Starting Over Again
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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Momma moved out
Daddy sold the house
They split up the money
And went on their way
And all the king's horses
And all the king's men
Couldn't put mommy and daddy back together again
Starting over again
Where should they begin
Cause they've never been out on their own
Starting over again
Where do you begin
When your dreams are all shattered
And the kids are all grown
And the whole world cries

Got an apartment
She moved in with her sisters
He's scheming big deals with one of his friends
While she sits at home
Just sorting out pieces
Of left over memories
From thirty odd years

Starting over again
Where do you begin
You've never been out on your own
Starting over again
Never any end

What will the neighbors say?
They're talking talk, it's small town news
Facing fifty years old
Making up a happy home
And this far down the road
You find yourself alone
Two fools

Starting over again
Now where do you begin
When you've never been out on your own
Starting over again
Never any end
When your dreams are all shattered
And the kids are all grown
And all the king's horses
And all the king's men




Could never put mommy and daddy back together
Back together, again

Overall Meaning

The song "Starting Over Again" by Dolly Parton talks about the aftermath of a broken marriage and a family's attempt to pick up the pieces and start anew. The opening lines describe the separation of the couple, as the mother moves out and the father sells the house. Despite the effort to split up their assets fairly, there is no way that they could reconcile and fix their broken relationship, as the nursery rhyme reference to "all the king's horses and all the king's men" implies.


The song then moves on to the couple's attempt to rebuild their lives after divorce, with the older generation facing this task in a world they never knew without each other. The lyrics describe how both parents took different paths, with the mother moving in with her sisters and the father scheming with friends. Meanwhile, the two of them are left to reconcile their own set of memories, as they built a life together over thirty years but now have to come to terms with being apart.


The song is a poignant reflection of how difficult it can be to start over again after a long-term bond has been severed. It also touches on the societal pressures that people often face when taking on this challenge, such as the nosiness of neighbours and small-town gossip. Ultimately, the track acknowledges that starting over again is rarely easy, and that couples who separate face the challenge of building new lives alone.


Line by Line Meaning

Momma moved out
Dolly refers to the divorce of her parents where her mother left the house.


Daddy sold the house
Dolly's father had to sell their house and distribute the money with her mom after their divorce.


They split up the money
After her parents' divorce, they divided the money they got from selling their house.


And went on their way
Dolly's parents separated and went their separate ways, leaving Dolly to choose which parent to live with.


And all the king's horses
Dolly reflects on the futility of trying to repair a relationship that has been severely damaged, comparing it to the nursery rhyme involving all the king's horses.


And all the king's men
Dolly continues the reference to the nursery rhyme, suggesting that no amount of effort could undo the damage caused by the divorce of her parents.


Couldn't put mommy and daddy back together again
Dolly emphasizes that the divorce of her parents was too much to undo, and the damage caused couldn't be repaired, no matter how much effort was put into it.


Starting over again
Dolly highlights the need to get back on the saddle and start anew after a tumultuous experience like divorce.


Where should they begin
Dolly wonders where her parents would begin in starting over again, considering the traumatic experience they just had.


Cause they've never been out on their own
Dolly understands that her parents have never been alone and thus the experience of getting back up after their divorce would be like starting afresh.


Where do you begin
She continues the line of thought, asking where one should start after such an experience and how one can move on.


When your dreams are all shattered
Dolly acknowledges the heartbreak that comes with divorce and how it can shatter one's dreams and aspirations for the future.


And the kids are all grown
Dolly highlights that the absence of dependent children to care for after a divorce presents a different sort of challenge for parents, who are now faced with dealing with their own grief and trauma.


And the whole world cries
Dolly acknowledges the universality of the trauma and heartbreak that comes with divorce and how it affects the individual and the world at large.


Got an apartment
Dolly refers to her mother moving on after the divorce and getting a new apartment to start afresh.


She moved in with her sisters
Dolly references her mother seeking comfort from family after the divorce by moving in with her sisters.


He's scheming big deals with one of his friends
Dolly portrays a stereotypical post-divorce male agenda where her father is trying to pick up the pieces by making big investments and taking risks.


While she sits at home
Dolly juxtaposes the contrasting experiences where her mother is quietly mending her wounds away from the world's view, while her father is out in the world trying to make it once again.


Just sorting out pieces
Dolly refers to her mother's emotional state where she is piecing herself back together after the emotional trauma of the divorce.


Of left over memories
Dolly alludes to the memories that come with divorce, which are hard to erase or forget, even in a fresh start.


From thirty odd years
Dolly highlights the length of time her parents spent together before the divorce, giving context to the magnitude of the experience for them.


What will the neighbors say?
Dolly speaks to the stereotypical small-town judgment that comes with divorce, where people are judged for their choices and mistakes.


They're talking talk, it's small town news
Dolly emphasizes the invasive nature of small town gossip, highlighting the toll it can take on someone's psyche and reputation after a divorce.


Facing fifty years old
Dolly speaks to the demographic that often goes through a divorce- the middle-aged, thus the trauma of starting over again is even more profound.


Making up a happy home
Dolly acknowledges the hard work and effort it takes to make a home happy and comfortable after such a traumatic experience like divorce.


And this far down the road
Dolly highlights the inevitability of time and how life still goes on even after such a traumatic experience like divorce.


You find yourself alone
Dolly draws attention to the loneliness that can come with a divorce and how it affects one's outlook on life.


Two fools
Dolly acknowledges that couples who get divorced are often judged as foolish for their inability to work things out, but that the reality is often far more complicated.


Now where do you begin
Dolly brings the song back to the recurring theme of starting over again, reflecting the struggle and the uncertainty that comes with starting anew.


Never any end
Dolly acknowledges that the journey of starting over again never truly ends, as the trauma of the divorce often lingers on for a lifetime.


Could never put mommy and daddy back together
Dolly ends the song on a somber note, reiterating the fact that some damages can never be undone, even with the best intentions and efforts.


Back together, again
The line brings the song full circle, as it repeats the opening sequence, emphasizing the cyclical and endless nature of some experiences, like the effects of a divorce.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: GOODMAN, RYLES

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Romy K.


on Gypsy Joe And Me

As a matter of fact she's contemplating suicide standing on the bridge, that's how they'll be together again.

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