna laugh at me in France
Sorry (Hahaha)

Overall Meaning

The song "Lover du Jour" by Dolly Parton is a strong feminist track that empowers women to not be reduced to mere objects for men's pleasure. The lyrics are aimed at a man who is trying to pursue her as just a temporary fling, a "lover du jour." Parton tells him that his looks and charm won't work on her, and that she knows he's just looking for a temporary thrill.


The chorus, with its repetition of "No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour," is a rejection of this type of limited, disposable relationship. She compares herself to a full course meal, rather than a temporary appetizer, and refuses to let herself be reduced to a cheap thrill.


The song is an amazing example of Dolly's vocal range and her ability to put together a sassy and punchy track that still has a strong message. The music video shows her dressed in a French maid costume, taking on the stereotypical image of women as sexual objects.


Line by Line Meaning

What are you looking at, lover boy?
The singer is questioning the intentions of the person she is addressing.


It won't do you any good, 'Cause I know your kind!
She is aware of the person's reputation and is not interested.


If you wanna be mine, We gotta get this understood!
She only wants a meaningful relationship and requires mutual understanding.


Oh, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour Your special of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour Pardon my French, but there's no chance in hell for you, for sure If you think that I will be your, be your lover du jour Pas moi (Lover du jour), not me!
The singer is not interested in a short-term, casual relationship and will not entertain the idea.


I am well aware of your good looks and sexy ways Serving up yourself to girls to satisfy your taste The fresh catch of the day, on your Romeo buffet Served up hot and ready, just having it your way
She knows the person's behavior and is not impressed with it.


Well, if I'm on the menu, you'd better get this straight Me and you had better come to terms before you grab your plate Don't even place your order if you believe that I I'm just some cheesy little dish, just another chickie pie
She makes it clear that she is not a casual opportunity and requires respect and mutual understanding.


Still looking, lover boy? Have you changed your view? I told you once, I'll say it again I'll take no merde from you! (That's crap!)
She repeats that she has no interest in someone who does not value her or a serious relationship.


If you want something appetizing Something real and satisfying I'll be worth a second look, but that's the only way!
She hints that she is open to a meaningful relationship if the person is truly interested.


'Cause, I'm not gonna be your, be your amour du jour Your playmate of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour 'Cause I won't be caught up in all your charm and your allure No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour!
She repeats that she is not interested in a short-term, casual relationship.


No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour! The special of the day, no way, I'll do farewell, bonjour! Pardon my French, but there's no chance in hell that I'll endure The fact that I would only be your lover du jour No, I'm not gonna be your, be your lover du jour! Your lover du jour! Hm hm hm c'est dommage (Too bad!)
She clearly states that she is not going to be a casual partner and is not interested in someone who only wants a short-term relationship.


Now, I am not for your amusement I am not a toy, you're nothing but trouble! Ooh you're a bad bad boy! (Amour du jour) I am a tasty starter around a full course meal Desert after dinner drink, and you can have your fill
She emphasizes that she is not somebody to be toyed with or treated casually- she is an entire package that deserves respect and a lasting commitment.


Pardon my French Tu ne causes que des ennuis Tu es un mauvais garçon Any questions? (Haha) Oh my French is awful but my love is awesome (Haha) Ooh, they're gonna laugh at me in France Sorry (Hahaha)
She apologies for her bad French and humorously acknowledges her desire for lasting love




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

@melissalavonchadwick4203

I love the way dolly is singing the song she's very outspoken and she's singing this song and I love it is awesome love always Melissa

@celinefaucher3771

No dolly we love you here in France ❤️❤️

@trr5291

Dolly just keeps getting better and better.

@melissalavonchadwick4203

I like the way Dolly sings this song it talks about relationships but it tells you to speak up for yourself as well dolly is very cool and outspoken like me that's awesome 👍 love always Melissa

@melissalavonchadwick4203

I'm sitting in my room I'm listening to the song that dolly is singing it's amazing and she talks French in it that's awesome it's like a twist it's amazing and I'm smiling love always Melissa

@melissalavonchadwick4203

I like the way Dolly sings in this song about sometimes you just have to take things the way they are and go with your heart dolly is awesome and cool and the best love always Melissa

@melissalavonchadwick4203

I love the song that Dolly singing cuz she's talking about being outspoken and and telling it like it is through the song she's amazing and awesome and cool love always Melissa

@georgiamay7965

I don't just like this song I LOVE IT!!!!! I'm a huge fan of Dolly Parton and so is my brother. When we heard that she had a new album out words cannot describe how excited we were. This was the first song that I learnt from 'Blue Smoke' and I wouldn't have this song any other way x

@missychadwick2840

❤❤❤❤❤❤ Sometimes you have suggests not feed into other people basically me I haven’t been in a lot of relationships Ashley none at all I got more grown-up to do before I get to that point but the same time I am enjoying this song that Dolly is singing she is amazing ❤❤ Love always Melissa❤

@melissachadwick4385

I like this song is cool 😎 sometimes you just have to stand up for yourself and not take but for yourself and speaking up for yourself as well I think that's what Dolly sings in the song is very awesome and cool she's amazing anyways love you Dolly love always Melissa

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