But Not for Me
Doris Day Lyrics


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They're writing songs of love, but not for me
A lucky star's above, but not for me
With love to lead the way
I found more clouds are gray
Than any rainy day, could guarantee

I was a fool to fall, and get that way
I should have known the price, I'd have to pay
Although I can't dismiss




The memory of his kiss
I guess he's not, for me

Overall Meaning

These lyrics are about the feeling of being left out of love and not having the luck to find it. The singer mentions that although there are many songs being written about love, they are not meant for her. Even though there might be a lucky star above, it is not shining for her in terms of love. Love is supposed to lead the way, but for her, it only leads to gray clouds and rainy days. She feels regret for falling in love and not knowing the price she would have to pay for it.


The singer cannot deny the memory of her lover's kiss, but she knows in her heart that he is not meant for her. These lyrics are a perfect example of the feeling of being unlucky in love and the disappointment that comes along with it. The use of colorful words like "gray clouds" and "rainy days" is a great way to illustrate the despair and sadness that the singer is feeling.


Line by Line Meaning

They're writing songs of love, but not for me
Everyone around me seems to be in love and happy, but I am not fortunate enough to have found love yet.


A lucky star's above, but not for me
Even though luck seems to favor other people, it seems to elude me when it comes to finding love.


With love to lead the way, I found more clouds are gray
Even though I had high hopes that love would make my life brighter, it has only brought me heartache, disappointment, and pain.


Than any rainy day, could guarantee
Even on the cloudiest of days, there was always a chance of sunshine breaking through, but in my love life, there seems to be no hope for a happy ending.


I was a fool to fall, and get that way
Looking back, I realize that I was foolish to have let my guard down and fall in love, knowing how difficult it can be to find a lasting and fulfilling relationship.


I should have known the price, I'd have to pay
I was well aware that love comes with its own set of challenges, but I did not realize the full extent of the emotional toll it would take on me.


Although I can't dismiss, The memory of his kiss
Despite the pain and heartache caused by my failed relationship, I cannot deny the fact that I once shared a deep and meaningful connection with my ex-partner.


I guess he's not, for me
Ultimately, I have come to accept that my ex-partner was not meant to be in my life forever, and that I must move on and continue searching for a love that is truly meant for me.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@lamarmeiki7962

Old Man Sunshine, listen, you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it, and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax, don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain, It's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate, it's all bananas
They're writing songs of love, but not for me
A lucky star's above, but not for me
With love to lead the way
I found more skies of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee
I was a fool to fall, and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss
The memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me
Although I can't dismiss
The memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me



All comments from YouTube:

@dayfan1962

This is music the way it was meant to be sung by one who is uniquely gifted to perform it as such! What a gift to the world her talent has been!! What more can I say about one of the most enchanting human beings alive today?

@Bluejeans0701

Doris Day is a real genius among jazz vocalists. This is the first time I listen to her sing this number but I get mesmerized by her sweet voice. Thanks for posting this clip. I am positive that she could top today's young artists like Ne-yo and Lady Gaga.

@pauldirac5376

What a great performance! And a very good recording too; sounds great, with my Boston computer speakers. Doris had such natural presence in her singing. Can't be imitated.

@isabelcordero3557

I guess I was a fool.....
Doris is fabulous!!! The rythm of the song and her singular way of singing, makes her in my opinion
the best 👍👍👍👏👏👏

@Dayniac4324

She really does a ballad as good as or better than anyone ! Happy you enjoyed !

@MJLeger-yj1ww

Nice selection of songs by the extremely talented Doris Day! What a clear, beautiful voice she had. I've always liked "But Not For Me" and used to sing it now and then when I performed, many recorded this song. Pretty but kind of sad song!

@rossharmonics

She doesn't stay strictly with the written score. Like Sinatra, she is so subtle in how she departs from the score. Also, like Sinatra, part of it is how she uses slight changes in rhythm and how she chooses to stretch notes. She's a true master of the voice. Absolutely brilliant and absolutely perfect. Sinatra apparently was thrilled when he got to appear with her in Young at Heart.

@mauricioduron3193

As I sit and listen, Doris has me swaying and swinging back and forth. Not many can do that.

@paulprocopolis

Uniquely Doris Day and utterly irresistable! (And surely she had one of the most captivating smiles in video history.)

@mdsoulsounds

Doris Day had such grace in her beautiful interpretations.

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