When Love Is New
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Dolly Parton)

Chorus:
Love is pretty when love is new
Like a blushing rose in a dazzling dew,
Intoxicating like cherry sweet wine.
When love is new it's magic.
Verse 1:

Mother, oh Mother, why can't you see
He's the only love for me.
Why must thou be opposed to me
I'm asking for thy blessing.

Daughter, oh daughter, I know his kind.
You think he's handsome, you think he's fine.
He'll use your body and tangle your mind;
Too late you'll learn this lesson

Repeat Chorus

When love grows cold, it's tragic

Verse 2:

Mother, oh mother, he's not that way
His touch just takes my breath away.
You surely remember when you felt that way
When you and father first married

Oh, yes, I do remember it well.
What first was heaven soon turned to hell
He left with another the year you were born.
I told you he's dead and buried.

Repeat Chorus

Bridge:

He'll love me true 'cause he told me so.
He'll break you heart when love grows old.
I must go, Mother, I must go.
Then, daughter, why are you asking?
I love him so, I love him so.
Then I pray you're new love's lasting.

Repeat Chorus

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When love grows cold, it's tragic.

Overall Meaning

Dolly Parton's "When Love Is New" is a ballad that tells the story of a young woman who wants her mother's blessing on her relationship with a man who she believes is her true love. The chorus emphasizes the fleeting beauty of love at its beginning stages, describing it as "intoxicating" and "magic," but warns that when love grows cold, it is tragic.


In the first verse, the daughter pleads with her mother to accept her lover and give them her blessing, but the mother is reluctant, warning her daughter that the man will only use her and that she will regret it. The daughter insists that her love is true, and that her mother was once young and in love, but the mother counters that her own early love turned out disastrously. The second verse deepens the melancholy tone of the song, revealing that the mother's own father left her mother when she was pregnant, and suggesting that this trauma has conditioned her to be resistant to her daughter's enthusiasm.


The song's emotional depth and sympathy for the daughter's point of view make it an affecting exploration of the mother-daughter bond and the power dynamics between older and younger generations. The dual focus on the beauty and transience of love, and the inevitable disillusionment that is part of love's journey, gives the song a mature and realistic tone.


Line by Line Meaning

Love is pretty when love is new
New love is beautiful and charming


Like a blushing rose in a dazzling dew
New love is fresh, innocent and full of hope


Intoxicating like cherry sweet wine
New love is strong and irresistible


When love is new it's magic
New love brings excitement and wonder


Mother, oh Mother, why can't you see
Daughter is asking her mother for approval of her new love


He's the only love for me
Daughter believes that her new love is the one for her


Why must thou be opposed to me
Daughter wants to know why her mother disagrees


I'm asking for thy blessing
Daughter is requesting her mother's approval


Daughter, oh daughter, I know his kind
Mother warns daughter about men like him


You think he's handsome, you think he's fine
Daughter is attracted to him physically


He'll use your body and tangle your mind
Mother thinks that he will manipulate her and break her heart


Too late you'll learn this lesson
Mother worries that daughter will only realize this after it's too late


When love grows cold, it's tragic
If the love dies, it will be sad and painful


Mother, oh mother, he's not that way
Daughter disagrees with her mother's assessment of her new love


His touch just takes my breath away
Daughter is very attracted to him


You surely remember when you felt that way
Daughter thinks that her mother once felt the same way about her father


When you and father first married
Daughter is referencing her mother's early marriage


Oh, yes, I do remember it well
Mother confirms that she, indeed, felt that way before


What first was heaven soon turned to hell
Mother's love story turned tragic


He left with another the year you were born
Mother is telling her daughter that her father left her when she was young


I told you he's dead and buried
Mother is implying that her father is not someone to idealize or follow in love


He'll love me true 'cause he told me so
Daughter believes that her new love is sincere and genuine


He'll break you heart when love grows old
Mother predicts that her daughter's heart will be broken


I must go, Mother, I must go
Daughter is determined to follow her heart


Then, daughter, why are you asking?
Mother is skeptical about daughter's request for approval


I love him so, I love him so
Daughter is deeply in love


Then I pray you're new love's lasting
Mother hopes that daughter's new love will last and bring happiness




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

Jebbi1956

Dolly and Emmy Rossum did an excellent job on this beautiful song.

MyMoppet52

It is a lovely song and it reminds me of the mountains where my folks grew up and I still visit. I appreciate it that you took the time to leave a comment. If you'd like to hear the cd, you can go to my Channel Page and type in the "Search Channel" hidden black bar, The Songcatcher. All the songs will show up. Also, I have primitive songs from The Songcatcher II which might show up also. I have things labeled. Type old timey, mountain music, Americana, instruments, and artists. Have fun, Moppet

Taylor Alyse

Listening to this in 2016!!! Dolly Parton will forever and always be my idol!!!!

StarrySkys

goose bumps cover my body when listen/sing this song

MyMoppet52

Good! That's what great music does sometimes and I'm glad it does that for you. Thanks so much for listening to it here and taking the time to comment. I appreciate it. (Some songs do the same for me). If you'd like to hear the rest of the album, you can type in The Songcatcher on the "Search Channel" area on my Channel Page. There are lots of goose bump songs on that cd for me! My best to you, Moppet (Barbara)

Akebia Cooley

i love this song it reminds me of home and the olden times

Catherine Flaughers

Love it!

Mary Ann Miller

Keep that love new!!  Great song and very good advice.

Wallace Crawford

Beautiful!

MyMoppet52

Love it! I moved to an apt. from a house. One of the things I miss the very most is being able to "crank it up!" (It's not the same with headphones turned up loud.) Enjoy & thanks for getting back to me. Barbara

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