Love as a Kinda War
Elisa Lyrics


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If love is a kind of war
It's cutting like a blade
The scars never show but they go so deep
And they never fade

This love is a kind of war
Why couldn't you just stay
But no you don't even look at me now
Would you tell me straight

We've crossed the line
between love and hate this time
I can't remember what the fight is all about
Whatever I say you take it the wrong way
And you put me under, you walk away looking so sure

What was that you told me before
it's only you who rocks my world
it's only me who loves you so
then why do I keep on feeling

As if love was a kind of war
It's cutting like a blade
The scars never show but they go so deep
And they never fade

And this love is a kind of war
Why couldn't you just stay
But no you don't even look at me now
Would you tell me straight

It never ends and nobody ever wins
I'm running for shelter
I wanna run into your arms

I can't believe
we're acting like enemies
and then when I hurt you
It's like a knife in my own heart

As if not how that was real before
it's only you who rocks my world
it's only me who loves you so
then why do I keep on feeling

As if love was a kind of war
It's cutting like a blade
The scars never show but they go so deep
And they never fade

And this love is a kind of war
Why couldn't you just stay
But no you don't even look at me now
Would you tell me straight

Cause you lock the door
you won't go back anymore
Say that it's over
crying, screaming all about – screaming all about
And we had it all and I've got it all wrong
you put me under but I wouldn't be so sure

Haven't you heard it all before
it's only you who rocks my world
and only me who loves you so
then why do I keep on feeling

As if love was a kind of war
It's cutting like a blade
The scars never show but they go so deep
And they never fade

And this love is a kind of war
Why couldn't you just stay
But no you don't even look at me now
Would you tell me straight, this love

This love is a kind of war
Why couldn't you just stay
No you don't even look at me now
Would you tell me straight





Why you see love, love as a kind of war
you see love, love as a kind of war

Overall Meaning

The song "Love as a Kinda War" by Elisa is a heartbreaking exploration of love that has turned into a battle. The repetition of the phrase "love is a kind of war" throughout the song underscores the conflict and turmoil present in the relationship the singer is experiencing. The imagery in the lyrics, such as "cutting like a blade" and "scars never show but they go so deep," reinforces the pain and enduring effects of this kind of battle.


The song delves deeply into the feelings of betrayal and confusion when a love has gone wrong. The lyrics mention that the couple has crossed the line between love and hate, indicating that once passionate love has now transformed into something far more negative. The singer pleads for honesty and clarity, asking why her partner won't even look at her now and begging for the truth.


Despite the raw emotion of the song, there is also a feeling of hopelessness present in the lyrics. The line "it never ends and nobody ever wins" speaks to the futility of trying to fight for a love that has already turned sour. The sadness in the singer's voice as she repeats the question "why couldn't you just stay?" only underscores the pain and longing she feels.


Overall, "Love as a Kinda War" is a powerful song that explores the darkness of a love gone wrong. It captures the pain and confusion of a relationship in turmoil, ultimately leaving the listener with a sense of sadness and resignation.


Line by Line Meaning

If love is a kind of war
Comparing love to war, acknowledging the cutting and deep scars that come along and never fade


It's cutting like a blade
Love is painful and can cut deep like a sharp blade


The scars never show but they go so deep
The emotional pain of love is not visible, but the impact is felt deeply


And they never fade
The emotional scars of love never truly heal


This love is a kind of war
Repeating the comparison of love to war


Why couldn't you just stay
Asking why the person she loves couldn't stay with her


But no you don't even look at me now
Expressing the pain of the person she loves not even acknowledging her presence


Would you tell me straight
Asking the person she loves to be honest and open with her


We've crossed the line
Their relationship has transitioned from love to hate


between love and hate this time
Clarifying the line between their love and hate that is blurred


I can't remember what the fight is all about
Forgetting the reason they are fighting due to the intensity of their emotions


Whatever I say you take it the wrong way
Expressing the difficulty of communicating with the person she loves


And you put me under, you walk away looking so sure
Feeling put down by the person she loves and noticing their confident behavior


What was that you told me before
Bringing up something the person she loves had previously said


it's only you who rocks my world
The person she loves is the one who makes her life complete


it's only me who loves you so
Her love for the other person is strong and unwavering


then why do I keep on feeling
Asking why she feels so much pain if their love is so strong


It never ends and nobody ever wins
Expressing the difficulty of their situation and how there is no real winner


I'm running for shelter
Seeking refuge from the emotional turmoil she is experiencing


I wanna run into your arms
Wanting to turn to the person she loves for comfort


I can't believe
Expressing disbelief at the direction their relationship has gone


we're acting like enemies
Noticing how their behavior towards each other has turned negative


and then when I hurt you
Acknowledging that she has hurt the person she loves


It's like a knife in my own heart
Feeling hurt and pain for hurting someone she loves


Cause you lock the door
The other person has closed themselves off from her


you won't go back anymore
Realizing that the person she loves will not return to their previous relationship


Say that it's over
Realizing that their love is ending


crying, screaming all about - screaming all about
Emotions are running high, and there is a lot of pain involved


And we had it all and I've got it all wrong
Reflecting on their past and how their love has ended up falling apart


you put me under but I wouldn't be so sure
Feeling hurt by the other person's actions, but not entirely blaming them


Haven't you heard it all before
Questioning if the person she loves has heard it all before


it's only you who rocks my world
Repeating that the person she loves is the one who makes her life complete


and only me who loves you so
Repeating her unwavering love for the other person


Why you see love, love as a kind of war
Questioning the other person's perspective on love being a kind of war


you see love, love as a kind of war
Repeating the question and drawing attention to the differing perspectives on love




Writer(s): Jud Joseph Friedman, Elisa Toffoli, Allan Rich

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