Only When You Leave
Elton John Lyrics


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Your bags out on the bed
Your closet's all cleared out
You say you're goin' to Jacksonville
Cause our love's all worn out

You're searching in my eyes
To try and find a tear
But the well of my forgiveness
Has dried up with the years

You might still look pretty
In that lacy little dress
But I think you've got your signals crossed
If you think that I'm a mess

I ain't gonna die, I ain't gonna cry
I won't wear my heart out on my sleeve
You can take the car, but you won't break my heart
Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
I ain't gonna shake, I ain't gonna break
I ain't gonna fall down on my knees
So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave

It's like a prime time movie
You play the part so well
You do believe you're Heaven sent
And livin' here is hell

I hear it's hot in Florida
And it's raining here tonight
But the sun's gonna shine tomorrow
And I'm gonna do alright

You might still look pretty
In that lacy little dress
But I think you've got your signals crossed
If you think that I'm a mess

I ain't gonna die, I ain't gonna cry
I won't wear my heart out on my sleeve
You can take the car, but you won't break my heart
Oh, and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
I ain't gonna shake, I ain't gonna break
I ain't gonna fall down on my knees
So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave

You might still look pretty
In that lacy little dress
But I think you've got your signals crossed
If you think that I'm a mess

I ain't gonna die, I ain't gonna cry
I won't wear my heart out on my sleeve
You can take the car, but you won't break my heart
And darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
I ain't gonna shake, I ain't gonna break
I ain't gonna fall down on my knees
So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave





So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave

Overall Meaning

"Only When You Leave" by Elton John is a song about a relationship that has come to an end. The opening lines describe a scene where the singer's partner is packing their bags, clearing out their closet, and expressing their intention to leave for Jacksonville because their love has worn out. This suggests that the relationship has reached a point of no return, where both parties acknowledge that it is time to move on.


The next verse delves into the emotional aftermath of the breakup. The partner searches for signs of sadness or regret in the singer's eyes, but the singer reveals that their capacity for forgiveness has dried up over the years. It seems that the relationship has been filled with turmoil and hurt, leading to the singer's emotional detachment and inability to show vulnerability anymore.


The chorus is a defiant response from the singer. They assert their resilience and refuse to let the breakup break them down. They won't die or cry, nor wear their heart on their sleeve. Despite the pain, they won't allow their ex-partner to break their heart. The request to turn the lights out when leaving signifies a symbolic closing of this chapter and moving forward.


The second verse compares the situation to a prime time movie, where the partner plays the role of someone who believes they are perfect while living in a state of misery. The singer acknowledges the difficult circumstances they are in, expressing that it is raining where they are while remarking that it's hot in Florida, emphasizing the contrasting emotions and experiences they are going through.


The repetition of the chorus reinforces the singer's determination to remain strong and not let the breakup define them. They reiterate that the partner is mistaken if they think the singer is a mess. The final repetition of the chorus emphasizes the singer's decision to move on, wishing for the lights to be turned off as a metaphorical way of closing the door on the past and finding solace in returning to bed, both literally and figuratively.


Overall, "Only When You Leave" explores the aftermath of a failed relationship and the singer's refusal to allow themselves to be consumed by pain and vulnerability. It speaks to the idea of resilience and the ability to find strength in moving forward.


Line by Line Meaning

Your bags out on the bed
You have packed your bags and are ready to leave


Your closet's all cleared out
You have already removed all your belongings from the closet


You say you're goin' to Jacksonville
You claim that you're leaving for Jacksonville


Cause our love's all worn out
Because our love has become tired and faded


You're searching in my eyes
You are looking into my eyes, trying to find a hint of sadness


To try and find a tear
In hopes of witnessing me cry


But the well of my forgiveness
However, my capacity to forgive


Has dried up with the years
Has diminished over time


You might still look pretty
You may still appear beautiful


In that lacy little dress
In that delicate dress


But I think you've got your signals crossed
You have misunderstood the situation


If you think that I'm a mess
If you believe I am broken or distraught


I ain't gonna die, I ain't gonna cry
I will not die, I will not shed tears


I won't wear my heart out on my sleeve
I will not openly display my emotions


You can take the car, but you won't break my heart
You may take the car, but you will not shatter my heart


Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
Please turn off the lights when you depart, my love


I ain't gonna shake, I ain't gonna break
I will not tremble, I will not collapse


I ain't gonna fall down on my knees
I will not surrender or beg


So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
If everything has been said, I am going back to bed


So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
If everything has been spoken, I am going back to bed


Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
Please turn off the lights when you depart, my love


