The chokin
Ella Fitzgerald Lyrics


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I only meant to love you
Don't you know it, babe?
Why couldn't you be contented
With the love I gave?
I've given you my heart
But now you want my mind
Your love scares me to death, girl
It's the chokin' kind
You can kill a man
With bullets, poison, or a knife
But it hurts him more
To take his pride and run his life
Whatever it is you want, girl
Lord, I hope you find
But that hat don't fit my head
It's the chokin' kind

When you fall in love again, girl
Take a tip from me
If you don't like the peaches
Walk on by the tree
Find what you want and keep it
Treat it sweet and kind
But let it breathe
Don't make your love the chokin' kind




Oh baby, bye bye, baby, bye bye, baby bye bye, oh baby, bye bye
Bye bye, baby, baby, bye bye

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ella Fitzgeraldā€™s song ā€œThe Chokinā€™ Kindā€ speak to the pain and fear that comes along with being in love with someone who demands more than what you are willing or able to give. The songā€™s protagonist is expressing their frustration with their partner, who is not content with the love they are offering. The singer has given their heart to their partner, but their partner wants more than that. The singer is scared of their partnerā€™s love because it is suffocating them.


The lyrics in the second verse suggest that this kind of love is also capable of destroying a personā€™s spirit. The singer warns that although a person can kill another with bullets, poison, or a knife, taking away someoneā€™s pride and sense of self can be just as devastating. The singer concludes by offering some advice to their partner, suggesting that they should find what they want and treat it with kindness, but not suffocate it.


Overall, the lyrics of the song paint a picture of a relationship that is plagued by a partner who demands too much, and a protagonist who is struggling to deal with the suffocating nature of that love.


Line by Line Meaning

I only meant to love you
I had no hidden intentions other than to love you honestly and purely.


Don't you know it, babe?
A rhetorical question meant to emphasize the sincerity of my love for you.


Why couldn't you be contented
I offered you everything I had, why weren't you satisfied?


With the love I gave?
I gave you all the love I had to offer, but it wasn't enough for you.


I've given you my heart
I've offered all my love and vulnerability to you.


But now you want my mind
You're trying to control me and manipulate my thoughts and feelings.


Your love scares me to death, girl
I fear the intensity and possessiveness of your love and the harm it could cause.


It's the chokin' kind
Your love suffocates me and makes me feel trapped and unable to breathe.


You can kill a man
Physical harm is not as painful as the emotional harm of destroying a person's dignity and self-respect.


With bullets, poison, or a knife
You can take a person's life with weapons, but the emotional harm is much worse.


But it hurts him more
Emotional and mental harm causes more pain and suffering than physical harm.


To take his pride and run his life
Manipulating and controlling someone takes away their sense of pride and independence and leads to a life of misery and despair.


Whatever it is you want, girl
I don't know what you want or what you're trying to achieve.


Lord, I hope you find
I hope you find what you're looking for and become happy and fulfilled.


But that hat don't fit my head
I can't give you what you want because it doesn't fit with who I am or what I can offer.


It's the chokin' kind
Your love is suffocating and overwhelming and I can't continue living like this.


When you fall in love again, girl
When you find love in the future, take this advice to heart.


Take a tip from me
Learn from my mistakes and don't repeat them in the future.


If you don't like the peaches
If you don't want what someone has to offer, don't take it or try to change it.


Walk on by the tree
Don't linger or try to force something that isn't right for you.


Find what you want and keep it
Find the love you want and hold onto it, treat it with care and respect.


Treat it sweet and kind
Love is gentle and requires tenderness and kindness to grow and flourish.


But let it breathe
Don't smother love, let it grow and flourish freely.


Don't make your love the chokin' kind
Don't let your love become obsessive and suffocating, give it room to breathe and grow healthily.


Oh baby, bye bye
Farewell, my love.


Bye bye, baby, bye bye
Goodbye, my love, goodbye.




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Written by: HARLAN HOWARD

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