Sorry is the Hardest Word
Elton John Lyrics


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What do I gotta do to make you love me?
What do I gotta do to make you care?
What do I do when lightning strikes me?
And awake to find that you're not there?

What do I do to make you want me?
What have I gotta do to be heard?
What do I say when it's all over?
And sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad (so sad), so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad (so sad), so sad
Why can't we talk it over?
Oh, it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad (so sad), so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad (so sad), so sad
Why can't we talk it over?
Oh, it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me? Oh
What have I gotta do to be heard?
What do I do when lightning strikes me?
What've I gotta do?




What've I gotta do?
Ooh, when sorry seems to be the hardest word

Overall Meaning

Elton John's song "Sorry is the Hardest Word" is a poignant exploration of the inability to communicate effectively with someone we love. The song opens with the singer wondering what they must do to make their partner love them, care for them, and want them. The lyrics suggest that the singer is at a loss, unable to figure out what they are doing wrong despite their best efforts, and are feeling lost and alone.


In the chorus, the singer expresses how sad the situation is, highlighting that the difficulty in apologizing seems to be increasing with time. The singer yearns for a chance to talk to their partner, but it seems like there is no hope for reconciliation.


The song serves as a reminder of the importance of communication in relationships, and how getting past the pride that often comes with admitting fault and apologizing can be difficult. It also emphasizes that sometimes even when efforts are made to apologize and make amends, it may not be enough to repair the hurt.


Line by Line Meaning

What have I got to do to make you love me
What actions must I take to earn your love?


What have I got to do to make you care
What must I do to gain your concern?


What do I do when lightning strikes me
How do I cope when unexpected and unfavorable events occur?


And I wake to find that you're not there?
How do I manage when I realize that you are missing from my life?


What have I got to do to make you want me
What do I need to do to make you desire me?


What have I got to do to be heard
What measures do I need to take to make you listen to me?


What do I say when it's all over?
What words express my regret and remorse when it's too late?


And sorry seems to be the hardest word
Apologizing is difficult and seems to be the toughest option.


It's sad, so sad (so sad)
The situation is tragic, sorrowful, and disheartening.


It's a sad, sad situation
This is an unhappy and tragic predicament.


And it's getting more and more absurd
The situation is becoming increasingly more ridiculous and unreasonable.


Why can't we talk it over?
Can't we communicate with each other to resolve this?


Oh it seems to me
In my view or opinion,


That sorry seems to be the hardest word
Apologizing is difficult and seems to be the toughest option.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Tratore
Written by: Elton John, Bernard J.P. Taupin

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@lauryliepolito52

"Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word"

What have I got to do to make you love me
What have I got to do to make you care
What do I do when lightning strikes me
And I wake to find that you're not there

What do I do to make you want me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I say when it's all over
And sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad, so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad, so sad
Why can't we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I do when lightning strikes me
What have I got to do
What have I got to do
When sorry seems to be the hardest word



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@Cociobladereviews

Who's here because it's a good song?

@jamesnialG

No, I'm here because I am in a very sad situation and this popped into my head.

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I´m here because of the movie.

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@SoftRockMusic88

I believe that somewhere in the world, there are people who feel the same emotions that I feel when I listen to masterpieces like this song.

@GODDESS1966

It's 6:56 p.m. Friday 12/22/2023. I'm listening to this song from NJ USA. Holidays are fast approaching and the love of my life of 10 years just died on 10/1/23 of pancreatic cancer. I'm feeling sorry for myself and a bit lonely so I'm doing the rounds of sad classic songs. So at the moment of my typing this, there may in fact be someone grieving the loss of a loved one like me while listening to this song. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year SoftRockMusic88.

@mariaglowacz1940

Miliony ludzi slucha .

@kcaviatrix

I have goosebumps in every part of my body!

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