The Play
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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It's not open to discussion anymore
He's out again tonight and I'm alone once more
He's all I have worth waiting for
But baby plays around
And so it seems I've always been the last to know
To hold on to that girl, I had to let her go
I wish to God I didn't love her so
'Cos baby plays around

I try to be strong hold on to my pride
He doesn't even know it's wrong, how much
I hurt inside
And heaven knows I've tried
But baby plays around. Just a plaything
It's hard to reconcile the facts I'm facing

It's not open to discussion anymore
She walks those shiny streets
I walk the worn out floor




She's all I have worth living for
Baby plays, baby plays around

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Baby Plays Around by Elvis Costello and Bill Frisel tell a story of unrequited love, where the singer is in love with someone who continually plays around with their feelings. The opening lines suggest a level of resignation that this is the status quo: "It's not open to discussion anymore, he's out again tonight, and I'm alone once more." Despite this, the singer continues to hold out hope, as they believe their love interest is worth waiting for.


The chorus introduces the titular phrase, "baby plays around," which serves as a refrain, while the following lines recount how oblivious or uncaring the object of affection seems to be towards the singer's suffering. The sense of powerlessness and frustration is palpable in lyrics like "I try to be strong, hold on to my pride, he doesn't even know it's wrong, how much I hurt inside," and the repetition of the phrase "but baby plays around" at the end of each verse reinforces the sense of being trapped in an unfortunate situation.


Interpreting the song, one can see how toxic relationships are often hard to let go of, even when everyone around us can sense that it's probably in our best interests to do so. Despite the pain, the singer can't shake off their attachment, as it's all they have worth living (or in this case waiting) for. Ultimately, the song is a poignant reflection on the power struggles and emotional games that can inform our romantic relationships, and how difficult it can be to let go of someone we love, even if they don't reciprocate our feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

It's not open to discussion anymore
There is no point in arguing about it anymore, my partner is out again tonight and I'm left alone, as usual.


He's out again tonight and I'm alone once more
My partner is out again tonight and I am left alone once more.


He's all I have worth waiting for
Out of everyone in my life, he's the only one who is worth waiting for.


But baby plays around
Unfortunately, he does tend to cheat on me.


And so it seems I've always been the last to know
I always seem to be the last person to find out about his infidelity.


To hold on to that girl, I had to let her go
I had to let go of my partner's previous lover to keep him.


I wish to God I didn't love her so
Sometimes I wish I didn't love him so much, because it hurts too much.


'Cos baby plays around
Because he tends to cheat on me.


I try to be strong hold on to my pride
I try to be strong and hold onto my self-respect.


He doesn't even know it's wrong, how much I hurt inside
He doesn't even realize how much his cheating hurts me.


And heaven knows I've tried
I have tried my best to make it work.


But baby plays around. Just a plaything
But he continues to cheat, treating me like a toy to play with.


It's hard to reconcile the facts I'm facing
It's tough for me to come to terms with the reality of my situation.


She walks those shiny streets, I walk the worn out floor
He is out enjoying himself while I am stuck at home, feeling sad.


She's all I have worth living for
Out of everyone in my life, he is the only one who gives me a reason to keep going.


Baby plays, baby plays around
He continues to cheat and treat me poorly.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: COSTELLO, ELVIS / O'RIORDAN, CAIT

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@tomodonovan5931

The fact that you are typing this today says that you have pulled through
all of that BS. To me, that is a great achievement on your part. Costello
only did a small part in helping you deal with reality. In 1979, you found
out that you were grown up. No more peanut butter and jelly sandwiches
in your school lunch box. Life was starting to get a little more complicated.
We both graduated the same year. So we and others the same age were
dealing with the same issues that life throws in your direction. And that
was an uncertain future! Nobody without a crystal ball has any idea what
it holds. And that is something a young person has to worry about. But first
you have to prove to the adults around you that you can handle it. Parents,
Teachers, and Bosses, or Managers. It would have been much easier to just
put this album on a turntable and let it spin forever, but something tells me
you were not cut out to sit and watch a spinning turntable forever. You had
to take off the headphones and make a decent living somehow. Now it's
time to really enjoy Costello. You've dealt with the BS , and now have the time
to watch that turntable spin for a little while.



@tomodonovan5931

@@giovannaparente917 We all know those years are gone forever. But music?
No. There may not be the wave of great music from those decades, but
sometimes if you listen closely, you may hear the ripple of a good song here,
and there. Listen to what the kids are listening to. Sometimes you find
yourself asking who is that? They do the same thing when they hear a
song that you listened to years before they came into this world. I had a few
co-workers who were into Rap music. They formed a band and invited me to
their first concert. I knew it was their passion in life, and once I got over the
shock of being frisked before I got into the venue, I actually enjoyed the
experience. They opened for The Notorious B.I.G. I got to go to the greenroom
after two or three security checks, and it was all Los Angeles back there.
Diamond rings and Diamond things all over the place. Rich, and stylish cultured
males, and very beautiful females. Friendly, yet very curious about me being there.
The point is, I am always fascinated by culture. If it is music, art, tradition, I always
remember to be respectful when discovering it. Maybe my co-workers did not succeed
in their musical dreams, but they succeeded in opening my eyes to a new and positive
experience. You don't have to travel to another country to see, or hear new things. They
can be closer then you think.



@worldlyconcerns

As I walk through
This wicked world
Searchin' for light in the darkness of insanity.
I ask myself
Is all hope lost?
Is there only pain and hatred, and misery?
And each time I feel like this inside,
There's one thing I want to know:
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding? Ohhhh
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?

And as I walked on
Through troubled times
My spirit gets so downhearted sometimes
So where are the strong
And who are the trusted?
And where is the harmony?
Sweet harmony.
'Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me want to cry.
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding? Ohhhh
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?

So where are the strong?
And who are the trusted?
And where is the harmony?
Sweet harmony.
'Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me want to cry.
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding? Ohhhh
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding? Ohhhh
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?



All comments from YouTube:

@ronaldzent6321

This song should be BLASTED everyday during every meeting at the UN General Assembly and at the White House and both halls of legislation!!!

@paulpliakas3000

Great idea!!!!

@bryonmollica

We need this more than ever today

@jeffthompson6431

I'm playing this song over and over again during these horrible times. Thank you Elvis and Nick for your beautiful work.

@doughusen1806

This AM it was on my mind too!

@ExPatinUK

Better times are coming. Especially if we are still watching this

@mariec.9102

☮️❤️"So where are the strong and who are the trusted?" That line means so much 40 years later. I'm 55 and happy I bought this album when I was 14.

@earthdakini

Me too this song was on my mind today, just had to have a listen this evening.

@jeffthompson6431

@@mariec.9102 I bought it when I was 18. I still have it and the single it came with. Super Great Record.

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@eleanorgiblin5800

Could any song be more timely, or timeless?

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