Silver Dagger
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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Don't sing love songs
You'll wake my mother
She's sleeping here right by my side
In her right hand is a silver dagger
She says that I can't be your bride
All men are fools
So says my mother
They'll tell you again
Love and lies
And then they'll go

And court some other
Leave you alone to pine inside
My daddy is a handsome devil
He's got a chain five miles long
On every link, a heart does dangle
Of another maid he's loved and wronged, oh
Go court another tender maiden
In hopes that she might be your wife
For I've been warned so I decided




I'll sleep alone all of my life, ohh...
Beware, beware, a silver dagger

Overall Meaning

The song Silver Dagger by Dolly Parton is about a young woman who is warned by her mother not to fall in love with anyone. The mother is sleeping with a silver dagger in her hand to protect her daughter from any potential suitors. The first line of the song, "Don't sing love songs, you'll wake my mother," indicates the mother's strictness and how she doesn't want her daughter to engage in any romantic relationships. The mother knows that all men are untrustworthy and warns her daughter against falling for their sweet words and false promises. Instead, she wants her daughter to focus on herself and not rely on any man for her happiness.


The second verse of the song introduces the young woman's father who is a womanizer. He has a chain with hearts of multiple women, whom he has loved and wronged. This suggests that the father is not a good role model for his daughter, and the mother's warning is justified. The father's behavior further supports the mother's disdain for men and why she doesn't want her daughter to end up like her.


The song overall presents a cautionary tale for young women about love and how it can be deceitful. The mother wants her daughter to take control of her own life and not be dependent on any man for her happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't sing love songs
Do not express romantic affection towards me


You'll wake my mother
My mother is asleep beside me and I do not wish to disturb her


She's sleeping here right by my side
My mother is physically present and could awaken from any disturbance


In her right hand is a silver dagger
My mother symbolically wields a weapon to protect me from potential suitors


She says that I can't be your bride
My mother forbids any romantic involvement between us


All men are fools
My mother has a low opinion of men in general


So says my mother
My mother has taught me this lesson from personal experience


They'll tell you again
Men will repeatedly express their affection for women despite negative outcomes


Love and lies
Men tend to deceive women with false promises of love


And then they'll go
After achieving their own desires, men will leave women behind


And court some other
Men will seek out new romantic interests


Leave you alone to pine inside
Women are left to suffer and yearn for past relationships


My daddy is a handsome devil
My father is an attractive but untrustworthy man


He's got a chain five miles long
My father has been with many women and has a long history of mistreating them


On every link, a heart does dangle
Each woman my father has been with has given him her heart, only to be disappointed


Of another maid he's loved and wronged, oh
My father has a pattern of loving women, then breaking their hearts and leaving them


Go court another tender maiden
I advise you to seek out a different woman to pursue romantically


In hopes that she might be your wife
Perhaps another woman will be more willing to become your spouse


For I've been warned so I decided
I have been forewarned about men like you and have made a conscious decision not to marry


I'll sleep alone all of my life, ohh...
I have chosen a life of solitude and will not enter into any romantic relationships


Beware, beware, a silver dagger
My mother's warning is to be taken seriously and should not be ignored




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Written by: JOAN C. BAEZ

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Romy K.


on Gypsy Joe And Me

As a matter of fact she's contemplating suicide standing on the bridge, that's how they'll be together again.

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