It's like a prime time movie
It feels like a television drama


You play the part so well
You convincingly play the role


You do believe you're Heaven sent
You genuinely perceive yourself as divinely chosen


And livin' here is hell
Yet living in this situation is torturous


I hear it's hot in Florida
I've heard that Florida is experiencing high temperatures


And it's raining here tonight
Meanwhile, it is currently raining here


But the sun's gonna shine tomorrow
However, the sun will shine tomorrow


And I'm gonna do alright
And I will manage just fine


You might still look pretty
You may still appear beautiful


In that lacy little dress
In that delicate dress


But I think you've got your signals crossed
You have misunderstood the situation


If you think that I'm a mess
If you believe I am broken or distraught


I ain't gonna die, I ain't gonna cry
I will not die, I will not shed tears


I won't wear my heart out on my sleeve
I will not openly display my emotions


You can take the car, but you won't break my heart
You may take the car, but you will not shatter my heart


Oh, and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
Please turn off the lights when you depart, my love


I ain't gonna shake, I ain't gonna break
I will not tremble, I will not collapse


I ain't gonna fall down on my knees
I will not surrender or beg


So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
If everything has been said, I am going back to bed


Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
Please turn off the lights when you depart, my love


You might still look pretty
You may still appear beautiful


In that lacy little dress
In that delicate dress


But I think you've got your signals crossed
You have misunderstood the situation


If you think that I'm a mess
If you believe I am broken or distraught


I ain't gonna die, I ain't gonna cry
I will not die, I will not shed tears


I won't wear my heart out on my sleeve
I will not openly display my emotions


You can take the car, but you won't break my heart
You may take the car, but you will not shatter my heart


And darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
And my love, please turn off the lights when you depart


I ain't gonna shake, I ain't gonna break
I will not tremble, I will not collapse


I ain't gonna fall down on my knees
I will not surrender or beg


So if everything's been said I'm heading back to bed
If everything has been said, I am going back to bed


Oh and darlin' turn the lights out when you leave
Please turn off the lights when you depart, my love




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BERNIE TAUPIN, ELTON JOHN

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Humberto Mendoza

"Only When You Leave"
Laying in the after glow,
I only want to learn what you know,
But now you're leaving...
How many hearts must you break?
How many calls must I make?
But now you're leaving...
In this world, all that I choose has come unbearable
But love is in your touch
Ooh, it's killing me so much
Only when you leave
I need to love you
And when the action has all gone
I'm just a little fool enough to need you
Fool enough too long
Only when you leave, you'll leave in danger
Oh, I'll make sure that you pay
So give a little passion to a stranger
And take this soul away
I only want to make this things last,
So how could this have gone so fast?
And now you're leaving...
How many times must I learn?
It' s only when you've gone that I burn,
And now you're leaving...
In the end, all that I left has come unbearable
It's hard to change your mind,
So leave it all behind
Only when you leave
I need to love you
And when the action has all gone
I'm just a little fool enough to need you
Fool enough too long
Only when you leave, you'll leave in danger
Oh, I'll make sure that you pay
So give a little passion to a stranger
And take this soul away



All comments from YouTube:

Kenneth Robinson

Holy crap!! Tony never got the respect he deserved for his amazing vocals!! Wow. This performance was epic back then and now I really appreciate this group and Tony's vocals.

cyclist7s

Unfortunately not a one of these guys is left in the band!!!!! Spandau ballet is no longer spandau ballet!!!!! What a bunch of B. S.!!!!!!! Just another case of people not being able to get along with each other and everyone that was a fan of theirs has to suffer!!!!!! They were great!!!!!!!!

Laurence Music & Sights 🎶

I was only 16, in France, they were an underrated band, despite the rumours, the diamant voice of the singer could go on and on during a whole concert, no fake, pure talent. Still fascinated by his solo albums

Fck Uyo

17 in Australia, Live Aid blew me away.

Laurence Music & Sights 🎶

You are damn so lucky as I ve exchanged here about mind blowing Freddie Mercury s performance at Live Aid. I m French, living at 12 km from the Eurockéennes site at the bottom of the Vosges Mountain range...warm greetings

Fck Uyo

@Laurence Music & Sights 🎶 It was pretty amazing for a country boy living in the sticks, not that there's been much to top it in the interim...

Laurence Music & Sights 🎶

Oups the chip was invented in 1974 I guess, remembering my daddy...wikipedia SOS

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Denise Gore

Such a pure voice. He sounds as great live as he does on a recording. That just doesn't happen.

Chiara Scura

Agree…!!

Giorgia Rozza

He sounds like if he was in playback!

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