05 Big Boys
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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I am starting to function
In the usual way
Everything is so provocative
Very very, temporary

I shall walk (I shall walk)
Out of this place (out of this place)
I shall walk
Out on you
'Cause you go silly
If she's willing
Trying so hard to be like the big boys

So you take her to the pictures
Trying to become a fixture
Inch by inch trying to reach her
All the way through the second feature
Worrying about your physical fitness
Tell me how you got this sickness, oh ohhhh

I was caught in the suction
By a face like a truncheon
I was down upon one knee
Stroking her vanity

I was stuck on a hammerhead
I came alive and left for dead
As my face returned to red
Choking on my pride and pity

We can talk (we can talk)
Until your face is blue ('til your face is blue)
We can talk but she'll get to you
After you've been loved and hated
By the ones you've watched and waited
Found that they were overrated

She'll be the one, when the party's over
She'll be the one, when the girls have gone home
She'll be the one, that you'll wish you'd held onto
She'll be the one, but it's too late for you to
She'll be the one, who knows all your history
She'll be the one

So you can cross her off your list
And you try so hard
And you try so hard




And you try so hard
To be like the big boys, oh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elvis Costello's "Big Boys" describe a young man's futile attempts to impress a woman who he believes is "all the way through the second feature" with him. He is "trying so hard to be like the big boys" and fit in with the crowd, but ultimately realizes that he is not like them and cannot compete. He decides to walk away from the situation, recognizing that it is temporary and the girl is not worth his time. He warns the girl's eventual suitor that she will be the one he regrets letting go, but by then it will be "too late." The lyrics touch on themes of fitting in, insecurity, and the inevitable regret that comes with missed opportunities.


The first interesting fact about "Big Boys" is that it was the opening track on Elvis Costello's breakout 1977 album "My Aim is True." The album announced Costello as a major new voice in the punk rock scene and helped to define the sound of the late 70s.


"Big Boys" features prominent backing vocals from the female trio The Cloverettes, who Costello met while recording the album. They would go on to appear on several of his subsequent records.


The song's lyrics were inspired by Costello's experience of observing a man trying too hard to impress a woman at a bar. He later said that he had been that guy himself in the past.


The song features Costello's distinctive wordplay and use of internal rhymes, as evidenced in the line "I was caught in the suction / By a face like a truncheon."


"Big Boys" was never released as a single in the UK, but it was issued as a promo single in the United States.


The song was covered by punk band The Boomtown Rats on their 1978 album "A Tonic for the Troops."


In 2003, Costello rerecorded the song with his backing band The Attractions for the box set "The Costello Show: The King of America."


"Big Boys" has remained a favorite of Costello's fans and has been played in most of his live shows over the years.


The song appears on several of Costello's career-spanning compilations, including "The Best of Elvis Costello and the Attractions" and "The Very Best of Elvis Costello."


While the exact chord progression of "Big Boys" is not available, it is known to be in the key of G and features a driving rhythm guitar part.


Line by Line Meaning

I am starting to function
I am beginning to operate normally


In the usual way
In the typical manner


Everything is so provocative
Everything is stimulating, tempting and exciting


Very very, temporary
Very very limited time duration


I shall walk (I shall walk)
I will leave (I will leave)


Out of this place (out of this place)
I will go away from this location (I will go away from this location)


I shall walk
I will depart


Out on you
I will leave you behind


'Cause you go silly
Because you act crazy and irrational


If she's willing
If she is agreeable and compliant


Trying so hard to be like the big boys
Making a great effort to imitate the adult males


So you take her to the pictures
So you take her to the movies


Trying to become a fixture
Trying to become a regular presence in her life


Inch by inch trying to reach her
Slowly and gradually trying to get to her


All the way through the second feature
All the way through the second movie


Worrying about your physical fitness
Concerned about your physical well-being


Tell me how you got this sickness, oh ohhhh
Explain to me how you became this ill, oh ohhhh


I was caught in the suction
I was trapped in the pull


By a face like a truncheon
By a face that is hard and heavy like a police baton


I was down upon one knee
I was kneeling down


Stroking her vanity
Flattering her ego


I was stuck on a hammerhead
I was stuck on a stubborn and slow-witted person


I came alive and left for dead
I felt alive at one moment and felt hopeless the next moment


As my face returned to red
As my face turned back to its original color


Choking on my pride and pity
Feeling overwhelmed with a combination of arrogance and regret


We can talk (we can talk)
We can communicate (we can communicate)


Until your face is blue ('til your face is blue)
Until you are out of breath (until you are out of breath)


We can talk but she'll get to you
We can communicate but she will have an impact on you


After you've been loved and hated
After you have been both adored and rejected


By the ones you've watched and waited
By the people you have observed and anticipated


Found that they were overrated
Realized that they were not as impressive as thought


She'll be the one, when the party's over
She will be the one during the aftermath of the party


She'll be the one, when the girls have gone home
She will be the one when the ladies have left the event


She'll be the one, that you'll wish you'd held onto
She will be the one that you will regret not keeping close to you


She'll be the one, but it's too late for you to
She will be the one, but it will be beyond the point for you


She'll be the one, who knows all your history
She will be the one who is aware of all your past events


So you can cross her off your list
So you can remove her from your mental record


And you try so hard
And you make so much effort


To be like the big boys, oh
To resemble the adult males, oh




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO

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