I Wanna Be Loved
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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Why must I be so lonely?
When so many people pass me by
I've been waiting for oh so long now
And yet I'm unable to answer why
I can't be made to give up now
Can you find room for me
In your heart somehow?
I wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved

I guess I'm a victim of loneliness
But why should this be my destiny?
A foolish man for a lot of my life
Shouldn't there be someone
Someone for me?
I hope and I pray some happy day
That I'll be around to hear you say




I wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Elvis Costello's "I Wanna Be Loved" are about the universal human longing to be loved and the loneliness that comes with feeling unwanted. The song begins with a sense of confusion and alienation, as the singer asks why they are unable to connect with others despite being surrounded by people. They express a sense of resignation, feeling as though they are destined to be alone, and wonder if there will ever be someone who can fill the void in their heart.


The lyrics then shift to a more hopeful tone, as the singer imagines a future in which they are loved by someone. They long for a day when they will no longer feel like a "victim of loneliness" and when there will finally be "someone for [them]." Despite the sadness and desperation in the lyrics, there is also a sense of resilience and determination, as the singer insists that they "can't be made to give up now" and asks for a chance to be loved.


Overall, "I Wanna Be Loved" is a poignant and relatable exploration of the universal human need for love and the pain of feeling alone. It captures the longing and uncertainty that many people feel at some point in their lives, and offers a glimmer of hope for those who are still searching for love.


Line by Line Meaning

Why must I be so lonely?
I feel incredibly lonely even though there are many people around me.


When so many people pass me by
I don't understand why no one seems interested in me as a person.


I've been waiting for oh so long now
I've spent a lot of time hoping to find someone to love.


And yet I'm unable to answer why
But I still can't figure out why I haven't found anyone yet.


I can't be made to give up now
Despite my loneliness, I refuse to give up on finding love.


Can you find room for me
Would you be willing to make space for me in your heart?


In your heart somehow?
Is there any way you could love me?


I wanna be loved
I desire to experience the feeling of being loved by someone.


I just wanna be loved
I simply want to feel loved and accepted by someone else.


I guess I'm a victim of loneliness
I think that I'm suffering from loneliness, and I don't know what to do about it.


But why should this be my destiny?
I wonder why I'm fated to be alone and unhappy.


A foolish man for a lot of my life
I feel like I've made a lot of mistakes in my past that have led me to this place.


Shouldn't there be someone
I can't help but feel like there must be someone out there for me, even though I haven't found them yet.


Someone for me?
Is there one person who would be interested in being with me?


I hope and I pray some happy day
I'm hopeful that someday soon, things will start to look up for me.


That I'll be around to hear you say
And I hope that when that day comes, I'll be there to hear you tell me that you love me.


I wanna be loved
Because that's all I really want, after all: to be loved.


I just wanna be loved
I don't think it's too much to ask for someone to show me some love.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: FARNELL G. JENKINS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Oliviacaptain

Why must I be so lonely?
When so many people pass me by
I've been waiting for oh so long now
And yet I'm unable to answer why
I can't be made to give up now
Can you find room for me
In your heart somehow?
I wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved

I guess I'm a victim of loneliness
But why should this be my destiny?
A foolish man for a lot of my life
Shouldn't there be someone
Someone for me?
I hope and I pray some happy day
That I'll be around to hear you say
I wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved



All comments from YouTube:

@derrickbrady9816

Oh I know I’m late to the party here, but I still remember how groundbreaking this video was when it first came out in the late eighties . Having Elvis sing an octave lower from over the original track and seeing the set go from B&W to colour every time he’s kissed blew my mind in the most eloquent and profound way . A golden era of music videos !!

@goofygirl5576

I watched this last night and it just about broke my heart. I truly understand that kind of loneliness. Some years ago my husband told me we could no longer have a physical relationship. I didn't know that it would lead to everything ending-kissing, hugging, everything. And I can't leave because he has been diagnosed with cancer. But it is still a lonely life. So I understand the tears because I've cried those, too.

@diethylether9218

I wish you the best :-(

@danfoster-hy8mo

Hold on tight, goof

@michellebrown9520

Criminally underrated song!

@stevejarred6484

And everyone has felt like they’re been in Elvis’ shoes in this video - Sad 😞 and obvious to someone who might like to love ❤️ them!

@littleblackcloud86

This is just the most beautiful song ever written.

@rattyeely

Why is he usually such a over-the-top actor, but here he manages to portray despair and loneliness so well and so sublely

@samuelward1148

Divorce. Didn't have to act.

@lambchop33

Growing up my dad had a VHS tape of the Attractions’ greatest hits through the 80s and this was one of the music videos contained on the tape. I could never understand it, the slow burn of the song and the fleeting intimacy of the video until I rediscovered the song in my 20s. Easily one of the group’s most emotional songs in my opinion. Never gets old

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